Yini okufanele ugqoke ngomshado womngane?

Umshado ozayo uzobangela izinkathazo eziningi hhayi kuphela kwabashadayo, kodwa nangenxa yezivakashi. Futhi uma, umngane wakho omkhulu ushade, khona-ke umthwalo wemithwalo wemfanelo ukwandisa kabili. Ubhekene nokukhetha okunzima: "yini ongayinika umngane wakho omkhulu?" Futhi "yini ongayigqoka ngomshado womngane?".

Ake sicabange mayelana nokuqala ngezingubo zakho zesikhathi esizayo. Kunomthetho owodwa owodwa - i-tab: umbala omhlophe wengubo uvunyelwe kuphela kumakoti. Lona ngumkhosi wakhe futhi ngiyaqiniseka ukuthi umakoti uzocasuka kakhulu uma ungumngane omkhulu, eze emkhosini wokuphila kwakhe egqoke ezimhlophe bese uzama ukumcisha. Ungabi nobugovu, usize umngane wakho uzizwe njengesizinda somhlaba wonke!

Futhi, ungasikhuthazi ukugqoka ngengubo emnyama. Awusanga emngcwabeni. Uhlobo oluhle kunabo bonke ingubo noma isambatho sombala obala. Lapha ungafaka ingqondo yakho bese ukhetha umthunzi wengubo yombala ozogcizelela sonke isithunzi sakho.

Ngomshado ngamunye, izivakashi ziphoqeleka ukuba zihlanganyele emincintiswaneni ehlukahlukene. Ngezinye izikhathi kufanele ugijime, ugijime noma udonse i-twist enamandla. Ngakho-ke, cabanga ngokucophelela ukuthi izicathulo ozigqoka uzithini. Lapha ungakwazi ukweluleka izinketho ezimbili: kungaba izicathulo ezikhululekile ngezithende eziphansi, noma uthathe izinguquko zezicathulo, ongayigqoka uma uhlanganyela emncintiswaneni weselula.

Ukucabanga ngombuzo wokuthi yini ongayigqoka ngomshado wezintombi, futhi uma ukhetha ukugqoka, khumbula ukuthi akudingeki ubheke njengomuthi kaKhisimusi. Bonisa ukuthi unayo ukunambitheka. Futhi, izesekeli, nokuhlobisa kufanele zikhethwe ukuze zihlanganiswe ngokuphelele neyindlu yangasese ekhethiwe.

Isikhumba sesibili sowesifazane yiphunga lakhe. Ukukhetha iphunga lomcimbi obalulekile njengomshado womngani omkhulu, ayikho imingcele. Kukhona "kodwa": ungahlukumezi ngenani. Ngicabanga ukuthi wena ngokwakho ngeke ukhululeke kakhulu uma iphunga lakho lempepho lizophazamisa wonke ama-aroma wezitsha ezinhle futhi, omakhelwane etafuleni bazophendukela ekuqondeni kwakho, baphazamise izindwangu zabo. Ukunaka okunjalo kumuntu wakho ngeke kukujabulise kakhulu.

Enye into edingekayo emshadweni iyikhanda ongayifaka esikhwameni esincane. Umshado uyisikhathi esithinta kakhulu futhi esibalulekile empilweni yabashadile, izihlobo zabo nabangane. Phakathi nomkhosi, kungenzeka ukuthi awukwazi ukubhekana nemizwa nemizwelo igxile - futhi ukhale. Kungaphansi kwalesi simo, uzosiza esitolo esilondolozwe kusengaphambili.

Ukukhetha isembatho somcimbi womshado kanye nekhanda, ukuqoqa imihlobiso, khumbula ukuthi usuku lonke njengoba umshado uhlala, wena nazo zonke ezinye izivakashi uzobe ubona amakhamera namakhamera. Ngakho-ke, ngokucophelela nokucwaninga okukhethekile, thinta umbuzo wokubukeka kwakho. Ngakho kamuva, lapho yonke imidwebo isilungele futhi ihlakazeka ezandleni zalabo bonke abakhona emshadweni, akudingeki ukuba ukhulule ukubonakala kwakho okunganaki.

Uma, emshadweni womngane wakho omkhulu, unendima yokufakaza. Khona-ke, ingubo yokugubha imikhosi kufanele futhi ikhethwe hhayi emhlophe hhayi emnyama. Isitayela sezambatho zofakazi kufanele sihlanganiswe nesitayela sezingubo zabashadayo. Kodwa, izingubo zakho, ofakazi abathandekayo, akufanele kube lula kunesidlo somakoti nesigqila somakoti.

Uma umenyiwe endimeni yomfakazi, yiba nesiqiniseko sokuletha isikhwama esikhwameni somlomo kanye nephunga elimangalisa wena nomlobokazi; isitiki, kuphela amakhophi amabili; uma kungenzeka, thatha nemithi ezosiza ngezinsizwa noma izifo zesisu. Njengoba uyazi, ufakazi uyisandla sokunene somlobokazi, ngakho-ke uma umfazi wesikhathi esizayo enezinkinga ezihlobene nokubukeka noma isimo sempilo, kufanele ube khona njalo.