Izibalo azitholakali futhi inani lezingane ezibalekela ekhaya alinciphisi unyaka nonyaka. Abazali abaningi bakhononda ngombuso, ithonya elibi emgwaqweni, njll. Bathi, yingakho ingane yabo ibalekile ekhaya, kodwa bambalwa abazishaya icala, noma kunalokho bangasebenzi. Izinyunyana ziya kumqondisi wezokwelapha, futhi angaqagela ukuthi kungani ingane ibalekile futhi inikeza izeluleko nezincomo.
Ngakho-ke, konke okwenzeka kumntwana ongu-100% kuxhomeke kubazali bakhe nokuba khona komuntu ohlala ecabangela futhi emkhathalela ngaso sonke isikhathi. Uma umuntu onjalo engekho eduze komntwana, khona-ke isimo sezimali kanye nezinhlangano ezibhekene nezingane ngeke sikwazi ukukhetha omunye umzali noma sibe nomsebenzi womuntu okhathalela ingane. Izingane zizwela kakhulu futhi uma zibona ukuthi akekho ozidingayo, ziqala ukuziphatha njengabo.
Abazali abajwayelekile bayazi ukuthi yini futhi kuphi ingane yabo eyenzekayo futhi ingakwazi ukubikezela ngokunembile ukuthi uzoziphatha kanjani kulokhu noma leso simo. Uma kungekho ubuhlobo bokuthembela nokuthintana ngokomzwelo phakathi kwengane nomama noma ubaba, kunesifo esinjalo njengezintandane zomphakathi. Ukuqhubeka kulokhu, kubonakala sengathi izingane zigijima lapho, lapho zingadingeki khona, ngethemba lokuthi indawo ethile izoba yizidingo. Izingane ezingenakho ukuxhumana kwengqondo nabazali babo, ezimweni eziningi ziwela ezinkampanini ezimbi, ngoba akekho obabhekayo, futhi abanayo indlela yokuzihlola yangaphakathi.
Abanandaba nanoma ubani futhi abaqeqeshiwe ukuqapha nokuxhumanisa izenzo zabo ngokususelwa kumanani avamile omuntu nomndeni.
Ngakho-ke, ake sibheke izizathu eziyinhloko ezenza izingane ziphume ekhaya.
- Ukwelashwa kabi ngumholi phakathi kwezizathu zokuthi kungani ingane ibalekela ekhaya. Lena yinkinga ejwayelekile futhi evamile kakhulu, futhi uma ngaphambili abazali babe nezizathu ezimbalwa zokushaya ingane, manje ngenxa yokuthi umuntu wanamuhla kufanele axazulule nsuku zonke izinkulungwane zezinkinga, uyaba nomsindo futhi uvame ukuqhukuthelisa intukuthelo yakhe engavinjelwe kakhulu futhi buthakathaka, okungukuthi, enganeni.
- "Umlomo owengeziwe . " Ubumpofu yisinye isizathu esenza izingane zizinqume ngesinyathelo esinjalo esingathí sina, ngoba zibalekela futhi zicabange ukuthi indawo ethile zizophila kangcono futhi zizoba nakho konke.
- Ukulahlekelwa komthwalo wemfanelo . Ngaphambili, ukwahlukana akuhlonishwa, futhi isikhungo somndeni sasinobudlova, umbuso wawunakekela futhi wawunamathela kakhulu, akekho owayengamele isikhungo somndeni, kwakungakho abagcini bezingcingo ababengeke balahlwe ngaphambili, ngenxa yalokho, ingane ayibhekanga umndeni, hhayi esikoleni, noma ezingxenyeni, futhi usele kuye. Ingane ayitholi lutho (ayikho imali, leso sikhathi), ngakho uyagijima.
- Baleka njengesivivinyo . Ingane iqala ukuzindla ngokuphila ngaphandle kwabazali, akubalulekile ukuthi ngabe bafa noma kuphi lapho belahlekile, ngenkathi besaba ukwesaba nokuphepha. Ezimweni eziningi, ngaphambi kokuba kusetshenziswe ukuphunyuka kokuhlola, akufinyeleli noma ingane iyayiqaphela kancane ngokwakhiwa kwendawo ethile. Ekhaya lakhe lesikhashana, ingane iphupha ngokuphila ngaphandle kokulawulwa kwabazali, kepha ekugcineni iba yinkimbinkimbi ngenxa yokuthi kubanda, futhi kuyinto enhle kakhulu ukuhlala ekhaya, ngoba abazali bayocabanga ngakho konke futhi abanakho ukukhathazeka futhi kuhle ukuba ngumntwana .
- Balekela njengombhikisho . Lolu hlobo lokuphunyuka kwengane lubangelwa ukuvela kwesimo sokungqubuzana phakathi kwengane nabazali, noma owokuqala nje enganaki ukunakekelwa okuyisisekelo. Ingane ifuna ukujezisa umuntu omdala owamangalela ngokungafanele, kepha njengoba engenazo izinsiza, uphupha ukugijima, ukuze wonke umuntu alahleke futhi akhala ngaye. Ngokuvamile abantwana bagijima besuka esimweni sabo sezenhlalakahle, okungukuthi, bafuna ukuphila ngokuvumelana nabacebile. Lokhu kwasekuqaleni, lapho bonke bebalinganisekile emphakathini kwakungekho okuningi okuphunyukayo, kuphela emadolobheni amakhulu, namuhla izingane zifuna impilo engcono enhloko-dolobha, lapho abantu behamba khona behamba ngezimoto ezibizayo futhi bengakwazi ukukhokhela okuningi. Kulokhu, ukuphunyuka akuyona into eyonakalisa ukudakwa nezidakamizwa, okuyingxenye ebalulekile yokuphila kwezingane emgwaqweni. Ngokuvamile, labo abakholelwa kokuthile babalekela ...
- Okwesithathu kokuzijabulisa . Izingane, kokubili ezivela emaphumelelweni hhayi emindenini, zifisa izifiso, kodwa ezimbalwa zazo zibandakanya ukoma kwazo ezenzweni empilweni yangempela. Ikakhulukazi ukuthuthukiswa kwezinkanuko zezingane kukhuthazwa amafilimu nama-movie adventure, lapho yonke into enemibala kakhulu futhi ekhanyayo, futhi okubaluleke kakhulu - engaqondakali futhi ichazwe ngokuningiliziwe, yindlela izingane eziya ngayo inganekwane. Izingane ezinjalo ezinokuzibuza nokuzethemba zivame ukutholakala ngosuku lokuqala futhi zithunyelwe kubazali bazo.
- Balekela ngaphandle kwesisusa . Manje, ngeshwa, inani lamahlumela asuka endlini liyakhula ngokuphelele ngaphandle kwesisusa, njengaleyo. Izingane ezitholakala emgwaqweni azi ukuthi kungani lokhu kwenzeka, kodwa kungcono kakhulu ukuhola impilo yangasese kunokuhlala emndenini ojwayelekile futhi ukuya esikoleni.
Ungesabi ukukhuluma nengane yakho mayelana nokuphunyuka, kodwa ngokuphambene, kufanele umtshele ngalokho okuhlangenwe nakho kwakho noma mayelana nesipiliyoni somngane ophelile kahle. Ukumchazela ukuthi ukuphunyuka akuyona okubi kakhulu, uma kucatshangwa futhi kulinganiswa futhi sekuzibophezele kakade esekhulile, ukuthi izinyathelo nezinyathelo ezinkulu zidingeke zicatshangelwe. Isibonelo, ukuthola umkhumbi emphakathini wezinto eziphakeme, udinga ukuphuma endaweni yakho ephansi yomphakathi, udinga ukuthola imfundo efanele bese uhamba emhlabeni jikelele.
Ingane engxoxweni nawe kufanele ikhulume ngemicabango yakho kule ndaba futhi mhlawumbe uzofunda ukuthi umngane wakhe uhlela ukubalekela ekhaya bese ubiza ingane yakho naye. Kulesi simo, kudingeka ngandlela-thile ukhulume ngokukhululekile nabazali bomntwana ozobalekela, ngenkathi ungakhohlwa ukuthi ingane yakho ikutshele yona ngasese.
Ngenkathi ingxoxo yalesi sihloko nengane kufanele igxile emizwa yabazali bomntwana owabalekela ekhaya, ngoba abhekene nakho, kodwa balinde umbaleki wabo. Abazitholi izindawo futhi balinde ukubalekela, ngokuqinisekile bayothukuthela, kodwa kamuva, futhi lapho behlangana bayojabula kakhulu ukubona ingane yabo, ngoba bayamthanda kakhulu.
Kubaluleke kakhulu ukuchazela ingane inqubo yokubuyisela umbaleki, okungukuthi, ukuthi uzothunyelwa kubaphathi bokugcinwa, amaphoyisa azondla, acele ikheli labazali futhi azise ekhaya.
Ngemuva kwengxoxo enjalo, i-halo yemfihlakalo izophela, futhi ukuphunyuka kuzolahlekelwa ukuheha kwayo.
Ungakhohlwa ukuthi kudingeka uqaphele njalo ingane yakho, okungukuthi, ukulawula isikhathi lapho ebuyela ekhaya, ukuze agcine lo mhlangano. Uma ingane ingagcini izwi layo futhi ibuyele ngesikhathi esimisiwe, lokhu kuyisizathu sokukhathazeka futhi udinga ukuyibuza ngokuningiliziwe ukuthi uyini futhi kuphi futhi uyayithakazelisa kuye, futhi umeme abangane bakhe ukuba bathethe itiye. Ukuphunyuka kuyindaba engathí sina futhi ngokuvamile izingane ziqeqeshwe kuqala ngaphambi kokuthatha isinyathelo esinjalo esinesibopho.
Futhi ekugcineni. Uma ingane iqala ukukubuza mayelana ngentambo, ukufanisa, isikhwama sokulala, njll, qiniseka ukuthi umbuze ukuthi kungani enesithakazelo esinjalo, ngoba lokhu kuyisignali ecacile kokuthile okungekho emusa.