Ukuhlukunyezwa kweSikole: ngubani okufanele abekwe icala nokuthi yini okumelwe akwenze?

"Uma behleka usulu, akuyona iphutha lakho, kodwa kuyinkinga yakho," kusho owake waba yisisulu u-Aj Mairok, ingane yesikole. Uyazi kuqala ukuthi kunzima kangakanani ukushiywa yedwa phakathi kwabanontanga abanobudlova. Ukusiza abafundi abazithola besesimweni esifanayo, u-Aidzha wabhala incwadi ethi "Kungani mina? Umlando we-crow crow. "

Izingane zivame ukunika omunye umuntu esikoleni ekilasini labo abaphuma esikoleni, futhi lokhu kungabhubhisa kakhulu impilo yengane ebuthakathaka. Futhi esimweni esibi kunazo zonke - kuphele ekuhluphekeni. Phela, kunamacala amaningi lapho intsha izinikela ukuzibulala, ngoba usuku ngalunye bahlukunyezwa yiontanga. U-Aija uchazela labo abahlukumezekile, ukuthi akufanelekile ukulalela abahlukumezi futhi befuna imbangela yokulwa phakathi kwabo: "Kubonakala sengathi kukhona okuthile okucasula wonke umuntu nokuthi udinga ukuqeda lesi sici. Yebo, lokho akuhambisani nabo? Izwi lami? Isikhumba? Isibalo? Uthole? Umbala wezinwele? Izingubo? Cha, akusikho lokho. Ngikholelwa, uma uxhashazwa, khona-ke inkinga ayikho kuwe, kodwa kulabo abakuzondayo. Uma uxhashazwa ngoba uhlukile kwabanye, khona-ke abenzi bakho ababi banento engalungile. Abaziqinisekisi ngokwabo ukuthi babeka izinkinga zabo kuwe. " Njengenoma yini enye, i-Aija iyaqonda: uma ubhekene nokukhishwa esikoleni, udinga ukuba uqaphe ngangokunokwenzeka, ngoba ukuvikeleka ngokomzimba nangokwengqondo kuqala kokubili. Ngakho-ke, encwadini yakhe intombazane ichaza indlela yokuziphatha ngayo kwi-intanethi, esikoleni nasemaphathini ukuze kugweme inkinga. Inikeza iseluleko esilula kodwa esibaluleke kakhulu, isibonelo:

• Cwaninga ngokucophelela izilungiselelo zokuphepha nokufinyelela okulinganiselwe kumanethiwekhi omphakathi. Akukho okungaqondakali lapha - abadumile kanye nezibalo zomphakathi ngokuvamile zisebenzisa umkhawulo wokufinyelela emakhasini abo. Abantu abadumile banabalandeli, kodwa kunezitha. Ngakho, phezu kwabo udaka luyadlulela phansi - bangama-comrades akho ngengozi.
• Ngokuvamile othisha abalawuli i-vestibule, futhi njalo kukhona ukushayisana. Ukuqapha: Ncishise isikhathi osichitha kule ndawo yokuvakasha, hamba masinyane. Lokhu kusebenza kunoma iyiphi indawo evulekile lapho ungathintwa khona nenkampani enkulu.
• Ngaphambi kokwamukela isimemo ebusweni ovela kumuntu oneminyaka efanayo, zibuze imibuzo embalwa. Ngizizwa kanjani ngempela ngomuntu ongimemezayo? Uphi le ndlu? Ubani omunye ozoba khona? Kungenzeka yini ukuthi kuzoba nezidakamizwa nophuzo oludakeni? Ingabe othile ekhaya uzoba ekhaya? Umuntu ongimema ukuba avakashele ngempela ungiphathe kahle, noma ngifuna nje ukucabanga kanjalo?

Lo myalelo kufanele ube yiwo wonke umntwana ovele ngokuzumayo waba yisihluthulelo sokuhlaselwa. Kodwa, mhlawumbe, kubaluleke nakakhulu ukumbonisa ukholo kuye. Indaba yomlobi izosiza intsha ukuthi iqonde ukuthi ukuboshwa esikolweni akuyona ukuphela kwezwe. Esikoleni isikole sase-Aija sasizizwa singenasici, kodwa sathola abangane bangempela, sazikwazi ukuzibonela emsebenzini futhi sathola imiklomelo emihle yokubhala. Nakhu okunye akushoyo ngale ndaba: "Uyazi ukuthi odumile abaningi nabo bashushiswa esikoleni? U-Lady Gaga, ngokwesibonelo, wathi ku-interview ukuthi "unezibazi ezishiye impilo". Izinkulungwane zezingane emhlabeni jikelele zihlekwa ukuhlekwa yizingane ezifunda nabo. Futhi abaningi babo ekugcineni baba abantu abaphumelelayo noma abadumile: odokotela, abadlali, ososayensi, abalobi, osombusazwe, abaculi - futhi akekho owaziyo omunye! Yiqiniso, badlula indlela ebuhlungu futhi enzima. Noma kunjalo, ubunzima abukwazi ukuhlala kuze kube phakade. Ungapheli amandla. Unekusasa elihle. "

Kodwa ingabe intombazane ithola kanjani ngempela, uma igozwe izitha futhi ihlale iphefumulela imicabango emnyama ekhanda lakhe? I-Aija iphinda inike impendulo yalo mbuzo. Ukwandisa ukuzethemba nokuzijabulisa, ingane kumele ihlanganyele kulokho ayithandayo: ezemidlalo, ubuciko, izivivinyo zesayensi. Lokhu kuzosiza ukwenza abantu abajwayele ukuxhumana nabo futhi babhekane nezinkinga. U-Ayja weluleka: "Yenza okuthandayo (futhi kungakhathaliseki ukuthi ubani nobani ocabanga). Ukudalulwa kobuciko kungenye yezinzuzo ezinkulu ongayithola ngokusebenzisa izingxabano zesikole. Ubuhlakani bukuyisa ezweni elikhethekile, lapho ungakhohlwa ngakho konke okunye. "

Ukuqala ukubhala incwadi, u-Aija Mirok wayecabanga ngabantwana abanjwe esicupheni esifanayo njengaye. Ingane kufanele yenzeni uma inikwe impi ngaphandle kwesizathu futhi iyancipha ngokuhleka nsuku zonke? Encwadini enomusa futhi enesibindi kakhulu "Kungani mina?" Intsha iyothola kokubili ukusekelwa kokuziphatha nokululekwa okuwusizo kumuntu owazi ngempela ukuthi ukhuluma ngani.