Namuhla sichitha isikhathi eside kakhulu ezweni elibonakalayo. E-intanethi sixhumana nabangane nabantu ababajwayele, bajwayele abantu abasha, ngokuvamile amadoda, futhi abangenangqondo kodwa bephethe ukuhlanganyela ngokocansi.
Ngicabanga ukuthi kukhona yini imithetho ethile yokukhulumisana nokudlala ngothando kwi-Inthanethi noma imithetho esizibeka yona ... E-intanethi, akekho osibona, yingakho kulula ukuxhumana, ikakhulukazi kubantu abanenkinga yokuxhumana ezweni langempela . E-intanethi, abantu abanjalo bakhululiwe. Ngokuvamile kunjalo kunzima umuntu onjalo ukwazi, ukukhuluma naye ezweni elibonakalayo, njengokungathi ubuntu obuhlukile.
Ukuxhumana nge-intanethi kuqukethe imithetho ethile engaqondakali, ukunamathela kuyo yonke into engayikulimaza noma yimuphi umuntu ozihloniphayo.
Kunezindlela eziningi zokuxhumana okungokoqobo. Lezi, okokuqala, amaforamu, izingxoxo, izinhlobonhlobo zezinkomfa, i-imeyili, imidlalo yenethiwekhi nokunye okuningi.
Izindlela eziningi kakhulu zokukhulumisana ngekhompiyutha i-e-mail. Izici zokuxhumana nge-elektroniki zimi kanje:
- ukukhulumisana kubambisene noma iqembu;
- lolu hlobo lokukhulumisana luhlala luhlangene, lapho indima yomxhumanisi ikhompyutha kanye nensizakalo yeposi;
- Ukukhulumisana okubukeka njalo kungaba yi-monologue noma inkhulumomphendvulwano;
- indlela yokuxhumana ingabhalwa noma isetshenziswe ngomlomo (ngenxa yokunamathela kwamafayili alalelwayo);
- isitayela senkulumo ingaba ibhizinisi futhi ikhulunywe, kuze kusetshenziswe isilulumagama esingajwayelekile.
Enye indlela evamile yokukhulumisana ukuxhumana ezinkundleni ezihlukahlukene. Sizohlala kulolu hlelo lokukhulumisana okubonakalayo ngokuningiliziwe. Iforamu iyinhlangano yokwabelana ngolwazi nokuxhumana phakathi kwenani elikhulu labaxhumanisi. On izinkundla ungakwazi ukuxhumana ngezihloko ezihlukahlukene nabantu abahlukene.
Izinzuzo zezingqungquthela ze-Inthanethi ngaphambi kokuxhumana okubukhoma zilandelayo:
- Ungakwazi ukuxhumana nabantu abalungile kunoma iyiphi indawo ehlelekile, nganoma yisiphi isikhathi, endaweni ekhululekile;
- ukusindisa okukhulu kwamandla, isikhathi nemali ngokuhlanganyela eforamu;
- ithuba lokubamba iqhaza kanyekanye ezinkundleni eziningana;
- ikhono lokugwema izimpikiswano ngokusetshenziswa kwamandla.
Izinhlobonhlobo zezinkundla ezihlukile uma kungenakho isihloko esithile senhlalo noma yesayensi yizingxoxo. Zidalwa, okokuqala, ukukhulumisana kweqembu labantu abasha.
Ukukhulumisana kumaforamu noma izingxoxo, abantu abaningi bangakwazi ukukhokhela okungaphezu kokuphila kwangempela, ngokuvamile ukuhlambalaza noma imishwana ecasulayo. Yebo, eqinisweni, ezweni elibonakalayo, akekho owakubona noma akuzwayo, kodwa, ngizosho ukuthi, noma ubani ozihloniphayo uyoziphatha ngendlela efanele kunoma yisiphi isimo.
Ngakho, ingxoxo ephelele kodwa izinkundla zibukeka kanje:
- azikho amagama anenhlamba namazwi ekukhulumisaneni;
- ukuxhumana akuqukethe ubuhlanga, ubuhlanga noma yiluphi uhlobo lokubandlulula;
- okuthunyelwe kwesinye ngasinye esitokisini kubhaliwe ngencwadi enkulu, ngaphandle kwamaphutha abhalwe ngegrammatical and syntactic;
- Kucatshangwa ukuthi kuyingozi kumaforamu.
Eqinisweni, umphakatsi ngamunye ubeka imithetho yawo yokuziphatha kwe-network (netiquette). Izikhundla ze-netiquette zingahlukaniswa ngezigaba ezintathu:
- I-Psychological or emotional - ukuxhumana no "wena" noma "wena", kungakhathaliseki ukuthi usebenzisa amasmili nokuthi zingaki, njll.
- Ubuchwepheshe noma ukuklama - sebenzisa imigqa yobude obuthile, landa ama-avatars amasayizi athile, sebenzisa ukuhumusha, njll.
- Ukuphatha - imithetho yokudala izihloko ezintsha, ukusetshenziswa noma ukuvinjelwa kokukhangisa, ilangabi kufanele lihambisane nendaba yomphakathi.
Mayelana nokudlala ngothando kwi-intanethi, lapha kunjalo akukho mithetho. Ekukhulumisaneni okungokoqobo nobulili obuhlukile, udinga ukuziqonda wena amaphuzu ambalwa.
Okokuqala, ungakhohlwa ukuthi lokhu kungukuxhumana okungokoqobo. Ngokuba ama-smileys amahle, amagama "amnandi" angakwazi ukufihla akuyona into enhle yamaphupho akho. Ngakho-ke, akudingeki ukuthi uzakhele Yena ngokwakhe, ngoba angeke abe yilowo ozimele yena. Ngakho-ke, kungcono ukungalindeli ubuhlobo obunzima ne-interlocutor ebonakalayo. Yiba nesikhathi esihle - sicela! Eminye - engozini yakho!
Okwesibili, ukujwayela okujwayelekile kungakudukisa (thumela isithombe somunye umuntu, sikukhohlise eminyakeni yobudala, isimo somshado, njll). Kufanele nje ulungele lokhu. Uma ungumgijimi - ukukhulumisana okubonakalayo yi-credo yakho!
Iqiniso lihlala liyiqiniso. Izazi zengqondo zeBrithani ziye zafinyelela esiphethweni sokuthi ukukhulumisana okungokoqobo nakho kuwubuqili. Ochwepheshe bathi ukukhulumisana okubonakalayo kungasongela ubudlelwane bangempela babantu. Ukukhwabanisa okubonakalayo kuletha izimpawu ezifanayo njengokuhlubuka okuvamile - ubuhlungu, ukufutheka, ukulahlekelwa ukwethemba. Ngakho-ke, uma unesigamu sesibili sangempela, hhayi isibili, cabanga kusengaphambili ukuthi udinga ukudlala ngothando.
Eqinisweni, "ubudlelwane obuseduze" bunikeza impilo enhle ukubuyisela, kusize ukuphumula ezweni eliyinkimbinkimbi, kuhle ukukhuluma. Abantu abanefantasy ethuthukile baphatha ukuhlanganyela ngokobulili obubonakalayo. Ngaphambi kwakho kukhompyutha, emazwini esikrini ... Futhi uma phakathi kwala magama ngokuvamile kuvame amagama: "izandla", "izindebe", "intamo", "ulimi", "uthinte", "faka", njll. - Kuphathelene nobulili obubonakalayo. Futhi yikuphi umehluko uhlobo luni lobulili okuyinto injabulo enkulu kusuka wathola ...
Ukuphila okwangempela kuyisimo esithile sokuxhumana. Imithetho yokukhulumisana nokudlala ngothando ku-intanethi yimiqathango nje, ngoba uzidala wena, imizwelo yakho, izifiso zakho kanye nokuzihlonipha kwakho. Yebo, nje ukuzihlonipha, njengoba uzoxhumana ezingeni ongathanda ukuxhumana nawe. Futhi ukukhulumisana ngokumane futhi ngokwemvelo, ukudlala ngothando, ukuhlanganyela othandweni olubonakalayo njalo kuzoba nobani ngesikhathi esifanele nendawo ekahle ...