Ihlobo yisikhathi samaholidi. Futhi ngoba abesifazane abaningi bethemba ngalesi sikhathi esimnandi ukuhlangabezana "nengxenye" yabo. Futhi-ke, yilowo nalowo wesifazane amaphupho okuphila nale "ingxenye" yonke impilo yakhe. Kuphela lapha awukwazi ukuthola njalo lokho okufunayo. Ungabhekana kanjani nokucindezeleka ngemva kweholidi? Sizokukhuluma ngalokhu kulesi sihloko. Awucabangi yini ukuthi uthando lwezokuvakasha luyikhohlisi elingenalutho?
Ngokwezibalo, kuphela enye yamanoveli ayishumi e-resort ekhula ibe uthando lwangempela, bese ingena emshadweni. Abanye besifazane bakholelwa ukuthi uma uhlangana, kusehlobo kuphela. Futhi-ke, lapho kuqala entwasahlobo, baqala "ukuhlanza izimpaphe" - balahlekelwa isisindo, baye esilarium, bathenge izinto ezintsha, ezinhle. Kodwa intwasahlobo ingakapheli isikhathi esizayo, futhi ukujwayela okufisayo okufisa akuzange kwenzeke. Futhi-ke amacebo okujwayele adluliselwa ngesikhathi sasehlobo sonyaka, okuyinto evumelana kakhulu nabangane abasha.
Njengoba ukuphila ngokwayo kubonisa, iningi labantu abashadile manje bahlangana ehlobo. Futhi akumangazi, ngoba ihlobo yisikhathi sothando kakhulu ngonyaka. Ilanga elihle, ukufudumala kwezulu ehlobo, izinyoni ezicula, amabhishi, ulwandle kanye nokushona kwelanga okumangalisayo kugcwalisa umphefumulo womuntu ngezinethemba nokuthandana. Ngakho-ke, iningi labesifazane libeka ithemba labo ehlobo, futhi isikhathi eside ngaphambi kokucasula, bayilungiselela ngokulangazela, bephupha ukuhlangabezana nesiphetho sabo endaweni ethile yothando olwandle. Kuphela manje uma umuntu ethemba kuphela ihlobo nolwandle, khona-ke umuntu angaba yisisulu sokucindezeleka. Phela, ukuphumula kolwandle akukhona okuphakade, ngokushesha noma kamuva, kusukela endabeni yezinganekwane kuyadingeka ukuba ubuyele empilweni, impilo yansuku zonke.
Ngeshwa, iningi lama-romance eholide lihlala kuphela imemori ekhanyisa impilo yansuku zonke. Uyabona lokhu, uthatha izibonakaliso zokuhlala zokunakekelwa komunye umfokazi omuhle? Noma ingabe uyathemba ukuthi uzokwenza, futhi kanjani, uzoba umyeni wakho? Wake wahlangana nabesifazane abashade nabo abaholela ekuthandweni kweholide? Ngisho necebo elihlelwe ngokucophelela lokuthi "ukuthatha" lomuntu, ngokuyinhloko, liholela ekuqhubekeni okuncane nje ngeposididi yamaholide, ama-sms kanye nezingcingo eziningana. Futhi yilokho konke. Ngaphezu kwalokho, futhi lokhu kuphelile, ngoba ngokuvamile abantu abaye bahlanganyela kuleveli, bahlala emadolobheni ahlukene, amazwe noma ngisho nakwamanye amazwekazi ahlukene.
Ngemva kokubuyela ekhaya ezihlotsheni zabo, kodwa izindonga ezibophayo, njengoba beyeke ukuzwa ukukhululeka nokunganakwa, abantu baba yisisulu sokunganaki okuphelele. Futhi lokhu kuyize. Yiqiniso, impilo yansuku zonke inqatshelwe imibala eminingi kakhulu nokubonakala okucacile, kodwa kufanele iqaphele futhi ibonwe ngokuthula, njengeqiniso. Yiqiniso, okungafani nemibhangqwana yeholide kwenzeke futhi baphenduka umuzwa omude futhi ojulile. Kodwa njengoba siyazi, ngaphandle kokuqinisekisa kuphela umthetho. Futhi lezi kuphela ezimbalwa ezihlukile ziphela ngomkhosi womshado.
Uma umgomo wowesifazane kuphela emisebenzini yokuphumula ukuthola umyeni kunoma yiliphi izindleko, khona-ke lokhu kubonakala kakhulu kubantu. Futhi akukho ndlela ongayifihla, ngisho nokunganakwa kwe-indolent kumadoda ngeke kusize ukuguqula lesi sifiso.
Yebo, ukuthandana kwamaholide kulula kakhulu ukubopha, kodwa futhi ngokushesha baphela. Futhi lokhu kubangelwa ukuthi abesifazane abaningi banethemba lokuqhubeka kwenkulumo enjalo, futhi amadoda, ngobuningi bawo, akhetha into encane yesikhashana. Futhi wena, mhlawumbe, uqiniseka ngokugcwele ukuthi uhlangane e-resort yiyona eyodwa, eyodwa kuphela? Futhi ngakho-ke babekhona ngaleyo ndlela ngaphandle kokubusa? Futhi uma uphutha, kuthiwani-ke?
Ake sinike isibonelo. Owesifazane owodwa unyaka ngamunye wasebenza kanzima ukuhamba, uhlele yonke imizuzu yokuphumula, ebalwa zonke izinhlobo ezihlukahlukene zokuhlangana, okunye okuyiqiniso okuyokwenzakala ngokuqinisekile. Unyaka ngamunye uya ezindaweni ezingahambelani neze-archeological, ukuhambela emaphandleni omlando njalonjalo, ngenhloso eyodwa kuphela - ukuthola umyeni wakhe. Eqinisweni, okuningi okwenzayo akuzange akuthande kakhulu - omiyane, emaphandleni anamanzi, kepha wayehlupheka ngakho konke ngenjongo yakhe ukuthola indoda ehlangabezana nezimfuneko zakhe.
Ngenxa yeholide elinjalo, yena wedwa ubuyela ekhaya, akhathele futhi omncane. Futhi cishe ngaso sonke isikhathi kubuya ngomzwelo wokudumazeka okuphelele emadodeni. Futhi esikhundleni seholide elinjalo, wayekwazi ukuya olwandle bese nje ephumula lapho, elangeni bese ekhohlwa ngezinkinga zansuku zonke.
Uma ukuphila kuhloswe ukuhlangabezana nothando, khona-ke kuzokwenzeka ngempela, futhi akufanele ukwesabise uthando ngokuzama ukuzama ukuthola lokho. Uthando luza ngokwawo, ngokuzumayo luqhuma enhliziyweni yakho ngaphandle kwemvume yakho.
Uma uke uthathe uthando lweholide, ungakhohlwa ngamaphuzu alandelayo, ukuze ungadabuki ngokuhamba kwesikhathi futhi ungangeni ekunganakwa. Ukuba endaweni engafani nokujwayelekile, isibonelo eholidini, abantu cishe njalo baziphatha ngendlela ehlukile kunejwayelekile. Ngokuyinhloko, esimweni esinjalo, abantu bayathokozisa futhi bakhululiwe, yingakho kunzima ukucabangela lezi zimfanelo zobuntu bomuntu ngaleyo ndlela "yokugubha". Ungakhohlwa ngakho, ukhuluma nensizwa yakho.
Cishe wonke umuntu akasithathi ngokungathí sina imithandazo yeholide. Ukuqaphela ukuthi amanoveli anjalo aphila isikhathi eside ngenxa yokuthi abantu bavame ukuhlala hhayi emadolobheni ahlukene kuphela, kodwa nakwamanye amazwe, ngisho neholidi linempahla yokuphela, bavele bacindezele. Futhi bazama ngamabomu ukutshala izimali kulo mdlalo wezinsuku zokuvakasha kunabo bonke, ngakho kwavela ukukhanya okukhulu, ukuthakazelisa.
I-romantic romance yi-twin umfowabo weveli "ezimpumputhe." Awukwazi lutho ngalomuntu, awunabo abajwayele ukuxhumana naye, ngakho angasho okungelona iqiniso njengoba ukucabanga kwakhe kukwanele.
Noma yimuphi ubuhlobo kufanele buphephile. Lokhu akusebenzi kuphela ekuvikeleni kwezocansi. Kukhona, emhlabeni, ngeshwa, abahlukumezi bomshado, amasela kanye nabakwa-scammers abangasebenzisa inzuzo yakho nokushiya amapenki ephaketheni lakho, bezenza sengathi bayamthanda.
Ungathathi konke ngenhliziyo. Ungaba yisisulu se-supplement evamile ekuphumuleni okuhle. Thatha inkundla yendawo yokubhuka njengomuntu omdala - ngokuqaphela, wazi konke okwenzekayo.
Ungakhohlwa ngalezi zikhathi ezibalulekile futhi ngeke udumale yiholide. Kungenzeka ukuthi usazohlala esigabeni sokuhlukile futhi uzohlangana eholidini umphefumulo wakho womshado, ngoba uthando lungatholakala noma kuphi nanoma yisiphi isikhathi.