Noma, njengendlela yokukhetha, i-Lady Discussion. Umuntu ohlala ngaphansi kwesiqubulo esithi: "Nginikeze izaba - futhi ngizofakazela ukuthi ngubani onguhlakaniphile lapha." Yebo, wonke umuntu - uyazi ukuthi ngubani. Nganginomngane ongahle aphendule ingxoxo "ngokungenalutho" empini yemibono. Futhi akukhathaleki ukuthi uqondisise kangakanani indaba yococo: uma ekwazi ukuphikisana ngokuthandwa kwakhe komdlali othile odumile nomfowabo! Ethukile, wayibopha odongeni ngezingxabano ezingavamile kunazo zonke futhi enzima kakhulu "Kodwa ngiyazi!".
Ngena kunoma yikuphi ukuphikisana noDee Dee - ibhizinisi elizolahlwa kusengaphambili. Okokuqala, akukho zimpikiswano ezingeke zibhekane nokukhathazeka kwakhe, futhi okwesibili - uzokwenza izitha.
Ukungqubuzana kwabantu abanjalo akuyona indlela yokugcina ingxoxo noma ukucinga amaphuzu okubheka okuthakazelisayo, kodwa ukuphela ngokwayo, okunezizathu ezimbili ezikhona: noma ukuzethemba okungenakuqhathaniswa nokuntuleka kwabaphikisanayo (ongabeka ukuphikisana ngokuziqhenya esikhundleni sakhe), noma umzamo ngokusebenzisa ukuziphatha ngokuzibambela ngenhloso yokufihla ukungaqiniseki kwakhe futhi, ukubeka kahle, hhayi umbono obanzi kakhulu.
Uma "unenhlanhla" ukuthi ubhekane no-Arbiter, isinqumo esihlakaniphe kakhulu kuyoba ukuyeka noma yikuphi ukucasula ukuqala ingxabano ekufuneni amaqiniso angunaphakade mayelana nokuthuthukiswa komuntu ngamunye, ukuqinisekiswa kokuzethemba. Khona-ke umhlukumezi uzolahlekelwa isithakazelo ngokushesha kuwe futhi ashintshe kwisisulu esisha.
Isikhathi esibuhlungu, kodwa abaningi balabo abanelungelo lokufinyelela izintaba ezithile ezisezingeni eliphezulu zebhizinisi i-Olympus, bafuna ukuthola ngisho nabantu abathembekile ngenxa yokuhluleka kwabo kwangaphambili. Noma, ngokuphambene nalokho, isikhundla abahlala kuzo asihlangabezani nezifiso zabo zokufisa futhi basebenzela isimo sabo esibi kumuntu osabekayo - ukukhishwa ngokomzwelo ngenxa. Khumbula inkhulumomphendvulwano evela ku-movie "Night Fun":
- Futhi ubaba wakho usebenza ngani? - Oyinhloko.
- Big noma encane? - Small.
- Kubi. Ukuba umphathi omncane kuthobisa kakhulu!
Kukhona enye inguqulo yamaKhomishana aphikisanayo - ajwayelekile cad abheka ukuthi izikhundla zabo zokuphatha zibe yinto efana nemvume yokuzenzekelayo ngokungahloniphi kuwo wonke umuntu olandelanayo. Leli cala - icala eliyinqaba, ngokulinganayo hhayi ekukholiseni, imfundo encane engaphandle. Engxoxweni enjalo nesikhumbuzo, isikhali sakho esiyinhloko siphezulu sangaphakathi (nangaphandle!) Isihlonipho nesincane sentukuthelo: vumela uzibikezele, ungajabuli. Uma ubuthongo kuye kuphela injabulo ekuphileni, uyakwazi kuphela ukuzwelana.
Icala likaDobrolyubov lizophila phakade! Ngiyavuma, ngangihlale nginamahloni ngendlululo yalesi sigxeko esibucayi: umqondo onjalo obala, njengomusa, ungaba kanjani nomsebenzi wayo? Kuyathakazelisa ukuthi abalingisi bavame ukugxeka izahlulelo zabo ezingenakujabulisa njengesifiso esiqotho sokwenza umhlaba ube indawo engcono.
"Kulesi sigqoko, ukhuluphele kakhulu!", "Awusabeki namhlanje." Izinkinga? "," O, yiziphi iziphazamiso ngaphansi kwamehlo akho! " - ukulalela "i-Dobrolyubovs" i-kite igxila ekubhekeni okungabonakali, futhi ngezinye izikhathi okungabonakali. Ekuboneni kokuqala konke kubonakala kuhloniphekile futhi kungenacala: umngane omuhle uhlangabezana nokubonakala komusa wakho nesimo sakho. Nakuba ... Ingabe ivame kakhulu futhi ukuthi iyakwenza yini?
Ngosizo lokugxekwa ekuthuthukiseni ubuntu, ukuqinisekiswa kokuzethemba, ngokuvamile ukuzivikela kwabantu abangenalutho. "Wenza konke okungalungile!", "Futhi i-ex yami yayihle kakhulu kunakho!" - amazwi anjalo alimala ngobuqotho. Kodwa-ke, intombazanyana encane elandela ukuthi ikwazi ukuqonda ngokujulile ukuthi ingaphansi kwayo futhi isifiso sokucindezela umlingani nganoma iyiphi indlela.
"Awuyikugxeka!" - umphikisi ongenakukhathazeka wobulungiswa uthukuthele.
Ukuhlola ukuhlanzeka kwemicabango yakhe akulula: kudingekile kuphela, ukukhetha umzuzu, ukukhombisa (kodwa ngokuhlakanipha nangenkulumo engenacala) noma yikuphi iphutha. Futhi qaphela ukusabela. Uma ucasuliwe noma ucashunwe, kusho ukuthi usebenzisana nomunye uhlobo lokuzifakazela ngokwezindleko zomunye umuntu.
Ukuhluka okuthakazelisayo kakhulu kokuzifakazela kungukuphikisana okuqinile kodwa okunenkani ukuze uthole ilungelo lokubizwa ngokuthi uqobo. Isibonelo, uthenga ingubo entsha futhi ungazitholi ngokuzenzekelayo ngomngani wakho: makangayithokozisa lobu buhle ngaphambi kweqembu elithile elidangayo. Intombi ilinganisela. Futhi iqembu liza ... ngengubo yesitayela esifanayo, kodwa kuphela ngombala ocacile futhi ugcwalise ngezingqayizivele eziqhakazile. Ngenxa yalokho, uyathandwa njengonkulunkulukazi, futhi ubhalwa ngabalingisi abathandekayo - wonke umuntu uyazi ukuthi ungabangane!
Emsebenzini I-Best of The Best imane ihlinzeke ngeminye imibono yabantu ngokwabo, ebuhlotsheni bomuntu siqu - okwazi ukuhola nabalingani bangempela. Izinkimbinkimbi zabo futhi abakwazi ukuthuthukisa imibono ngokwayo, ngobuciko bafihla isifiso sobuholi kanye ne-aplomb ngamabomu. Okunye - kulula kakhulu - ukusebenzisa ukusebenza okudalwe abanye!
Ukukhulumisana nomsebenzi omuhle kakhulu - ibhizinisi eliyinkimbinkimbi. Ngomngane onjalo njalo elinde inkohliso engcolile: awukwazi ukuthi ufuna ukuphikisana nani manje.
Kuyasihawukela, kepha ngezinye izikhathi izici zalesi sigaba se-psychotype zivuka ngisho nakumngani, zivivinywa ngamapayipi omlilo, amanzi kanye nethusi - ngaphansi kwethonya lokukhubazeka komuntu siqu noma ubuthakathaka obuncane. Umsebenzi wakho ukuma ngesikhathi umzamo wokusebenzisa njengesihluthulelo sokuqinisekisa. Ngesikhathi esifanayo - hhayi ukubhekana nesilingo sokuzimela wena ngokwezindleko zomuntu ongenandaba nawe. Ngempela, okungcono kakhulu kunjalo emoyeni nangencazelo, hhayi ngokuqhathanisa nabanye.
Ukuhleba kuyisigaba esikhethekile sokuziqinisa. Abanye abantu abondli isinkwa kuphela, bavumeleke babheke emehlweni abo abazungezile nge "amakhosi omniningwane". Ukuqaphela ukuthi oyedwa kuphela owaziwa nguye (owodwa) uyimfihlakalo enamaphutha, ngokuvamile uvame umuntu ophethe igunya elikhulu.
"Ake sihambe eceleni, ngizokutshela ngeVasechkina enjalo ..." - ngokuziqhenya ngokuqaphelayo, "i-telegraph" evamile iyasakazwa. Futhi ulahla ngokuzithoba: izinga lokuzifunayo alitholi neze iphutha! Imaminithi embalwa usuvele uyayazi zonke izinguquko zothando nezemvelo endaweni yakho. Ngenkathi uhlamba ngobuningi bezindaba ezamukelwe, "i-telegraph" izwa ukwaneliseka okujulile (okukhulunywa ngayo!) Futhi ikhetha ukucinga isilaleli esisha.
Ngeke ngikufihle, ngezinye izikhathi ukuba khona kwenhlebo eduze kwalo kungaba usizo kakhulu: ukuthi izindaba ezincane angakunikeza kanjani. Nakuba kunesidingo esikhulu: ulwazi lwaso aluvame ukuhlolwa futhi luvame ukuvinjelwa, ngenxa yamagama abomvu. Ngakho-ke, kufanelekile ukugcina engqondweni ibanga. Okokuqala, ukuba khona kwabahlebi abangenayo imiphumela emihle idumela lakho. Okwesibili, ubani owaziyo ukuthi iyiphi ingxenye yokuphila kwakho engakhonza njengesenzakalo sezindaba ezilandelayo ezingamanga? "I-Telegraphs" ayiqondi ukuthi ubani umngani, nokuthi ubani oyisitha, futhi ugaya amathambo kuwo wonke umuntu.
Sonke sisezingeni elihle, futhi senza amaphutha, sithandwa ngokwemvelo ngokwayo. Kwenzeka ukuthi omunye noma omunye wezenzo noma amazwi ethu angalimaza kabi omunye umuntu. Ngezinye izikhathi kuhle, ngezinye izikhathi akunjalo.
Abanye abantu babhekana kabi nokuziphatha kwalabo abakuzungezile okungahambisani nemicabango yabo, ukuthi bayabona ukuziphatha okungahambi kahle njengenselele. Futhi ngokushesha uqhubekele ezempi.
Ukucasula (nangokujula komphefumulo) umuntu ongaphezu kokusola angenza noma yini. Akuboni, ukubingelela noma inhlebo ejwayelekile evela eceleni: "Uyazi, kodwa bangitshele ukuthi awuthandi L". "Ukuzivikela okungcono kakhulu ukuhlasela," uRaider olimala ukhetha futhi ngokushesha uphazamisa nezinkinga zokuphikisa. Ebhizinisini kukhona nezinsipho ezincane zezinwele ekhelini lalabo abahlukumezayo, futhi amaqhinga angcolile afana nokuphazamisa izimvo ngemuva komhlane, ngisho nemibandela ngaphambi kokuphakama.
Kuyinto ehlekisayo, kodwa labo okuthiwa bayama ngalezi zinsuku kaningi abasoze bacabange "icala labo" futhi bakhathazeke ngempela mayelana nokuziphatha okubi komuntu ongaziwa ngokuphelele. Ukuhlakanipha okungaqondile akuqeqeshwe yimuphi umuntu: umuntu akakwazi ukubala ukuthi ibinzana lakho noma isenzo kungabangela ukufutheka komuntu ongafanelwe.
Kukhona indlela eyodwa kuphela yokuphuma, futhi, yebo, kuphela ngemuva kweqiniso: ukukhuluma ngokukhululekile nomuntu onganelisekile. Ungahlaseli, ungenzi isimangalo, kodwa zama ukuthola ukuthi yini oye wakwazi ukucasula. Ngokuvamile indlela enengqiqo enjalo iyindlela enhle yokuziqhenya - i-Avengers ngokwabo isaba ukucacisa ngokucacile ubuhlobo bokufa.
Kubonakala ukuthi ukukhawula kungasetshenziswa futhi njengokuzimela. Akugcini nje ukufeza umgomo othize, kodwa futhi nje ukuzizwa uyingcweti enkulu emiphefumulweni kanye ne-manipulator abanolwazi.
Njengoba kukhona abahlaziyi abahlaziya kabi bonke abantu nento yonke, ngakho-ke kukhona abantu abangacabangi impilo yabo ngaphandle kokubambelela nsuku zonke (abachwephesha abanomsebenzi abafana nabantu baka-PR, abathengisi nabakhangisi bazo zonke izinhlobo, Yebo, abakhathaleli lesi sigaba). Banikezela ngokuzikhethela futhi ngezinye izikhathi ukungaqondi kahle ngokuphelele kokudumisa: bangakujabulela ukukhetha okungenakuphumelela kwekhanda noma izingubo zokugqoka futhi banikeze ukuncoma okuphelele kweplats kumsebenzi ohlulekile emsebenzini. Ngezinye izikhathi kubonakala sengathi ukuzithoba kwabo empeleni kuwukuhlekwa okuncibilikisiwe okuhloswe ukuba kube khona ukusondelana kwe-interlocutor. Futhi lokhu ngokuvamile kuvumelana nokuyiqiniso!
Kodwa-ke, ngokulunga, kubalulekile ukuhlukanisa amanye ama-subspecies. Abanye abathandekayo-abakhulekeli abanqotshwa ngabantu abavamile ukuthi bakulungele ukusho ukuncoma okukhulu, uma nje behlekisayo ngokubuyisela futhi bazisa imizamo yabo.
"Namuhla uhle kakhulu kunanini ngaphambili!" - ukutshela umngane ngaleso sikhathi, njengoba uphazamiseka ngesikhala esibukweni umbala obala obala obusweni bakho futhi obomvu emva kokulala ubusuku buso. Ukusabela kwakho kokuqala kufanele uthukuthele futhi usolwa ngokuphanga. Ungasheshi. Mhlawumbe le ndoda ifuna ukukwenza uzizwe ungcono, ngisho nosizo lwamanga enkohliso.
Ukuzithemba, nothando, nokunganqatshwa uthando nokunakwa, abantu abavame ukubuza imibuzo yokucindezela abanye - abanalo lutho lokuba nomhawu, ngoba banamakhono abo ngokwanele ukuze baziqaphele ngokwabo.
Ukuziqinisa ngokwezimali zabanye ukukhetha ukulahlekelwa ngamabomu, kudala kuphela inkohliso yokuphumelela. Umuntu uzobe ezwa ukuthuma kwesimo sakhe futhi angeke akwazi ukukhipha izakhiwo ezijwayelekile.