Ukuthuthukiswa Kwabantwana: Ukufunda Ukukhuluma

Ngokuvamile, omama abasha bayabuza umbuzo: ingane yakho ikhuluma nini? - futhi ulindele ukuphendula impendulo, uqhathanise nomntanakho, uphakamise noma kunamathele. Kodwa ukuthuthukiswa kwengane kuyinkqubo ngayinye, futhi izingane ziqala ukukhuluma ngezikhathi ezahlukene - ezinye ngaphambili, ezinye kamuva. Kodwa-ke, cishe kusukela ekuzalweni okungenayo futhi kufanele njalo athuthukise amakhono okukhuluma wengane. Ngakho-ke, isihloko senkulumo yethu sizoba "Ukuthuthukiswa Kwabantwana: Ukufunda Ukukhuluma."

Ingane eneminyaka engu-0-6 izinyanga

Ingane ephuza isifuba noma ibhodlela lobisi, isivele iqala imisipha ephethe amandla okwenza amagama. Ingane ayikwazi ukukuphendula okwamanje, kodwa ngokushesha ifunda ukuqaphela izwi lakho kusuka kwamanye amazwi amaningi. Futhi ulwazi olusha lufakwe kubo njengokufana nesiponji. Zonke izenzo zakho zihambisana nokubiza ngokuzwakalayo. Noma yini oyenzayo, kusukela ekushintsheni amathayi ukuze unike ingane, tshela amagama ezenzo zakho. Khuluma naye ngakho konke. Ngokwenza kanjalo, ungakhohlwa ukuthi ingane yakho iyathandeka ukubona ubuso bakho. Uzokulingisa, uqhathanise imisindo ezwiwe ngesimo sobuso nesimo somumo ohlukile. Futhi esikhathini esizayo uzoyikopisha konke.

Kumntwana 6-12 izinyanga

Kule minyaka yobudala, ingane iqhubeka ifunda ukukhuluma, uzama ukusho okuthile, futhi yena ngokwakhe unesithakazelo emisindweni ephumayo. Ukufunda izindebe nolimi, uzama ukuqonda ukuthi kwenzeka kanjani umsindo. Izingane eziningi zale minyaka zijabulisa abazali ngamazwi okuqala - umama, ubaba, unikele. ... Zama ukuphinda ingane imisindo ayishoyo, bonisa ukuthi lokhu kuyinto ejabulisayo. Uma ushayele noma yikuphi amagama, bese uqhuba ubudlelwano nabo. Igama elithi "umama" libonise wena, "ubaba" - upapa, "iphalenda" - emgodini, njll. Bamba iqhaza ekuhlolweni kwengane yakho ngemisindo. Amagama athi "hello" futhi "okwamanje" ahlobene nokufika nokuhamba kwezivakashi noma amalungu omndeni. Ungakhohlwa ngamanye amagama alula njengokuthi "ngiyabonga", "sicela", "udle". Chaza kuphi nokuthi nini ozisebenzisa. Bonisa ngesibonelo. Izingane zifunda ngokushesha ulwazi olusha, futhi maduzane bazozama ukuyisebenzisa.

Ingane 12-18 izinyanga

Ngokuvamise e-arsenal yengane kuleli phuzu, kunamagama ambalwa alula. Izingane zale minyaka ziyakuthanda ukulingisa imibono yabantu abadala, ngakho-ke ngezinye izikhathi ungase uzwe kuzo kanye nesimo sabo. Ngezinye izikhathi lapho amazwi enkulumo yengane ephukile, okungaqondakali okwamanje, bamane bakopisha abazali babo. Ungakhohlwa ukuthi ukuxhumana kuhilela ingxoxo emibili. Futhi uma ingane izama ukusho into ethile, ungayigxili, kodwa lalela ukuphela. Ukuphindaphinda nomntwana wamazwi kufanele kube umkhuba kule nkathi. Bonisa into futhi uyiqambe izikhathi eziningana. Manje kuyithuba lokungena kwezingane ukuzama ukubiza leli gama. Ayikwazi ukumkhipha kuso? Phindaphinda leli gama kancane izikhathi. Futhi, nika ingane ithuba lokusho igama lakhe. Noma imuphi umzamo wokumemezela leli gama kufanele ukhuthazwe udumo, lokhu kuzokwenza ingane ikwazi ukuzama ukuxhumana, okuzosiza ukuthi ifunde ukukhuluma ngokushesha.

Ukuthuthukiswa kwamakhono amakhono emoto

Akuyona imfihlo ukuthi kukhona amaphuzu ezintendeni ezithinta umsebenzi wokukhuluma. Lawa maphuzu, noma izikhungo zokukhuluma, kungaba mnandi ukukhuthaza, ukuthuthukisa amakhono amakhono amakhono, ukugqugquzela iminwe nokuhlinza ngomunwe. Ukubheka kahle imisindo kuxhomeke ngokuqondile kumakhono amancane omoto. Inkulumo iqala kangcono ngomsebenzi ophezulu wemoto.

Akunzima ukunaka iminwe yakho imizuzu embalwa ngosuku. Zingahlehliswa, zenzeke futhi zingabi nhlobo, zihambisane namahlaya afanele. Isibonelo, "Umunwe ungumfana, lo umunwe ungumama, lo umunwe ubaba, lo umunwe ungowesifazane, lo umunwe ungumkhulu." Kuhle kakhulu, uma wena ngokwakho ungabhala into enjalo. Khumbula futhi "Ladushki-ladushki", ne "Soroka-Beloboku", ne "Goat horned." Izingane ezindala sezivele zibhekana neziphambano nezingwegwe eminwe yakhe ("Qinisekisa, ubuyisane ..."). Uthanda ukukhombisa inyoni ("Inyoni iye yagijima, yaqhuma, yahlala, yahlala, yahamba") noma i-paw's paw (amaphuzu eminwe icindezelwe phezulu kwesundu, isithupha sincintiselwe umunwe wenkomba, futhi igama elithi "meow" libizwa ngokuzwakalayo). Isikhathi, lezi zivivinyo zithatha kancane, futhi inzuzo inkulu kakhulu.

Ukuze kuthuthukiswe amakhono emoto amnandi, amaphuzu okuthinta amancane aphezulu. Ungabenza ngokwakho. Ngephini ngayinye, indwangu elinganisa u-10x10 cm ithathwa, ihanjiswe ngezinhlangothi ezintathu. Bagcwele izinto ezahlukene, kodwa ukuthola amaphuzu amabili afanayo. Imithwalo embalwa ingagcwaliswa ngama-peas, omunye umbhangqwana - i-mango, i-pasta encane, uboya bekotini, ubhontshisi ... Amathangathi agodliwe. Manje umsebenzi wengane ukuthola okufanayo ngokuthinta.

I-walnut kanye nesitsha nge-peas kuzosiza ukwenza i-massage yezandla. Ukusebenzisa i nut, tshela ngaye. Bonisa ukuthi wakhula kanjani esihlahleni futhi, ewa umoya, wahlangana nabantwana. Ngendlela, umoya ungamelwa ngumntwana ngokwakhe. Uma eshaya, umoya omude uqeqeshiwe, futhi lokhu kuyisenzo sokuzivocavoca ngomlomo. I-Oreshek ingafihlelwa ku-cam, bese uthola (cindezela-ungenayo ikhamera), ungayigibela ku-carousel (isandla esisodwa komunye ngamandla ngamandla kumbuthano), slide phansi entabeni (isandla esisodwa sicindezelwe ngemuva kwesigcawu kuya etafuleni, ukwakha isilayidi, nokunye isandla gcwalisa i-nut kusuka esihlakalweni kuya eminwebeni nangemuva). Kanjalo, i-nut ifihliwe echibini, okubhekwa ngokuthi isitsha esinama-peas. I-nut ayitholakali ngokushesha, futhi ngesikhathi sokusesha, iminwe ihlelwe kahle. Yonke imidlalo ne nut iphindwe izikhathi eziningana. Ingane enenjabulo isebenza ngokuzivocavoca okufanayo.