Iyini indima yamawele?
Iningi lezingane zifanekisela ukubeletha ngezempilo nangokwesifazane. Abesifazane abaphupha ngalesi sithombe emaphupheni abo bayothola ukuvumelana nokuqonda okuhlanganyene nabakhethiweyo babo. Izifo ezidlulayo, kuzoba namandla okubambisana futhi kube nomthelela ekufinyeleleni okusha. Ngokuvamile, ngemva kwamaphupho anjalo, abesifazane abangashadile bathola ingxenye yabo yesibili.
Ekuhumusheni leli phupho, kubaluleke kakhulu ukwazi ukuthi iziphi izifiso abaphuphi. Amantombazane asetsheni abasha angakubona kusasa kwezindaba ukuthi usezikhundleni. Kwabesifazane abaningi abavuthiwe noma abangashadile, abanamawele ephusheni, bathembisa ukuchuma emkhakheni wezamabhizinisi, ukuvela kwemithombo yezimali eyengeziwe, kanye nokuthuthukisa inhlalakahle.
Okubaluleke kakhulu ukuthi ukuzalwa kwakwenzekani. Inqubo esindayo nobuhlungu obukhulu kubonisa ukuthi empilweni yentombazane emgwaqweni eya enjabulweni nasothandweni kukhona ukuvivinywa okunzima, emva kwalokho uzovuzwa. Ukukhala okukhulu ngesikhathi sokubeletha - ukulahlwa noma ukuhleka. Uma konke kuhamba kahle futhi ngaphandle kokucindezeleka, ke ulinde: impilo yakho izoba ngcono kakhulu, noma yikuphi ukuzikhandla kuzophumelela, uthando nokuqonda okufanayo kuzobusa emndenini. Ukubona igazi ngesikhathi sokuzalwa kungumhlangano wokuqala nezihlobo ezide noma abangane abangakaze babonwe isikhathi eside.
Kungaba kuhle ukukhumbula izimo ozibelethile izingane. Ekhaya noma esibhedlela? Ukugcina ephusheni izindonga zendlu zifanekisela usizo nokusekelwa kokuziphatha kwezihlobo nabangane. Izindlu zomphakathi ziyisibonakaliso sokuthuthela ngokushesha, ukuhlukaniswa isikhathi eside nomndeni nabangane.
Iphupho lamawele: ngabe ubulili bezingane?
Ukuvuka ephusheni, abafana abancane bayabonakala ngokucacile ukuthi maduzane uzothola izindaba ezimnandi kakhulu. Kungenzeka ukuthi izinguquko ezinhle zizokhathazeka ngemali noma emsebenzini. Uma unokhethiwe, lindela isipho esivela kuye oye wasifuna isikhathi eside.
Uma uqhathanisa ukuhumusha kwezincwadi eziningi zephupho, bese ubeletha umfana nentombazane kusho ukuthi ikhanda liphonsa elitokisini elisha noma okuzilibazisa. Kungenzeka ukuthi uzojwayelana nomuntu osondelene futhi uchitha isikhathi esiningi naye.
Ukuzalwa kwamantombazane kufanekisela ukuguqulwa komphuphi, ukubuyekezwa kwemigomo yokuphila kwakhe. Ngokuvamile, ngemva kwamaphupho anjalo, abesifazane bayabathanda kakhulu, banakekele, banesithakazelo ekwakheni ikhaya, kunokuba babe nokuziqhenya emsebenzini.
Njengoba ubona, iphupho lokuzalwa kwamawele ezimweni eziningi lifanekisela okuhle nokuhle. Lokhu kungenzeka kuphela intombazane engqondweni yakhe igcwele imicabango emihle nothando ngabathandekayo bakhe. Ngakho faka iziphetho futhi uhlangabezane nezinguquko ezimnandi!