Ngaphandle kwalokho, ungenqabe ukuhlangabezana. Kumfana osemusha, lokhu kungaba kubaluleke kakhulu. Kubalulekile ukuthi uhlangane futhi uthandane. Mtshele ukuthi ukusekela kwakhe kubaluleke kakhulu kuwe, emva kwakho konke, awukwazi "amama" nsuku zonke. Shiya ukugxekwa nokuxoxwa kokushiyeka kobuso bakho noma ubheke isikhathi esithile. Ukukwenza endleleni eya emhlanganweni nonina kuwumqondo omubi.
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Khetha izingubo eziqinile kodwa zanamuhla. Into eyinhloko ukuthi ukhululeke kuwo, futhi uzizwa uqiniseka. Ungagqoke ubucwebe obukhulu noma ubucwebe - ithoni embi.
Buza kusengaphambili kusuka encekwini yakho ukuthi awukwazi ukukhuluma nomama noma abazali. Emhlanganweni, ziphatha ngokwemvelo. Ungasho okuningi, ungamomotheka nje ngaleyo ndlela, futhi ungazakheli "nun." Xoxa ngendlela oxhumana ngayo nabazali bakho, udade wakho omdala. Ungasebenzisi "i-slang yentsha" nazo zonke izinhlobo zamazwi oxhumana nabo ku-Odnoklassniki noma i-VKontakte.
Uma uvakashela umfana, ungamthandi ngokumanga lapho uhlangana. Ukuthinta kalula itama kuzokwanela. Ngokungazelelwe imithetho yakhe kamama?
Umhlangano.
Mhlawumbe isimo esingcono kakhulu somhlangano wokuqala nomama wentombazane kuyoba ingxoxo mayelana nobuntwana bakho. Bonke omama bathanda ukukhuluma ngobuntwana bamadodana namadodakazi abo. Bonisa ama-albhamu womndeni noma amavidiyo. Wena, futhi, ungakusho okuncane mayelana nezindaba zakho zobuntwana nezinhle ezenzeke kuwe. Sitshele mayelana nokuzilibazisa kwakho noma umsebenzi, isifundo.
Umama ahluke ngokuphelele. Ngenxa yothando olukhulu ngendodana yakhe nokuqiniseka ngokuphelele ukuthi akukho ntombazane emhlabeni ofanelwe ukuba nomntwana wakhe, abaningi babo bahlela ukuphenywa kwangempela.
Uma ingxoxo yakho ithatha ukuphendula okungajabulisi, zama ukushintsha isihloko. Kunoma yikuphi, ungabi namahloni futhi ungafaki. Lokhu, okungenani, akusihle. Esimweni esibi kunazo zonke, ngeke uthande umama wakho.
Qinisekisa ukuthi uhlanganisa abazali noma umama wendodana ethile ngendlela epholile futhi enhle endlini yabo. Zama ukubuza ukuthi ungayinakekela kanjani izitshalo noma upheke upizi onjalo omuhle. Uma kukhona izilwane ezifuywayo, ungacela ubuhlobo bakhe, imikhuba. Ngelinye igama, zama ukuhumusha ingxoxo ibe isiteshi esithakazelisayo kumama womfana. Ngakho uzibonakalisa njengentombazane enhle futhi ehlakaniphile.
Amacebo amakhulu.
Umhlangano wokuqala nomndeni wendodana yasala ngemuva. Ubusuku obuhle kakhulu, ukhuluma ngezihloko ezihlukahlukene, unomuzwa wokuthi wenze umbono omuhle? Awu, manje kufanelekile ukucabanga ngamasu akho esoka lakho. Uma ubona ngempela ndawonye isikhathi eside, noma ngaphezulu, cabanga ngomshado, ngakho-ke kufanelekile ukuqhubeka nokuhlolisana nomama wakhe.
Mbonise ukuthi ungumama omuhle womkhaya futhi ungakwazi ukunakekela indodana yakhe. Mnike ikhekhe eliphekwe ngezandla zakho. Noma isikhafu esinekhono. Uma uye ku-dacha yabo ndawonye, nikeza usizo lwakho ekuphekeni ukudla kwasekuseni noma ugeze izitsha.
Ukuziphatha ngokweqile kuyisikhali esiyinhloko samakhosi, neyakho nayo. Njalo uthi "ngiyabonga", "ntambama enhle", "sicela uhambe". Uma ubuza umbono wakho mayelana nendlu, mayelana nensimu, ukhukhamba oqoshiwe, izandla zokushona kwelanga zomama, wonke umuntu kufanele adunyiswe. Nokho, sonke isikhathi "podlizyvatsya" akufanele. Uma unombono ophikisana ngokuphelele, veza, nje ngobumnene. Vumela umamazala omusha azi ukuthi unombono wakho wezinto.
Mayelana nensizwa yakho ukhuluma kahle kuphela. Ukungavumelani kwakho kwangaphakathi akukhona ezindlebeni zikayise, uyise, umfowabo, udadewabo. Ungabonisi ukuziphatha kwe-"host" kumuntu. Wonke umuntu futhi uqonde ngokuphelele ukuthi uhlangene.
Kungakhathaliseki umphumela womhlangano nonina womfana, wazi ukuthi uhlangana, hhayi wena nabazali bakhe. Nguye owakhetha wena, futhi izifiso zakhe kufanele zihlonishwe abazali bakhe.