NgeSonto ekuseni, uvula i-TV (noma umsakazo) ngethemba lokuthi uzophazanyiswa ezindabeni ezibalulekile, bese umfudlana wezinto ezingajabulisi, futhi ulwazi oluvame ukucindezeleka luwela phezu kwakho. Ukwenza ikhofi uphinde ubize intombi yakho ukuba ixoxe futhi iphumule, futhi ekuphenduleni ukhuluma ngezinkinga zakhe futhi akhononde ngokuphila kwakhe imizuzu engamashumi amathathu ulandelana, umyeni wakhe, izingane zakhe, i-idiot-boss. Ubeka phansi ucingo bese uqaphela ukuthi ngandlela-thile uzizwa ungavuli. Futhi usuku olungaphandle kwefasitela lusizi, futhi izingane ziphelelanga ngandlela-thile, futhi umyeni wami akazange azinikele ngezipho isikhathi eside ... Kwakungusuku oluhle, futhi kwakunezinhlelo, futhi belele, futhi ilanga lalimemeza kakhulu. Kwenzekani?
Sivame ukungahloniphi amandla olwazi olungalungile futhi amasu okuvikelwa kuwo akhishwa kalula. Kodwa ulwazi olungalungile lulimaza isimo sethu sengqondo esivele sisesimweni, sibuthakathaka yizinkinga nezinkinga zansuku zonke. Ukuphila kwethu, ekugcineni, kwenzeka ngokumelene nesizinda sokucindezeleka okuqhubekayo, lapho i-psyche yethu nayo yonke imvelo iphikisana nayo. Izazi aziphakamisi ngisho nokuzizwa kabi ukuze zihlolwe futhi zenze olunye ucwaningo lwezokwelapha. Isibonelo, izinga le-hemoglobin lihamba, uma sithukuthele, futhi siwa uma sizizwa singenalo. Into efanayo yenzeka ngezinga le-glucose. Kodwa iningi lethu sesivele sesazi ngokuhlangenwe nakho ukuthi esimweni se-blues asenzi ukuthengwa okukhulu.
Khona-ke kuvela ukuthi ayiphumeleli ngokwedlulele, ngoba ibangela izinhlangano ezimbi. Njengoba kungenakwenzeka ukuba uzivikele emzimbeni olwazini olubi kanye necebo lokuvikela ngokumelene nalo, ungakhetha ukuvuselela. Kuzwakala kungavamile futhi kuqinile, kodwa lokhu kuyilula elula. Iphuzu ukuthola okungenani amaphuzu amathathu amahle kunoma iyiphi inkinga. Yilokho konke ukubuyisa. Khona-ke ukuthi kumnandi kangakanani okwanele. Kodwa uhlangothi oluhle oluhle kunoma yikuphi okungalungile, okungukuthi: ukuhumusha ukuhluleka njengesifundo sokuphila, futhi lokhu kuzoqinisekisa ukuthi manje ngeke usufika esimweni esifanayo. Umcabango wesibili ongakufakazela ukuphila: bonga uNkulunkulu ukuthi akukho okubi nakakhulu okwenzekile! Ukulila? Yebo, kunezinto ezibaluleke kakhulu. Ngelinye igama, ekupheleni kokunciphisa okunjalo, uyojabula ngisho ukuthi konke kwenzeka! Yebo, bese uthola iziphetho, yebo!
Wayemomotheka futhi ... akazange aqaphele. Kubaluleke kakhulu ukuthi ufunde ukungaphenduli kolwazi olubi kubantu, kokubili abajwayele kanye nabantu abangabazi. Umakhelwane uphawule ngokubukeka kwakho hhayi ngamazwi angenakuqhathaniswa futhi umuzwa wakho usuku lonke luhamba kabi? Uma lokhu kwenzeka kaningi, khona-ke kudingeka udinga isu lokuzivikela. Okokuqala, kunomsebenzi onzima kakhulu okwenziwe ukuze kunqunywe iqembu layo lokubhekisela, njengoba kusho izazi ze-psychologists. Okusho ukuthi, iqembu labantu abanombono obaluleke kakhulu kuwe kubalulekile noma kuzuzisa ukucabangela. Ingabe umakhelwane wakho uchwepheshe wesimfashini? Kungaba ngumcwaningi wokugunyaza? Noma ingumuntu nje ofuna ukumthanda? Uma kunjalo, buya bese ubuza, yini engalungile ngesithombe sakho? Uma kungenjalo, yilahle ngaphandle kwekhanda lakho ucabange ngento ebaluleke ngempela. Qaphela futhi unqume - mhlawumbe kufanelekile ukushintsha isimo sengqondo ngomuntu?
Lungisa! Bathi ukuqala kwecala kuyisiqingatha empini. Isimo sengqondo esifanele ekuqaleni kwesixazululo kunoma yikuphi inkinga cishe isiqinisekiso sokuqedwa kwayo ngempumelelo. Umfundi ophumelelayo ozodlula ukuhlolwa komfundisi "onobungozi", ucabanga: "Ngizomenza amomotheka, amangaze futhi aqaphele kimi, kodwa umuntu ocabanga!"
Umuntu olahlekile , olinganisa ekudonseni ngenxa yemisindo engavundiwe, uhambela esikhungweni ngomcabango: "Uzophinde ahlekise, ahlekise futhi angitshele ukuthi kuyini. Nkosi, ngithini kimi? "Ngakho faka iziphetho: isimo sengqondo esingalungile nolwazi olubi kunomphumela omubi kumuntu.
Ungama ihange. I-Ancho yilehlulekile ekudlule. Kuyafaneleka izikhathi eziningana ukwehluleka noma ukuzwa imizwelo engemuhle kuhlobo olufanayo lwezimiso, njengoba kunokuhlangana okuzinzile okuhlangenwe nakho okungalungile. Sihlala phansi "ihange elingenamkhawulo" futhi sisisusa endaweni yalo akunakwenzeka. Kubalulekile ukuqaphela ukuthi ngokwengeziwe isimo ngokwawo noma ngisho nje nokulindela kwakhe kubangela imizwelo emibi, ngakho-ke amathuba okuhluleka akhula. Ungaba kanjani? Zama ukulinganisa isimo esifanayo, kodwa ngokuhle, ukuphela ngokuphumelelayo ngokuphumelelayo! Uma kuningi izikhathi ezingenangqondo kule sayithi, akunakwenzeka ukuthi isimo sizophinda! Zikhuthaze ukuguqula izimo, esivame ukuzitholela ngokungafanelanga amandla anjalo angaqondakali!
Izingxoxo ezingathandeki
Kungakhathaliseki ukuthi uzama kanzima kangakanani, awukwazi ukuwagwema. Ngesinye sezizathu, kufanele ubhekane nabantu abathandekayo ikakhulukazi ngezihloko ezingathandeki. Ngesikhathi esifanayo, ulalele ngezikhathi ezithile izitatimende ezingakhethi. Ulwazi olubi oluqondiswe kuwe, luthwala amandla okubhubhisa, asebenza ngombono, ukuzethemba kanye nenhlalakahle jikelele. Ngakho-ke, udinga ukukwazi ukuzivikela ekungalingani futhi lokhu kuzokusiza uphumelele empilweni, ube nempilo enhle futhi uzolile, futhi ubheke phambili esikhathini esizayo ngokuqiniseka. Ngakho-ke, uma kufanele uhole ingxoxo engathandeki, funda ukuwuqonda kuphela njengesikhashana sokusebenza, akukho lutho. Kudingekile ukuthi ufunde ukungathinti lutho, ikakhulukazi okungalungile kwi-akhawunti yakho siqu. Futhi khumbula ukuthi noma iyiphi inkinga ingaxazululwa, futhi akufanele ithinte impilo yakho kabi. Zama ukushintshela kokunye okuthakazelisayo. Ukuphazamisa noma ukulala nje. Ukulala kuyoba imithi engcono emva kwengxoxo engathandeki.