Ucindezeleke okhiye ababili - futhi usuvele uphakathi kokuxhumana. Ufuna ukuqinisekisa ukubaluleka kwakho - uvule ikhasi ku-Odnoklassniki, ubuke ukuthi bangaki abantu abayivakashele, beqiniseka ngokubaluleka kwalo. Ngaphandle kwalokho, ukuhlala nje nokusebenza (uma lo msebenzi uxhumeke nekhomputha) kuyisicefe, futhi ukuze uhlele isikhathi, abantu baya ezweni eliyiqiniso futhi bakhulume kwi-intanethi, lapho kuphephile khona, azikho izibopho, ungazicabangela njengomuntu noma ubani, uphazamise ubuchopho babanye ngisho thola kulokhu ukushayela ngokomzwelo.
Yiziphi izingcupheni ze-intanethi?
Ibhulogi lomhlaba wonke wezwe elibonakalayo kanye nokukhulumisana kwi-intanethi kudonsela ngaphandle futhi kubangele ukuxhomeka kokuhlukunyezwa kwabakwa-narcotic kubasebenzisi. Abantu banesifiso esikhulu sokungena ku-intanethi, futhi, uma bengena kuwo, umuntu akatholi amandla okushiya amakhasi ewebhu. Kunezinhlobo ezimbili eziyinhloko zezwe elibonakalayo kanye nokuxhumana kwi-Inthanethi: ukuxhomeka kwengxoxo - kusuka ekuxoxweni, emaforamu, efonconferensi, e-mail. Futhi ukulutha kwewebhu - kusuka kumanani amasha wolwazi (ukushisa okubonakalayo kumasayithi, ama-portals nezinto). Kodwa nokho iningi labantu abaxhomeke ku-Inthanethi lanikezela ngezinsizakalo ezihlobene nokuxhumana. Ngokwezibalo, izici ezikhangayo kakhulu kulabo abathintana nabo abaziwa (86%), ukufinyeleleka (63%), ukuphepha (58%) nokulula ukusetshenziswa (37%). Ngakho inethiwekhi iyadingeka ukuthola ukwesekwa kwezenhlalakahle, ukuzithokozisa ngokocansi, amathuba okudala i-hero yangempela (ukudala umuntu omusha).
Iyini inkinga yokuxhomeka kolwazi?
Kubizwa nangokuthi umlutha wewebhu. Ngokuvamile, kuthinta abantu abahlotshaniswa nohlobo lomsebenzi wokucubungula nokutholakala kolwazi (izintatheli zingabokuqala eqenjini eliyingozi). Bazizwa behluleka njalo izindaba, ukungathandeki ekuqapheliseni ukuthi ngalowo mzuzwana kukhona okwenzekayo endaweni ethile, futhi abakwaziyo. Ukuqonda ukuthi akunakwenzeka ukumboza konke, kuyanyamalala. Ingqondo ayikho umkhawulo: ngemuva komcabango owodwa ufika omunye, okwesithathu ... Ukuze ume ngesikhathi, udinga ukuba phakathi kwe-hack ebizwa ngokuthi i-sting ehlangene-ukuhlanganiswa kwamandla, umoya nenhloso. Yakha noma yimuphi umsebenzi. Lona ikhono lokuhlangana ngesikhathi esifanele, ukugxila futhi uqondise wonke amandla ukuze uqalise umsebenzi othile. Ulwazi lugxilisa ukunakwa, umqondo wesikhathi ulahlekile, i-chewing gum iphonswa ebuchosheni, okuyinto ihlaziya ngokucophelela. Ukuze uqinisekise ukuthi ulwazi alubhubhisi ukugcina ekugcineni, kufanele kube nombhalo wokubheka. Ngifunda umbono othile, waphefumulelwa yilo futhi ngawubona. Kubalulekile ukucubungula yonke imicabango ngokulandelana, kodwa yilabo kuphela abafake emphefumulweni. Futhi, uma kungenzeka, basebenzise, futhi hhayi nje ukupheqa ekhanda lakho.
Indlela yokuchaza ukuthandwa kwamanethiwekhi omphakathi : "Ofunda nabo", "VKontakte" nokunye okunjalo?
Umuntu udinga ukuhlolwa kusuka ngaphandle, ukuthola isiqiniseko, ngabe ulandela impilo ngokufanele, aziqhathanise nabanye. Enkundleni yokuxhumana, umsebenzisi uqala ikhasi lakhe siqu - isithombe esihle - ukuziveza. Izingane, amadoda, ukuphumula, izingane zihlonywa, izifiso, zihalalisela, izinkondlo zibhaliwe komunye nomunye, izilinganiso zobufakazi bazo nobuhle obuhle ziqoqwe. Ngakho-ke, isidingo sokuqinisekisa ukubaluleka komuntu siqu senziwa. Noma kunjalo, ukuxhumana nabantu kungokomfanekiso. Esiphakamisweni somhlangano wangempela, bambalwa abasabelayo, futhi uma ngabe umhlangano uyenzeka, uvame ukuthi awunakukhanya futhi omuhle njengezwe elibonakalayo.
Ukuxhumana kwe-intanethi kuhluke kanjani okwamanje?
Umuntu akahlali nenjabulo yedwa, ngaso sonke isikhathi sinesifiso sokuhlanganyela izinto ezingaphakathi - lezo ezingatshelwa kuphela kumuntu. Sithinta imizwelo kuphela lapho kuxoxwa ngenjabulo - siyamamatheka ngokumomotheka, siphendula ngesihawu ngosizi. I-intanethi idala inkohliso yokuxhumana okuphilayo. Imishwana yomuntu ngamunye, imibhalo ibhaliwe, kukhona umuzwa wokuthi ubuchopho, obudinga isinyathelo njalo, kulandela into. Kodwa lokhu kuyinkolelo nje. Izazi ze-Psychologists ziqhathanisa ukukhulumisana kuwebhu nge-masturbation yengqondo. Ngaphezu kwalokho, ubuhlobo obuseduze buyenza kube nzima ukwakha kwangempela. Empeleni, abasebenzisi abaningi bavuma ukuthi banenkinga yokuxhumana kwangempela. Izwe elibonakalayo kanye nokuxhumana kwi-intanethi kwenza abantu abathile bahlale ezweni labo elikhohlisayo, abakhele futhi bazivikele ngawo wonke amandla abo. Besaba ukuthi ngeke bagxeke nganoma iyiphi indlela, bathi cha, abazange basolwe futhi abazange bakhulume. Ukungabi nempendulo ebukhoma kumvimbela umuntu ekuthuthukisweni. Phela, ukuqonda ukuthi ezinye izindawo zokuphila zidinga ukuguqulwa noma ukuzivumelanisa nento ethile, kunzima kakhulu. E-intanethi, kubonakala sengathi sikhipha isizungu . Kodwa, isizungu, singaphakathi ngaphakathi kwethu, futhi akukho ndawo ongakwazi ukuyenza kuyo. Futhi kudingeka ube nesibindi sokuhlala kuso futhi ufune indlela yokuphuma kuyo.
Ziyini izibonakaliso zokulutha kwe-intanethi?
Okuhle kakhulu: isifiso esikhulu sokuhlola i-e-mail yakho, ukungazinaki izidingo zomzimba ngenxa yokushisa okungavamile (ukhohliwe ukudla, uye endlini yangasese), ukuhlala kuwebhu isikhathi eside kakhulu kunesikhathi esasihlelelwe ekuqaleni (ngangifuna ukuhamba isigamu sehora futhi ngahlala ezimbili). Ikhomphyutha igxila ngolwazi ngokukhohlwa ngemindeni yabo, nobungane, imisebenzi esemthethweni. Imiphumela yilehlukaniso, ukuxoshwa emsebenzini, ukwehluleka kwezemfundo. Ngemuva kokushiya iNethiwekhi okwesikhashana, babhekana nohlobo lwe "hangover" - umfudlana okhuni kakhulu wokuqaphela kanye nomqondo wokukhathazeka, isifiso esingenakuvinjelwa sokuphinde ufake i-virtual world futhi uxhumane ne-Intanethi.
Iziphi iziphazamiso ze-psyche ezingadala umhlaba wezwe kanye nokuxhumana kwi-intanethi?
Umuntu omdala ubonakala sengathi uneminyaka engu-7 ubudala ofuna ukuthola lokho akufunayo kulo mzuzu. Esinye isifo sengqondo esidumile yi-syndrome ka-Munchausen. Isekelwe ekufaniseni lesi sifo ukuze sikhangele ukunakwa nokuzwelana. Njengoba ku-intanethi akekho ozofuna ikhadi lakho lezokwelapha, ukudlala umuntu ogulayo kuyindaba elula.
Ubani ongengozini yokuba umlutha wekhompyutha?
Kukhona okuthiwa uhlobo lomuntu othembekile. Abantu abakhe bangakwazi ukuthembela kwi-intanethi, ukudla, utshwala noma izidakamizwa. Abazi ukuthi bangenqaba kanjani futhi benze izinqumo, besaba ukugxeka noma ukungavunyelwa. Basuke benqotshwa ukwesaba isizungu kanye nesifiso sokuqeda amandla abo bonke, ukuhluleka ukwabelana nabanye ngokuhlangenwe nakho kwabo, ukungakwazi ukuhlela isikhathi sabo nokufeza imigomo yabo. Laba bantu banezinkolelo eziningi. Namathisela umuntu kuwebhu, akukho lutho olume. Kude kubonakala sengathi i-interlocutor iyathandeka kuwe, iseduze futhi iyaqondakala, usukulungele ukumsiza kuyo yonke indawo nakuyo yonke into. Kodwa empilweni ayikho amandla okomoya okwanele okuqonda nokusekela umuntu.
Izwe elibonakalayo liyakuthinta kanjani impilo yezingane ne-psyche?
Ingane eneminyaka engama-7-10 kumele ikhule ngokomzimba-kumdlalo, ukunyakaza. Ngemva komngcele weminyaka eyishumi, amandla omzimba agxila ekuthuthukiseni umzimba, inhliziyo, amaphaphu kanye nezinye izitho ezibalulekile. Futhi emva kweminyaka engu-14 yokwamukelwa kuyashintsha engokomoya. Izingane ezincane, eziboshelwe umqapha, ziyi-static. Esikhundleni sokuthuthuka ngokwenyama ngalesi sizukulwane, kukhona umthwalo wengqondo - ngenxa yalokho, izingane zanamuhla zikhulile zakuqala. Eminyakeni engu-13-14 ubudala, sekukhona izikebhe ezibhebhethekisa izifo, ukutholakala kwesifo somzimba kanye nama-cancer okuqala. Eminyakeni eyishumi umntwana angakwazi ukukhuluma izilimi ezintathu kanye nezisekelo ezisemqoka zohlelo lwekhompiyutha, kodwa akadluli ukuhlolwa kwe-banal ukuthuthukiswa ngokomzimba: nciphise phansi eyodwa bese uthola ibhola emgomweni.
Izwe elibonakalayo kanye nokukhulumisana kwi-intanethi kuthiwa kunezinzuzo eziningi njengendlela yokufunda nokwandisa ukukhanya. Mhlawumbe, ngesilinganiso esifanele, ingabe izosiza ukukhulisa izingane ezinamandla amakhulu?
Abazali bayathinteka, bebukele ingane yabo eneminyaka emithathu ephethe nge laptop. Eqinisweni, wonke lawa makghono akhiwa ngezinga elingenakuqhathaniswa futhi angeke alusize ekuphileni komdala. Kulula kubantu abadala ukuthi bafake ingane kukhompyutheni bese bayithatha isikhashana kunokuba benze amanye amanani kuyo. Umqondo wokuthi ikhompuyutha iqala futhi iyadingeka esikoleni akuyona nje into yokuziphendulela.
I-USA yaqhuba ukuhlolwa : izingane ezineminyaka engama-5 zaqeqeshwa ngaphandle, futhi ezineminyaka engu-12 zaqeda izifundo ezigcwele zemfundo yesibili. Sebelokhu belandela impilo yabo iminyaka eminingi. Kwakukhona ukuthi akekho kubo owayephethe i-destiny: ngobuhlakani babehlakaniphile, kodwa kwakungekho izingxenye ezinamandla nezimpendulo. Babengazi ukuthi bangobani noma babekufunayo. Ngempela, ithalente ingu-99% yomsebenzi kanye nekhono lokuzihlela, futhi kuphela 1% kuxhomeke kumakhono.
Kungenzeka yini ukunciphisa imithetho yokuziphatha ephephile yabantwana kukhompyutha?
Kuze kube yiminyaka eyi-10 ingane ihlala ngobunye nezwe, kuye igunya labazali liphelele. Emva kwezingane eziyishumi ziqala ukuzihlukanisa nezwe elibazungezile, ukuzibuza ukuthi konke kulungile yini kulokhu kuphila, ukuba nesithakazelo: yini eyedlule, yikuphi ikusasa. Lesi yisikhathi lapho ungakwazi ukujoyina ikhompyutha. Isilinganiso esifanele asikho ngaphezu kwamahora amabili ngosuku: imizuzu engamashumi amane nanhlanu kukhompyutha, bese kuphumula ukuphumula. Awukwazi ukusebenzisa ikhompyutha njengendlela yokukhuthaza. Kubalulekile ukuthi ungakhulumi, ungavumeli imishini evela kunethiwekhi, kodwa uthuthukise ukuzithiba kwengane. Thola i-alamu isikhathi esithile bese uyibeka ngokulandelayo - ngakho-ke umsebenzisi omusha uyoba nomuzwa wemfanelo wemisebenzi yakhe. Ngokuvamile, abazali ngokwabo bathembele kukhompyutha. Phela, njengoba namuhla kuchitha isikhathi samahhala umndeni omusha: ubaba udlala "kwesibhamu" esithile, futhi umama ukhuluma nabangani "Abalingana nabo." Yini ehlalayo yengane? Hlala futhi kukhompyutha.
Iziphi izinkinga ezempilo yabesifazane ezingabangela ikhompiyutha yokuzilibazisa, umhlaba weqiniso kanye nokuxhumana ku-Inthanethi?
Ukungafani nokuhlukunyezwa yizinsizakalo zabesifazane, ziboshelwe umqapha. I-Hypodinamia kanye neziqhumane eziqhubekayo endaweni yangasese zivula amasango kuzo zonke izinhlobo zokuvuvukala. Ngokuvamile, ulwazi oluvela kwiNethiwekhi yabesifazane lubangela izinkinga, ikakhulukazi omama abasha abafuna izimpendulo zemibuzo yabo kwi-intanethi. Namuhla zonke izinkundla ze "Amama" zithandwa, lapho ezinye, omama abangafanelanga khona (okunye kungaba usizo ukuhlola isimo sempilo yengqondo) ngokungaziwa banikeze iseluleko "osebenza nabo". Ezinye izincomo zifana nokuhlola okuyingozi ezinganeni zabo. Ama-anonymous amaningi asabisa abangane abangenangqondo, engabonakali izingane zabo ezixilisayo. Amama aqala ukuzwakalisa ngokwabo, enza i-neurosis enkulu.
Ukubonisana kwe-intanethi ye-Virtual kuyathandwa namhlanje . Ngaphandle kokushiya ikhompiyutha, ungathola ukuthi uhlolwe kanjani, uthole incazelo eningiliziwe yokwelapha bese uhleleka ngokushesha imithi kumakhemikhali e-inthanethi. Ziziphi izindlela eziphephile zokuxilongwa nokuphathwa? Namuhla uhlobo olusha lwabasebenzisi be-intanethi luvele - ama-cyberchondrics abalandeli abakhulu be-inthanethi, ukuqoqa ukubonisana kochwepheshe mayelana nempilo yabo cishe kuzo zonke izingxenye zomhlaba. Baqiniseke ukuthi kukhona izifo ezimbi, ezingekho ngaphezu kwezithelo zengqondo yabo.
Ngiphi indlela ongayichaza ngayo imithombo ye-intanethi engathembeka kumuntu ongathandabuzayo?
Kunezibonakaliso eziningana noma "vimbela amagama" anganikeza imithombo ye-Inthanethi yezokwelapha engacacile. Lokhu konke okuhlobene "nolwazi lwamandla" - ulwazi lwamatrices, amanzi, i-aura, i-biofield, i-wave genome, ukuhlola kwe-astral, i-bioresonance noma "ukuxilongwa kwamadokotela angu-40 ngehora lehora", ukususwa kweminye yonke into ehambisana nabo.
Namuhla i-Inthanethi inikeza amathuba amaningi kulabo abafuna ingxenye yesibili. Ubukhulu bezindawo zokuphola zinikeza abalingani kuzo zonke izintandokazi nombala. Usesho olubonakalayo lothando lwakho luhluke kanjani kuqobo?
Ukuxhumana kungabakhuthaza, bathi, lapha-yiyona eyodwa kuphela. Kodwa umhlangano empilweni yangempela uvame ukuduma. Kodwa kuyi-intanethi - lawa angamazwi nje, okungafanele lutho lutho. Ukushintshaniswa kwamandla, ukuzama ukuqonda, abanye kanye nezwe - abangeke bakwazi ukuxhumana ngokuxhumana. Uma ekuphileni komuntu konke okushoyo kukhuluma ngothando, khona-ke kuyi-Intanethi kungumyalezo nezinhlamvu nje.
Yiziphi izikhala empilweni esizibuyisela ngokushiya kokuhle?
Ukuze uzizwe ukugcwala kokuphila, umuntu kumele abonise ezinhlokweni eziningi zokuphila. Endalweni, umsebenzi - umsebenzi owakhayo wokuzuzisa abanye, ekunakekeleni umzimba, othuthukisiwe futhi okhokhela ngokuphindwe kaningi ngenxa yokuthi unempilo futhi uhlanganyela. Ngokomoya, ubuntu esiwutholayo, izincazelo esizidalayo, kanye nezindaba eziphilayo. Ekusebenzelaneni nabanye abantu, okuthuthukisa nokunikeza impendulo: uhlala, uyaziwa. Futhi uma lokhu kukhulumisana singenzi okwangempela, akuzange kube nomuntu owenza imizwa yabo, ukunakekelwa kwabo - sishiywa yedwa ngokwesaba ukufa. Ngoba ngaphambi kokufa akukhathaleki ukuthi yiziphi izinkomba ozibhalayo, kubalulekile ukuthi ngubani ozobe eseduze nawe, ukuze ungabi nesizungu.
Indlela yokukhipha umlutha we-virtual?
Ukuphila kuhlelwe emkhakheni wezamandla "wokuthatha." E-intanethi, sinika amandla ethu kunoma ubani owazi ukuthi kuphi nokuthi kungani. Inethiwekhi iyayithatha njengesiponji. Amandla okuphiwa anikezwa kithi ngemicabango, kodwa hhayi nje kuphela, kodwa eqondiswa ekwenzeni. Futhi imizwelo ixhomeke esimweni sengqondo: "singabantu abathathu." Ingane yomzwelo idinga ukuhlangana ndawonye, yengeze imizwelo yethu, ivele nomqondo othile futhi ithole umthombo wamandla ukuze uqaphele. Umuntu uyakwazi ukuziphonsa kwezinye izingxenye zokuphila, lapho kuzoba khona imizwelo eminingi, futhi ngeke nje akhumbule ngekhompyutha. Amandla angcwatshwe ezindabeni zangempela, izenzo zangempela kanye nokuxhumana kwangempela. Futhi i-intanethi ingaba ngumsizi ekusesheni kwabo. Sebenzisa izwe elibonakalayo njengethuluzi lokukhulisa izithakazelo zakho empilweni yangempela (ukuhlangana). Akukho okuyosithatha esikhundleni sokunethezeka kokuxhumana, kodwa akuyona into ebonakalayo, kodwa yangempela.