Umuntu ngamunye ukhangayo ngendlela yakhe. Futhi yingxenye encane yokukhangisa yanele ukuheha, kepha ayikwazi ukuqonda ngokujulile izwe langaphakathi lomuntu ngamunye. Emva kwakho konke, into ebaluleke kunazo zonke ekuhlotsheni komndeni kungumlingiswa wakhe, ingqondo yakhe kanye nezindinganiso zakhe. Eminyakeni yamuva nje, abantu abaningi abacabangi ngokuziphatha kobuhlobo - njengesisekelo somndeni oqinile nokuchuma. Ihlala kuphela ukubuka. Futhi kubaluleke kakhulu ukukhumbula ukuthi ayikho isizungu sokugula, udinga nje ukuzilalela futhi uqonde ukuthi kungani kungekho ubuhlobo nabantu? Sizocabangela ezinye zazo:
- Uma ubuhlobo bungafaki, ubuye uhloniphe ubudlelwane bakho nendoda, yenze kahle. Uchitheka kumngane wakho, zizinikele. Ngenxa yalokho, indoda ilahlekelwa isithakazelo ngokushesha kuwe.
- Wena, okokuqala udwebe isimo esingalungile sobudlelwane, imicabango yakho nemishwana yakho: akusikho kimi, angikufanele ngokwanele, nginemilenze egcwele kakhulu, angiyinkimbinkimbi. Ngokuqinisekiswa okuqinile okunjalo, uzohlale uhlala emthunzini.
- Mhlawumbe uziphatha kahle, ungawuvumeli ezweni lakho langaphakathi. Kungase kubonakale sengathi awunandaba naye. Isibonelo sokuziphatha okuhlambalayo sidalwe.
- Ukukopisha okungenakuqaphela kwabazali babo. Mhlawumbe bona ngokwabo ngaphandle kokwazi, bafunde izimiso zokuxhumana nomuntu njengoba umama wakho akwenzile futhi akwenzile, azungezwe namadoda aseduze noma noyise.
- Kulula futhi kuphephile ukuzizwa nalabo bantu abangabonisi inzalo. Mhlawumbe uyesaba ukuthi ubuhlobo ngeke buhlale isikhathi eside noma buvele ngokushesha.
- Owesifazane ufihla amandla akhe, isithunzi namakhono. Ukufihla amakhono akho kubantu, wena, ekugcineni, uzifihle wena futhi ngenxa yalokho ungawalahleka.
- Owesifazane kufanele alalele umuntu. Lokhu kusho ukuzithokozisa ngesabelo esincane sothando nokunakwa kunalokho okufanelwe.
- Ngezinye izikhathi amadoda ayesaba abesifazane abathandekayo - uma umuntu engaphakathi engaqiniseki: lokhu, cute akuyona kimi. Futhi ucabanga ukuthi uphikisiwe. Futhi wawunakwazisa kakhulu, yingakho babesaba kakhulu.
- Inkohlakalo enkulu yowesifazane yilapho siphendula ngothando nangesisa esimweni esibi esingenabulungisa kubo. Sizungeze ukufudumala kwalawo madoda ahlambalaza imizwa yethu ukuze abonise ukuthi abesifazane bayabathanda njengoba beyikho ngempela, ngaphandle kwemaski.
- Wonke owesifazane ufuna indoda ikwazi ukufeza zonke izifiso zayo, ilandele izinqumo zayo kuphela - futhi ithathe umthwalo ogcwele kuphela. Ngenxa yalokho, khumbula indaba yezinganekwane ngokuthi "Umdobi kanye Nenhlanzi" kanye nowesifazane osekhulile, ohlezi nomkhombe ophukile ...
Khumbula, umuntu akazalwa ngenxa yedwa. Noma yimuphi ubuhlobo bungakwazi futhi kufanele bufundwe. Ungesabi ukukhombisa ukuthi uthanda amadoda amaningi, ukuthi ayakuthanda futhi ufisa. Yiba umklomelo owamukelekile wamadoda. Ngifisa futhi ucabange ukuthi amadoda afuna ukuthi uthande futhi enze ubuhlobo nawe, ubungane. Futhi akunandaba, akunjalo ngempela. Uma ucabanga ukuthi amadoda amaningi ayakuthanda - ke, ngesikhathi esifushane uzoba nesixuku sabalandeli. Futhi masinyane le nkulumo ithi: "Angizibandakanyi namadoda" - angeke afaneleke kuwe.