Kubonakala sengathi kuyinto eyisisekelo futhi elula - ukusho amagama amathathu anjalo alula futhi ayigugu "Ngiyakuthanda". Kodwa, ngeshwa, akubona wonke umuntu ongazibiza ngokuqondile ukuze athinte ubunzulu bomphefumulo. Yiqiniso, izimpawu zothando nokunakekelwa akufanele zikhawulelwe ngosuku olulodwa lonyaka, futhi ngisho nangokwesikhathi sokugcina ngosuku lomshado. Ngakho-ke, impendulo yombuzo: "Ingabe kuyadingeka ukuthi uvume ukuthi uthande uma ushada isikhathi eside? "Kubikezelwa kakhulu futhi kulula. Ukuvuma ukuthi uthanda njalo, kungakhathaliseki ukuthi uhlangene kangakanani nokuthi ushadile noma cha. Unganika izimbali nama-candies nsuku zonke, kepha lokhu akushiyelanga amagama mayelana nemizwa yakho. Ngempela, ezindabeni zenhliziyo, into esemqoka ukuthi konke kufanele kuvela emphefumulweni. Ngakho-ke, ungabhekiseli ekusetshenzisweni kwamazwi mayelana nemizwa, uthando, ukwethula.
Ukuze uthole uthando, udinga ukuqinisekisa imizwa yakho .
Umqondo wokuthi abashadile bathandana ngaso sonke isikhathi, basekela izandla zeqembu, nganoma yisiphi isikhathi esinzima kubo. Ngendlela, ngezinye izikhathi izinto ezilula zansuku zonke ziba yizinkulumo ezibalulekile zothando nothando. Isibonelo, wena nomlingani wakho othandekayo waya e-dacha. Phakathi nezindaba ze-dacha ensimini, ngokungazelelwe waqeda imbali futhi ngokungalindelekile weza kuwe futhi, emnikeza, wathi indlela akuthandayo ngayo. Injalo encane, kodwa isenhle. Ngamanye amazwi, "uthando oluqhubekayo lwangewona uthando."
Ngendlela, ukubonakaliswa kothando emshadweni kungase kube nokusebenza komsebenzi ojwayelekile wasekhaya: ukuhlanza indlu, ukugeza izitsha noma umshini noma ukuhlanza izingubo zokuhlanza izingubo. Into eyinhloko ukwenza konke ndawonye bese usizana enhliziyweni. Kodwa lapho eqoqa umyeni wakhe emsebenzini futhi ekwenzela ukudla kwasekuseni, ungafaka inothi kuma-sandwich ngamazwi okuqashelwa. Emsebenzini, ukuletha ama-sandwich, ngokuqinisekile uyothola futhi uyojabula kakhulu. Ungabuye avume uthando lwakhe kuwe ngokufaka inothi enjalo esikhwameni sakho.
Ukwazi ukukhuluma ngothando ngesikhathi lapho uhlangene .
Ngokuvamile kwenzeke ukuthi abantu, bebengumngane womndeni, basebenzisa isikhathi esiningi emsebenzini wabo futhi ngenxa yalokhu abanalo isikhathi esanele sokungathi lutho. Kodwa lokhu akusona isizathu sokungabonisi imizwa yabo. Zama ukuzinikela okungenani usuku olulodwa ngenyanga. Kulolu suku, kungcono ukuyeka ukunyuka okuhlukahlukene ukuvakashela nokwamukela izivakashi ekhaya. Izingane ngalelo langa kusihlwa zithathwa kahle kunogogo nomkhulu. Vele usebenzise lolu suku ndawonye ngokuvumelana okuphelele nokuqonda. Ukuba yi-tete-a-tete, ujabulele ukuxhumana nomunye nomunye. Funda ndawonye izincwadi ezithakazelisayo, ulele embhedeni owodwa, hamba ujikeleze ipeni epaki noma idolobha lasebusuku, uye emvelweni noma uhlele nje isidlo sokuthanda ekhaya ekhaya namakhandlela. Ungacabangi ukuthi uma ushada, imilayezo enjalo isuke ingakafiki kuwe. Ngempela, into esemqoka ukuthi unesikhathi esimnandi ndawonye futhi uthole injabulo enkulu kuwo.
Ngendlela, ungakwazi, ngokuqoqa izinto ngokuzumayo, uye endaweni ethile yokuphumula, okuyinto ngokuqinisekile kuyokwengeza uthando lomndeni wakho. Lokhu kuzovuselela futhi kuhlaziye ubuhlobo bakho futhi ngokuqinisekile uzofuna ukukhuluma ngothando njalo ngangokunokwenzeka.
Futhi, izinkumbulo zale minyaka zahlala ndawonye noma umzuzu lapho wazijwayele ngaphambi komshado wakho kuzosiza ukuvuselela imizwa. Kholelwa ukuthi amagama anjengokuthi "Uyakhumbula ...? ", Hlanganisa abantu kahle kakhulu. Flip ngokusebenzisa ama-albhamu wakho wezithombe, lokhu kuzoba yisenzakalo esihle kakhulu sokubukwa okubonakalayo.
Futhi, njengoba sesishilo kakade, indima yamazwi ibaluleke kakhulu othandweni. Ukuzibiza ngokuzwakalayo noma ngokuhlekisayo, ngezwi noma ngaphandle, kusezimo ezithile: ubulili, udlala ngothando, ukuthandana, ukunakekela. Ikakhulukazi lawa mazwi azwakala kahle futhi acindezela ukuzwa phakathi nobusuku obugcwele ngothando nokuzwela.
Ukucabanga kuyisibopho sokuqala sothando .
Ungabonisa uthando kumlingani wakho, ngisho nangokumlalela ngokucophelela. Uma unezinkinga, kufanele ukhulume naye ngaso sonke isikhathi ngalesi sihloko futhi umsekele. Mbonise ukuthi uyigugu kangakanani kuwe nokuthi angathembela kuwe njalo. Khumbula ukuthi ubungane nokuqonda okufanayo emshadweni kubaluleke kakhulu kunezocansi noma ukuphepha kwezimali komndeni. Ukuze ukhonjwe, futhi ukuvuma ngothando kwakusendaweni yansukuzonke futhi evamile, funda ukuphatha isigamu sakho sesibili ngendlela ongathanda ukukuphatha ngayo.
Ukuxhumana ngokomzimba ngosizo luthando .
Kubalulekile ukuqaphela uthando futhi ungakhohlwa ukuxhumana komzimba nomlingani wakho. Amazwi mayelana nemizwa, eyongezwa ngokubambisana okuqinile noma okunene, angakwazi ukuhambisana ngokuphelele. Phela, ngendlela enjalo yokukhombisa imizwa yakho kumuntu othandekayo - lena isinyathelo esifanele kunazo zonke emgwaqweni wokubambisana empilweni yomndeni. Ngendlela, ungasho amazwi akho owathandayo ngothando, ngisho nje ngokuthatha isandla noma ukuthinta ihlombe lakhe futhi ubheke emehlweni akhe.
Futhi, zenze umsizi wokuphumula othakazelisayo noma uhlambe kanye namafutha anamakha. Yazi ukuthi le nkulumo yemizwa ibaluleke kakhulu kubo bobabili bomshado. Futhi akuxhomeki eminyakeni ehlala ndawonye. Emva kwakho konke, iminyaka kuphela abantu abavivinya amandla okuzizwa kwabo. Ngakho-ke, uma ulandela iminyaka emihlanu noma eyishumi noma ngaphezulu yokushada ungasho ngokuphepha komunye nomunye: "Ngiyakuthanda! ", - wazi ukuthi imizwa yakho iyona eqotho futhi ehlanzekile kakhulu. Ngakho-ke, ungalokothi ukhohlwe ukusho amazwi othando okumelwe avele ekujuleni kwenhliziyo yakho. Khona-ke ungakwazi ukuthola umndeni weqiniso injabulo. Uthando, futhi okubaluleke kakhulu, thandwa futhi ungafihli imizwa yakho. Inhlanhla kuwe!