Amadoda nokucindezeleka

Kukhona inkolelo yokuthi amadoda angaphezu kwanoma yimiphi imizwelo. Abazizwa ngenxa yobuhlobo noma ukuhlukaniswa, cishe abaqapheli ubuhlungu, banomkhawulo ophezulu wokuzwela. Ngendlela, amadoda ngokwawo aphikisana nombono onjalo ngokwawo futhi abambe iqhaza ekudaleni izinkolelo ezinjalo. Eqinisweni, konke kuhlukile kancane. Kulabo abambalwa, akugcini nje ukuthi ubhekene nokucindezeleka ngenxa yezinto ezibonakala ziyingcosana, abanye kuphela abazifihla ngobuciko.

Ukulwa nokuphumelela.
Konke kwaziwa ukuthi kubalulekile ukuthi amadoda abe noma okungenani abonakale aphumelele. Cabanga ngalesi simo: umuntu wakho ungumholi obala noma angathanda ukuba nguye, kodwa impumelelo ingeyakho kuphela. Kumele akhombise ukuthi akabi kakhulu, hhayi kuphela kuwe, kodwa nakubangane, izihlobo, futhi, okubaluleke kakhulu, kuye. Ake sithi uqale umsebenzi wakho ngesikhathi esifanayo ngezimo ezilinganayo: imfundo efanayo, amakhono afanayo, izifiso nezinhloso. Eminyakeni embalwa usuvele ungumphathi, futhi usengumabhalane onesizotha. Indoda izobhekana nokucindezeleka okuqhubekayo, ukuzama ukuhambisana nawe, izobona ukubola ngisho nalapho ingekho khona, ukuhawukela wena nokuphumelela kwakho, nakwamanye amadoda aphumelele nakakhulu. Eqinisweni, imibhangqwana enjalo ithola ushintsho emisebenzini yobulili, lapho umholi engunaphakade noma okwesikhashana owesifazane.
Uma uyakwazisa indoda yakho, zama ukwenza ukuphila kwakhe kube lula, ngoba kungakanani uziphatha ngayo naye, kuncike ebuhlotsheni bakho. Uma enomhawu ngabalingani bakhe, ungazifihli. Isibonelo, mema indoda yakho ehhovisi, lapho angenza khona ukuthi, naphezu kwempumelelo yakho, akanabaphikisi abafanelekayo. Ukumncoma, unake ngaphezu komuntu, kodwa izimfanelo zobuchwepheshe. Ukudumisa akuyona ubuhle namandla, kepha ukuhlakanipha, ikhono lokucabanga ngokucabangayo, ukubona kwangaphambili. Kodwa ungazitholi, kuzobonakala ngokushesha. Ziqhayise ngaye, futhi makabe ezwa njalo ngangokunokwenzeka.

Fight for the "medal".
Ezimweni eziningi, indoda yakho ethandekayo ikude neyokuqala, futhi uyazi kahle lokhu. Naphezu kokuthi uthi unamathele emibonweni yamahhala futhi akanalutho olukuphikisayo, ukuthi ngaphambi kokuthola okuhlangenwe nakho ebuhlotsheni, lokhu akusho nakancane ukuthi akanomhawu. Indoda inesibalo esikhulu sezinkathazo nezinkimbinkimbi, esingakwazi ngisho nokuziqagela ngakho. Uyaziqhathanisa njalo nalabo abaye baba nawe ngaphambili, futhi lezi ziqhathaniso azivami ukuthanda kwakhe. Indoda ifuna ukuba ngowokuqala futhi engcono kunazo zonke, kodwa imfihlakalo yakhe ibeletha ama-giants obucanshangayo esikhathini esidlule.
Mvikele ekukhathazeni okungadingekile. Ungaphenduli imibuzo evusa inkanuko, ungamcasuli ukuba angabaza ukuthi ungumuntu ongcono kakhulu owawenawe. Ngisho noma lokhu kungenjalo. Ukuze udlule umhawu, kwanele ukumqinisekisa ukuthi awujabuli ngobukhulu, ubuciko noma ubude besikhathi, kodwa kuphela ngenxa yokuthi nguye owenza lokho. Lokhu kuzomsiza ukuba akholelwe kuye.

Ukulwa nezimpumputhe.
Ubuhlobo obunakho ngaphambi komuntu wakho, lokhu akusona nje isikhathi sokungabaza embhedeni. Ungasho ngokungaqiniseki owayekade - othile wayemabi kakhulu, othile omuhle kakhulu, othile wakuphonsa, omunye umuntu. Indoda yakho igcwele ukufutheka, bese ishisa ngomhawu noma emona. Futhi uhlale engabaza ukuthi uyamthanda ngempela yini, awucabangi ukuthi ufana nalokho okucabangayo ngo-Vasya olahlekile noma u-Petani womanizer?
Okokuqala, yeka izingxoxo ezinjalo kanye kanye. Uma udinga ukuxoxa okuthile, zikhethele wena - khuluma nentombi yakho noma isazi sengqondo. Okokuqala, wena ngokwakho kufanele uvale ngokuphelele umnyango wobudlelwano bakho obudlule. Uma kuphakama imibuzo nokuxoxa, ngokuqiniseka uthi yonke into eyedlule ayifanele ukunakwa. Kholisa indoda ukuthi uyamthanda futhi ujabule.

Umzabalazo welungelo lobumfihlo.
Awubonanga yini ukuthi amadoda ahluleka kakhulu ukwabelana nakho kwabo nanoma ubani omunye? Futhi, mhlawumbe usukwazi ukubona ukuthi izingxoxo zakho zocingo ezinde noma ukuxoxa nezintombi ekhishini, nazo, azijabulisi umuntu? Uvele engaqondi ukuthi kungani kufanele unikezele emibuthanweni esondelene kakhulu yempilo yakho yabantu abangabazi. Lokhu kungukuthi, Lena noma uMarina - abangane abangcono kakhulu abavela emanzini, kepha kuye lokhu kuyinhlebo evamile. Ngaphezu kwalokho, amadoda njalo esaba ukuthi kulezi zingxoxo ngeke zixoxwe ngazo izimfanelo zabo ezimnandi kunazo zonke, zonke izinkinga kanye namaphutha.
Okokuqala, ungafihla izintombi zakho ubuhlobo bakho, kungenjalo bazozama ukuthola ulwazi ngokwabo, okungabangela imiphumela engalindelekile. Kodwa ungakhulumi kakhulu, ngoba noma yiluphi ulwazi lungasetshenziswa ngokumelene nawe. Khuluma kuphela ukuthi awungeke ube namahloni okuzwa kwabanye.

Ubudlelwane buhlala busebenza. Kuvela ukuthi akusilo thina kuphela esingesaba, umhawu, umhawu noma ukucasuka. Nakekela umuntu wakho, ngoba ngezinye izikhathi basuke bebuthakathaka kakhulu futhi banesidingo esikhulu sokuvikelwa nokunakekelwa kwethu.