Umntwana uzohlala nobani ngemva kokuhlukaniswa kwabazali?

Izingxabano zomndeni ngokuphathelene nezingane zivame kakhulu. Lokhu kuphakamisa umbuzo onzima, ingane izohlala nobani ngemva kokuhlukaniswa kwabazali? Inselele enkulu evela ngesikhathi isahlukaniso somlingani ukuthi ingane ingahlala nomunye wabazali. Uma umyeni nomkakhe emva kokuhlukanisa baye bahlala nobuhlobo obuhle futhi baqhubeka bexhumana, bavame ukubonakala, noma kunjalo, indlela endala yokuphila izohlala phakade kuwo wonke amalungu omndeni. Njengomthetho, izingane zihlala nomama wazo. Nakuba lokhu kungeke kubhekane nezithakazelo nezifiso zomntwana.

Isisekelo sempikiswano ekunqumeni ukuthi ngubani ozohlala nengane emva kokuqedwa komshado ingxabano phakathi komyeni nomfazi wangaphambili. Naphezu kokuthi amalungelo abazali ngaphansi kwemithetho yeRussian Federation ayifanayo, enkantolo ngokuvamile indawo yokuhlala ihlolwe nomama. Kodwa-ke, akudingekile ukuthi uthathe umkhuba wokwahlulela okhona njengenhlangano ye-axiom. Ngokuhambisana nombhalo we-Family Code of Russia, ukuhlala, kucatshangelwa ukwehlukana kwabazali, kusungulwe isivumelwano phakathi kwabazali.

Uma abazali bengasifumani isivumelwano, impikiswano phakathi kwabo ixazululwa yinkantolo. Lapho wenza isinqumo, inkantolo kumele iqhubeke nezidingo zomntwana, icabange umbono wakhe. Ukwengeza, uma ucabangela le nkinga, inkantolo kumele icabangele ukunamathiselwa komntwana kubaba nomama, odadewabo nabafowabo, ubudala bomntwana, izimfanelo zokuziphatha zabazali, ubudlelwane obukhona phakathi komama nengane naphakathi kukababa nomntwana, kungenzeka ukunikeza izimo ezilula zokuthuthukiswa nokukhuliswa kwengane isibonelo, isimo somzimba sabazali, imodi yomsebenzi, uhlobo lomsebenzi, njll).

Uma kunquma ukuthi ingane izohlala kuphi ngemva kokuhlukaniswa kwabazali, ukubamba iqhaza ngokuqondile ekunakekeleni okufanele, ukukhuliswa kwengane nokunye nokunye kubalulekile.

Kufanele kuqaphele ukuthi enkantolo ngokuvamile abazali bakhuluma ngokunakekelwa kwezingane kusuka kunogogo nomkhulu, okuyinto ngokombono wabo kuyisizathu esibalulekile sokunquma indawo lapho izingane zizohlala khona. Kule mpikiswano, inkantolo ivame ukungabaza, ngoba ngabazali ababambe iqhaza ekuxabaneni ngencazelo yokuhlala, hhayi abanye abantu.

Futhi, abanye bakholelwa ngephutha ukuthi into esemqoka ekunqumeni indawo yokuhlala indawo yendawo yomunye wabazali. Kodwa-ke, kufanele kuqaphele ukuthi isisekelo senkantolo ukucacisa ukuthi ingane izohlala kuphi ngemva kokuhlukaniswa akuyona ukuvikela izithakazelo zabazali, kodwa ukuvikelwa kwezintshisekelo zomntwana, amalungelo akhe.

Yingakho njalo, uma kukhona umehluko kwimali yabazali, inkantolo yenza isinqumo ngokuhlala kwezingane nomzali onomholo omncane ongenayo kunomunye oshade naye. Lesi sinqumo senkantolo sinqunywe, njengombuso, ngokuthi umzali onenzuzo ephezulu kaningi unosuku oluthe xaxa futhi oluvuthiwe olusebenzayo, ukuhamba kwezebhizinisi isikhathi eside futhi okuvamile, okwenza kube nzima ukuhlinzekela ngokugcwele izingane ezincane nokukhuliswa ngendlela efanele.

Ukungavumelani okuvame kakhulu kuhilela ukuthi umzali oyedwa akavumeli umzali wesibili ukuba akhulume nengane ngemuva kokuhlukanisa. Isisekelo salokhu kuziphatha yimibono engalungile ukuthi umzali ohlala eceleni komntwana, emva kokuhlukanisa, ulahlekelwa amalungelo omzali. Nokho, lokhu akunjalo neze.

Ukuvela kwamalungelo omzali nokuqedwa kwabo akuhlobene nokuthi indoda noma owesifazane ushadile noma cha.

Ngokusho kombhalo we-Family Code waseRussia, umzali ohlala nengane akanelungelo lokuphazamisa ukukhulumisana komzali wesibili nengane, uma ukukhulumisana okunjalo kungalimazi ukuthuthukiswa kokuziphatha, impilo yengqondo kanye / noma yengane yomntwana. Yona kuphela inkantolo engakwazi ukunquma ukuthi umzali wenza yimuphi umonakalo, futhi akukho mbuzo umzali wesibili.

Uma omunye wabazali enqaba ukuvumela isikhathi sokuxhumana nomntwana kumzali wesibili, inkantolo ingalawula umzali onecala ukuthi angaphazamisi ukuxhumana. Umzali ongahlali nomntwana unelungelo lokukwazi okwenzekayo nengane yakhe, kuhlanganise nokwamukela ulwazi oluvela embonini yezokwelapha, ezemfundo nezinye izikhungo.