Ngizokunika ezinye izibonelo. Nangu owesifazane, ngaphandle kokusola, ozohlola impilo yakhe nodokotela emva kokuhlolwa ukuthi kuye: "Othandekayo wami, ngitholwe nginekhanda." Ucabanga ukuthi "ibutho lempi" liqala kuphi, ekhanda lakhe nasemicabangweni yakhe. Kunganjani nje uthathe isinqumo: Angiwamukeli lesi sifo, ngiyibhubhisa lesi sifo, ngiyibusise umzimba wami.
Ucabanga ukuthi uma uqala ukuphila okuqhubekayo, njengokungathi kwakungekho ukuxilongwa okunjalo, kuzokwenzekani kuwe? Lesi sifo esakhiwa engqondweni, singabhubhisa ekuqaleni kwawo, ekhanda lakho, lapho ukucabanga kwakho kwakha khona.
Futhi nasi esinye isibonelo lapho kukhona okulimazayo kabi, futhi akukhona nje ithebhulethi oyidingayo ukuthi ingasusa lo buhlungu, futhi uma uthola nje u-vithamini, kodwa uthi kuyisisombululo esinamandla esizoqeda ubuhlungu bakho ngomzuzwana, ke ubuhlungu bakho, kholwa ukuthi ngiyeke ngokushesha. Kuqinisekisiwe.
Abesifazane bangaphezu kwamadoda adingekayo, bazibophezela ekufeni kwabo ekhanda labo, ngoba yilokho engikubhalela kuwe, othandekayo wami. Asikho isidingo sokucindezela konke, konke kulula ngempela. Zithande hhayi ngamazwi kuphela kodwa nasemicabangweni yakho. Ungavumeli ukuxilongwa okungalungile komunye umuntu ukuthuthukisa ekhanda lakho, futhi.
Manje kunezifo eziningi futhi sihlale sibesaba yisikrini sethelevishini, kodwa inzwa ukuthi ayikho ngempela isifo. Yebo, uzwisise kahle, ayikho. Bahlakulela ekhanda lakho, ngoba wabavumela kanyekanye futhi waqala ukwesaba, ucabange ngabo, unamathisele ukubaluleka okukhulu kubo.
Futhi ubuchopho bomuntu ngumshini onamandla kakhulu wokukhiqiza umcabango, yikhompyutha elawula umzimba. Abantu abaningi ababekwe phezulu bawazi le mfihlo, futhi iqiniso lokuthi ngaphansi kwezwi lisho - isifo (esingabaluleki kangako yini) ungamthelela umuntu nganoma yini oyithandayo, kodwa kunesimo esisodwa sokuthi uzomvumela ukuba angene ebuchosheni bakho nokuthi ngabe uzoyihlakulela lapho .
Ngiyaqiniseka ukuthi ngamunye wethu angaba nempilo njengoba efuna. Emva kwakho konke, into esemqoka ukuvumela ukugula kuthathe imicabango yethu, kodwa imicabango yethu izalwa ekhanda futhi ibe nemthelela omkhulu emzimbeni wethu wonke. Abesifazane abathandekayo ukuze uma usho ngokuzumayo ukuthi isikhumba sakho siphelele noma ulahlekelwe isisindo, ngoba kukhona okugulayo, nje ungayithathi.
Futhi yilokhu engifuna ukukutshela khona isikhathi eside into ebalulekile empilweni ukwenza isinqumo kanye nesinqumo esiyinhloko empilweni ukuwuthola futhi ulandele iqiniso kuphela, futhi ungamanga. Ngemuva kwelanga elilodwa, ukholelwa emangeni futhi uvuma emicabangweni yakho empilweni yakho, khona-ke kuyoba nzima kuwe ukuba uphume kulo mbuso, ngoba uma ukholwa, uzinikezela kulokho okukholelwayo. Futhi uma kungazelelwe kuvela ukuthi konke okukholelwa kukho kungukukhohliswa, ngezinye izikhathi asifuni ngisho nokuvumelana nalo.
Ngabe kunjalo, sicabanga ukuthi yilokhu engikukholelwa ngakho, akunakwenzeka ukuthi lokhu kungamanga. Othandekayo bami, abathandekayo besifazane, vumela impilo yakho kanye nemicabango yakho njalo iqiniso kuphela kanye nemicabango emihle iza. Futhi uma othile egxila empilweni yakho enembile, mtshele: Angiguli, futhi ngeke ngigule, ngoba ikhanda lami lihlanzekile futhi lihlanzekile futhi akukho ndawo yokugula okukuyo. Nonke iminyaka emihle yokuphila emhlabeni!