Kulesi sihloko sizocabangela lezo zimo lapho, lapho usuvele uvuka embhedeni, usuvele uzizwa unomsindo okhululekile ngaphandle kwesizathu, umuzwa ongenangqondo wokukhathala, uhlakazekile ngokungavamile futhi awukwazi ukukhumbula ukuthi yini ofuna ukuyenza nje, uphazamiseka ngomsindo nokucindezeleka, kuthukuthelisa i-squeak izikhonkwane zomnyango noma ucingo, uzizwa unenkinga ephazamisayo futhi uzizwa unesifiso, ushiya konke, ukubalekela endaweni ethile kude. Uma unezimo ezinjalo, qaphela - usenqenqemeni lomugqa owingozi.
Ukuxilongwa kwalesi simo kulula - awuhlupheki ngomzwelo ongenangqondo wokukhathala, kodwa kusuka ekusebenzeni ngokweqile. Ukuze ususe zonke izici ezimbi zalesi sizwe, udinga ukushintsha okuthile ngokuphuthumayo empilweni yakho. Kubalulekile ukuthi ngandlela-thile uhlele futhi ushintshe inkambo yokuphila, mhlawumbe uyeke ukubhema nokuphuza, ukuzinqoba ukuze uqale ukulalela isimiso sosuku ngalunye. Izenzo ezinjalo zizokusiza ekubuyiseleni ibhalansi yezinzwa zakho, usizo ekubuyiseni isigqi sokusebenza esivamile futhi ujabulele ukuphila futhi.
Isimo esichazwe ngenhla kwimibuthano yezokwelapha sibizwa ngokuthi isifo sokukhathala okungapheli. Namuhla, kuyisifo esivamile kakhulu, futhi ngeshwa, ngokuyinhloko ukuthi yilokho abamele isigamu esihle sabantu esithintekile, ngoba abesifazane baningi kakhulu kunamadoda, abahlukunyezwa kakhulu. Isizathu salokhu siyinkimbinkimbi kakhulu, kunesimiso somuntu, isimiso sezinzwa kanye nomshini omuhle we-hormonal. Ngaphezu kwalokho, abesifazane bahlale behlombe emisebenzini emikhulu nemincane yasendlini. Uma kwenzeka ukuthi, ngesikhathi esifanayo, isimo esingenampilo ekhaya kanye nezingxabano zenzeka nendlu, isimo siqhutshwa ngokuphindaphindiwe.
Cabanga ngabesifazane abahlukene bese uzama ukunquma ukuthi ukuphila kwabo kuthinta kanjani ukukhathala. Abesifazane besifazane basebenzela kuphela emsebenzini wezincwadi, basebenzisa amandla amaningi ekuhlanza indlu, ukupheka, ukugeza, ukuthenga izinto zokuthenga, ukunakekela izingane. Ngokuvamile isimo sinzima ngokungajabuli komsebenzi okwenziwe, njengoba yonke imisebenzi yasekhaya ibonakala njengezihlobo njengento edingekayo. Futhi uma uzwa le nkulumo: uyini ukhathele? Awusebenzi! Umoya uzokwenziwa ngokungafanelekile.
Kodwa isimo asilula kubabesifazane abasebenza besilisa ababuthakathaka. Lesi sigaba sabantu besifazane siyayigcina usuku lwakhe ngomzuzu futhi sesaba ukwephuza endaweni ethile - ebhasini, emzimbeni, emsebenzini. Ngesikhathi sakusihlwa, bayokushesha ngokushesha, ngemuva komsebenzi baphuthuma ezitolo ukuze bathenge ukudla, bese bephuthuma ekhaya ukuze banakekele izingane nabashade nabo. Zama okungenani kancane kancane ukwenza imisebenzi yasendlini, eqoqa futhi kufanele, hhayi ukulala kahle, ukuyihlakaza ngezimpelasonto. Ubani okungenzeka?
Ngakho kuthiwani uma unomuzwa ongenangqondo wokukhathala? Izimbangela ezivame kakhulu zokukhathala ziyaneliseki, zingavumelani ngokwayo kanye nomndeni, noma abanye abantu abakuzungezile. Kubalulekile ukuqonda ukuthi yini evimbela injabulo yakho futhi uma kwenzeka kungenzeka ususe lezi zici ezimbi ekuphileni kwakho - zama ukuxazulula izingxabano zasekhaya, ushintshe imisebenzi. Uzobona, lokhu kuzoletha umphumela oyifunayo.