Sithuthukisa ubulili bangaphakathi
Okokuqala, kuzodingeka ukuthi ufunde ukuthi izingubo ezivulekile ngokweqile, ubukhulu besibhakabhaka, izici zobuso obuhle, isimo sezinyopho, ubude bemilenze nobulili abufani. Ungalingisa ukuziphatha nokugembula njengoba uthanda, kepha uma kungenasisindo somzimba ngokobulili, ngeke neze kwenzeke ukuthi amadoda afane nokukhangisa. Ukuziphatha ngokobulili ngokwemvelo akunakwenzeka ukulinganisa, kodwa kungasungulwa. Kodwa okokuqala kuzodingeka uzikhulule emazingeni anikezwe umphakathi futhi ukhumbule ukuthi:
- Ingxenye enamandla yesintu ayibekezelele abesifazane abayisiphukuphuku ngokuphelele. Kodwa-ke, thina ngeke sikwazi ukuqonda okuthile futhi lokhu kuvamile, kodwa asinalo ilungelo lokuba yiziphukuphuku;
- Abagibeli abathandani abesifazane abahlonishwa kakhulu ngokubukeka kwabo. Bayawuthanda kakhulu abesifazane abaqotho, abaphilayo nabangenawo;
- Amadoda ayithandi abesifazane abahambisana nemigomo yenhlalo evumayo (abesifazane abazama ukubukeka kahle). Angikhathaleli ngamadoda, futhi ubulili abuyithandi nakancane.
Ekuthuthukiseni isikhalazo sangokwemvelo, isici sokugcina sidlala indima ebalulekile. Noma kunjalo, izinkambiso zomphakathi sonke isikhathi zibonisa ukuthi kudingeka uziphathe ngokufanele, futhi uzifihle ubulili bakho kuzo zonke izindlela ezingenzeka futhi ezingenakwenzeka. Njengento, into esemqoka owesifazane akuyona umzimba. Ngokuqinisekile kunjalo, kodwa lo mkhuba ubonisa okunye okunye. Ukuhlanzeka akusho ukunganakwa ngokuphelele kocansi. Kusukela kuhlanzekile kwangempela kuyisici esithile sezocansi ofuna ukuyivula. Ngaphezu kwalokho, kusho ukuziphatha kwamantombazane ukungahle kwenzeke, ikhono layo lokucabanga nokuziphatha ngabanye. Futhi uma, lapho ukhuluma nomfana, intombazane enjalo izoyitshela ukuthi ukushaywa komlilo kuvela, khona-ke umfana akajabuli, ngoba uzothandana naye. Kuyinto ephoqa kakhulu ukuqonda ukuthi ungumuntu ophezulu, futhi ubukhona obukhona buvele bujabulele lo wesifazane omuhle! Okusho ukuthi ukuxhaswa ngokocansi kusekelwe ekutheni owesifazane angakwazi ukuziphatha ngendlela yokuthi indoda iyaqaphela ukuthi owesifazane ulungele ukwephula imigomo yomphakathi. Lokhu kuhlonishwa kakhulu ngamadoda.
Ukuze uhlakulele isici esinjalo kuwe, kungenzeka ukuthi ucabangele, kodwa ngabe i-yasheby izoholela kanjani kulokhu, uma beqiniseka ukuthi akekho owaziyo ngalokhu kwenziwa? Futhi kuyofika isikhathi lapho sonke sinquma ukuziphatha ngendlela efanayo. Futhi-ke ngeke kungakhathazeki ukuthi abantu bacabangani, emva kwakho konke, lokhu kungukuphila kwethu futhi ngubani ozikhathalelayo. Yiqiniso, ungagijimi emgwaqweni uhamba ze, ngoba ngokuqinisekile uzophela enkingeni. Kodwa kubalulekile ukuziphatha ngokusheshisa okukhulu, kungani ungathathi ithuba? Uma othile engathandi, kuhle, bakhathazekile, sidinga ukukhathazeka. Ngakho-ke, sikhulume ngokuthuthukiswa kwangaphakathi kobulili, manje sizoxoxa ngephandle futhi sifunde ukuthi singasebenzisa kanjani izindlela ezithile zokwenza ucansi.
Ukuthuthukisa ubulili ngokomzimba
Uhlangothi lwesimo senyama yesibalo sokwemvelo lukhombisa ukuthi kukhona ama-pheromone asebenzayo. I-Pheromones iyingxenye yokuvusa ngokocansi, iphunga layo elithathwe ngummeleli wobulili obuhlukile. Le iphunga cishe ayitholakali, ngakho-ke cishe akunakwenzeka ukuyiqonda, ngokungafani nephunga lephunga. Ama-pheromones asebenzisa ithonya lawo emibonweni engathandekayo yobulili obuhlukile. Umuntu ngamunye unemininingwane yakhe siqu, efana nohlobo oluthile lobulili obuhlukile.
Ukuze ama-pheromones asebenze kanzima, cebisa:
- Ukukhululwa ekuqhumeni ngokomzimba nakubantu abanomzwelo ngokusebenzisa ukuqeqeshwa kwengqondo;
- Njalo ube nesimo esihle somzimba, lokhu ungenza noma yiluphi uhlobo lwezemidlalo;
- Futhi Yebo, yidla kahle.
Ngaphansi kokudla okulungile kusho ukungahambi kahle kwezidlo zangasese kanye nokungabikho kokudla ngokweqile. Futhi, akubandakanyi ukudla okuqinile. Kulesi simo, ukulinganisela okunengqondo kulungile. Kulungile uma unezici zofuzo ukuze uthole isisindo. Ukuze ugcine amakhilogremu ambalwa avela phezulu, kunconywa ukuba uphuze ingilazi ye-kefir ngodla.
Abesifazane abagcwele abane-pheromone eqinile emadodeni azithandwa kakhulu kunabesifazane abancanyana. Ngezinye izikhathi kumantombazane amaningi, isikhalo socansi sinomtshisekelo kakhulu kunokuthi owesifazane ovame ukuphakamisa ukudla.
Ukwakhiwa kwezemidlalo kunamapheromone anamandla. Kodwa-ke, akudingeki uzibeke ngaphansi kokucindezeleka okukhulu ngokomzimba, ngakho ungagqugquzeli ngokwezemidlalo. Kwanele kuyoba amakilasi aerobics, ukugijima, ukuvocavoca.
Ukuze ube owesifazane ocansini udinga ukuthi i-psychotraining yinto ebaluleke kakhulu. Isibonelo, ukuzindla, ukuthuthukiswa okungokomoya, ikhono lokuguqula imizwa emibi ibe namandla. Uma ungakwazi ukuzisiza, khona-ke vakashela i-psychoanalyst, ungathandaza, ufunde izincwadi ezifanele. Lokhu konke kungabhekiselwa ekuziphatheni kwengqondo, okunikeza imiphumela emihle.
I-psychotraining ehlelekile inikela ekuthuthukiseni ikhono lobuhlakani nangokwenyama, ithuthukisa inkumbulo futhi iveza intuition ezosenza siphumelele ngokwengeziwe, okuzosinika ithemba. Ekuhambeni kuyoba khona umusa, ukukhululeka, ukukhanga okuyingqayizivele, futhi emehlweni - khanyisa. Injabulo izobangela ukudabuka nokucindezeleka. Isikhalazo socansi kanye nama-pheromone sizoqala ibhizinisi labo bese ...