Ukwelashwa njengentombazane encane akukwenzi okuhle. Lenusya, Lenochka ... Ucabangani, uma uzwa ucingo oluvela kumuntu osebenza naye ehlezi etafuleni eliseduze? "Yeka umuntu omuhle, kumelwe umthole isikhumbuzo esivela eRoma!" noma "St-s-bitch, kufanelekile ukugcina kude naye" ... Ake sengozini ekucabangeni ukuthi ukhetho lwesibili luyabonakala nakakhulu.
ULena wathola isifundo sakhe sokuqala emsebenzini wakhe wokuqala. "Yeka ukuthi mnandi kangakanani, le nhloko yomnyango," uyangibiza ngothando njalo! " Wacabanga le ntombazane. Futhi-ke umqondisi wezinhloko emhlanganweni wokuqala ophethe, lapho uLena enza khona, ngokuhlakanipha "wasebenzisa" entsha kumphathi ukuthi wayekade efakazela ukuthi kufanelekile ukuqeqeshwa kwakhe. Ngakho-ke, uthola kanjani izinhloso zabalingani bakho ngokusekelwe kukholi kuwe?
"Ugogo".
• Le ntombazane inezwi le-velvet, konke ku-"petenki" ne "mashenki" yakhe. Okokuqala futhi okubaluleke kakhulu, lokhu kubonisa ukuthi phakathi kwalabo osebenza nabo lo "gogo" othandekayo uzizwa "ekhululekile" ngokuphelele futhi engangabazi ukubonisa ukuphakama. Mhlawumbe, sekulokhu isikhathi eside isebenza lapha futhi sinesimo "sezilwane". Qaphela: ezinye izinhloso zabantu zingadlala indima ebalulekile emsebenzini wakho.
Ngemuva.
• Lo wesifazane uziphatha njengokungathi uzogijima umengameli kusasa? Bheka ngokucophelela: ngokumelene nomuntu osevele eqalise ukusebenza kwempi, omunye umuntu ubeka izintuthwane. Wena, unqume ukunciphisa nge-suffix eyodwa kuphela egameni. Phela, "uLenochka" akunakwenzeka ukuba ahlale esihlalweni sesikhulu. Ngenxa yalokhu, usemncane futhi engenalwazi, yingakho yena no "Lenochka", unobhala unomphela kanye nentombazane "emgqeni". Inhloko iyoba umuntu onomuntu "omdala", futhi mhlawumbe ngisho negama eliphakathi.
Ukuhlasela ngesimo.
• Isikhalazo ngegama - isikhali sangempela ezandleni zomuntu osebenza kahle. Futhi konke ngoba igama elihle elisabela ekuphenduleni kwabantu abaningi kuyoba nomthelela omuhle kunokungalungi. Qaphela ukuthi yiliphi igama elibhekene ne-suffixtive suffix suffice njalo. Kungenzeka ukuthi kuyoba into efana nalokhu: "Lenochka, thumela, othandekayo, lo mbhangqwana of facsimiles, kukhona amahlamvu ayisishiyagalombili kuphela lapha." Futhi manje uhumushe lokhu okubhaliwe ngolimi olujwayelekile futhi uzobona ukuthi umphathi we-manipulator ukhomba endaweni yakho ehhovisi lika-office: ibhizinisi lami libaluleke kakhulu kuneyakho, uthi.
• Isignali eshaqisayo nakakhulu, uma uzwa lolu hlobo lwezokwelapha hhayi kusuka kozakwethu abalinganayo, kodwa kusuka kwabangaphansi kwakho. Ungalindeli ukuthi ukusetshenziswa kwegama "labantwana" - kuyimimoya engafanele ye-sycophants ukufanelwa indawo yesikhombisi esanda kuqokwa. Kunalokho, ukuhlaselwa okubalwa ku-boss wakho kuphela ophethe amandla. Mhlawumbe, abangaphansi kwakho banakho "ukukhetha" ngokwabo indima yokuphakama. Futhi babonisa ngazo zonke izindlela ukuthi abahlosile ukukulalela.
I-Counterattack.
• Ukukhetha ama-Samurai langempela - zama ukwengeza isithinte ngokwakho igama "ugogo". Kulula ukuqagela ukuthi ngokuphindaphindiwe uzobona isiski se-sphinx esimangale: ngemuva kwakho konke, inkosikazi ilapha! Kodwa le ndlela yenzelwa i-bravest. Kubalandeli bamasu wendabuko, kwanele nje ukukhumbuza "umsizi", ungubani igama lakho: "Ngokujwayelekile wonke umuntu ungibiza uLeora, kodwa uma kungcono kakhulu kuwe, ungibize u-Elena Petrovna." Noma-"Umama nobaba wami, njengabazali bomalumekazi uFredor of Prostokvashino, abazange bazijwayele kulezi syusi-pusi."
Yikuphi okukhethayo kuleso simo esithile - zikhethele wena. Into eyinhloko ayeyiyo, ngaphandle kwalokho ngesandla sokukhanya sale "gogo" onothando uzobizwa futhi ubone "ingane" bonke abangenabo ubuvila. A ke usengozini isikhathi eside ukudlula "Lenochka".