Esikhathini sesibili sesibili sokukhulelwa owesifazane uyazijwayele ukuzwa umama futhi uqiniseke ngokwengeziwe amandla akhe okubhekana nokunakekelwa kwengane. Kusukela isikhathi sokubeletha sisesekude kakhulu, akasakhathazeki ngalokhu. Ekupheleni kweviki le-14, iningi lezikhalazo ezivela ekuqaleni kokukhulelwa ziyanyamalala. Isicashunwe sasekuseni asisabakhathazi owesifazane, futhi ngokuvamile uzwa ukukhuphuka kwamandla. Umama uvame ukubukeka enempilo, isimo sesikhumba sakhe nezinwele kuthuthukiswa kakhulu. Izinga lama-hormone liqiniswa, kanti owesifazane okhulelwe uzizwa ekhululekile ngokomzwelo futhi engathinteka kakhulu. Lokhu akusho ukuthi ngezikhathi ezithile azikho ukukhathazeka. Ukukhathazeka ngezinye izikhathi kuzenza uzizwe, ikakhulukazi ngezikhathi zokuhlola njalo nodokotela.
Ukuhlola njalo
Esikhathini sesibili sesibili sowesifazane okhulelwe, kuvame ukuphakanyiswa ukuba kwenziwe izivivinyo ezimbili ze-ultrasound. Okokuqala kuqhutshwa phakathi kwamasonto 11 no-13 ukucacisa isikhathi sokukhulelwa nokukhipha ingozi ye-Down's syndrome ebusweni. Esesibili senziwa phakathi kweviki le-18 nesama-20 ukuhlola ubukhulu nokuthuthukiswa kwe-fetus. Abesifazane abaneminyaka engaphezu kwengu-35 ubudala, kanye nezinkinga zokuhlukunyezwa okubelethwe emlandweni womndeni, banikezwa ukuba babe nama-amniocentesis ukuthola ukuthi kungenzeka yini izifo zofuzo. Phakathi ne-ultrasound yokuqala, abazali bangathola ukuthi ukukhulelwa kukhulu. Ulwazi olunjalo ngezinye izikhathi luyamangaza futhi luvame ukubangela ukukhathazeka kwabazali ngesimo sezezimali, ukunakekelwa kwezingane nokudiliva. Bangabuye baziswe ukuthi le fetus inezinkinga zentuthuko noma ukukhubazeka kwezakhi zofuzo - kulokhu kuzodingeka ukuthi sinqume ngokulondolozwa noma ukuphela kokukhulelwa. Imiphumela yokucwaninga emathambo yinkimbinkimbi enombono ngamunye. Mhlawumbe sebevele benomuntu oxhumana naye ngokomzwelo ne-fetus futhi, ngemva kokubhekana nesikhathi esibucayi kakhulu - i-trimester yokuqala, balindele ukuzalwa kwengane ekwazi ukuyenza.
Obaba abangapheliyo
Obaba, okungenzeka ukuthi bazizwa bengadingekile ekuqaleni kwezinyathelo zokukhulelwa, ingane ezayo izoba yinto engokoqobo okwamanje lapho beyibona okokuqala esikrinini somshini we-ultrasound. Kulaba besifazane, lokhu kunomthelela ebuhlotsheni obunamandla nangomntwana ozayo, ikakhulukazi uma kuthiwa ngalesi sikhathi baqala ukuzwa ukukhushulwa kokuqala kwe-fetus.
Izinguquko zomzimba
Cishe ngesonto le-16 lokukhulelwa, abanye besifazane bayaqaphela ukubonakala kwe-hyperpigmentation yesikhumba. Izinsiza kanye nendawo ezungezile zingase zibe mnyama, futhi esiswini kubonakala umugqa omnyama odabula inkaba. Esikhathini samasonto angaba ngu-18, isisu siqala ukuzungeza, futhi umugqa wokhuni uphethwe. Izinga lokuphelela kowesifazane ngesikhathi sokukhulelwa kuncike ezintweni eziningi, kufaka ukuphakama kanye nomzimba. Ngaphezu kwalokho, ukuguqulwa kwesimo kuthonywa ukuthi lokhu kukhulelwa kubalwa, ngoba izibeletho zesisu zivame ukuthulula emva kokuzalwa kwengane yokuqala. Owesifazane angaphazanyiswa izinguquko ezenzekayo, futhi udinga ukwesekwa komlingani kunanini ngaphambili.
Umsebenzi wocansi
Phakathi nalesi sikhathi, ubulili bunganikeza abesifazane injabulo ekhethekile, ngoba mayelana nokwanda kwamazinga ama-hormone, injabulo ifika ngokushesha kakhulu. Kule nkathi abanye abesifazane besithola i-orgasm okokuqala. Imibhangqwana eminingi ibona ukuthi ngesikhathi sokukhulelwa impilo yabo yobulili yaba yinto engavamile ngaphandle kwesidingo sokunakekelwa kokubeletha. Abalingani bangasebenzisa isikhathi sokukhulelwa ukuze bakhulise ubudlelwane babo, banikezane uthando olufanayo ukuthi balungele ukuzungezile ingane ezayo. Kodwa-ke, eminye imibhangqwana ingase ibe nokwesaba ukuxhumana kocansi ngenxa yokwesaba ukulimaza ingane. Kulesi simo, kubalulekile ukuthi abalingani bathole ezinye izindlela zokubonisa uthando omunye nomunye.
Ukuxazulula Izinkinga Zomndeni
Ukukhulelwa kungaba yisikhathi esifanele sokuxazulula izinkinga zomndeni, ikakhulukazi ngokuphathelene nabazali babo. Lesi sikhathi asikwazi ukulungele kangcono ukuqaphela izindlela ezingalungile zokuziphatha nokuzinqoba.
Isinqumo sokukhetha indlela yokuzalwa
Abaningi besifazane bahlolwa kokuqala kokubeletha phakathi kweviki leshumi nambili nesithupha lokukhulelwa. Bese bevakashela ukubonisana kwabesifazane okungenani kanye ngenyanga kuze kube yiviki lama-28. Izifundo ezivamile zihlanganisa ukulinganisa umfutho wegazi, enesisindo sokubhaliswa kwesisindo, ukulalela ukushaya kwenhliziyo yengane. Kule nkathi imibhangqwana iqale ukwenza izinqumo mayelana nendlela yokulethwa, indawo yokubamba kwabo (esikhungweni sezokwelapha noma ekhaya), ukusetshenziswa kwe-anesthesia nokutholakala kwezihlobo eziseduze lapho kuzalwa. Abanye obaba bafuna ukuba khona ngesikhathi sokubeletha.
Izifundo zekusasa
Imibhangqwana eminingi ekulungiselela ukuba ngabazali okokuqala ithola ukuthi iyasiza ukuya ezifundeni ezikhethekile lapho zifunda ngezici zokuphila zokukhulelwa nokubeletha, funda umzimba ukuze wenze lula ukuphumula nokuphumula. Ngokuvamile lokhu kusiza owesifazane ukuqeda ukwesaba okuningi. Izifundo futhi zinikeza abazali abazayo ithuba lokukwazi ezinye imibhangqwana futhi bakhuthaze ukusungulwa kobudlelwano bomphakathi. Abantu abajwayele ukuxhumana nabo bangaba usizo kubantu besifazane ngesikhathi sokuphumula ngemuva kokubeletha.
Ukulungiselela ukuzalwa kwengane
Ukuphela kwesigamu sesibili, lapho owesifazane ezwa egcwele amandla, kungaba yisikhathi esihle sokulungiselela ukuzalwa kwengane. Umbhangqwana ungahlela igumbi lomntwana futhi uthenge izingubo, ukulala, izindlu zangasese kanye nezinye izinto zokunakekelwa - okuthiwa i-dowry yengane esanda kuzalwa. Ku-trimester yesithathu, owesifazane angase akhathele kakhulu ukuxazulula lezi zinkinga.
Ukwenza izinqumo
Eminye imibhangqwana ithola ukuthi ngesikhathi sokukhulelwa baphoqeleka ukuba balalele iseluleko esiningi nokugxeka ezihlotsheni nabangane. Kubalulekile ukuthi abazali abazayo bazenzele izinqumo zabo, abazicabangela ukuthi zilungile yini kanye nangomntwana.