Ungakuyeka kanjani ukuthula futhi uthole ukuzethemba?


Ngicabanga ukuthi zonke izintombazane okungenani kanye empilweni yakhe zazifuna le brunette ekhangayo, ngokubukeka okumangalisayo nokumamatheka okumamatheka, ukumbonisa ukuqala kwayo futhi kumama ... Kodwa kungani lokhu kungenzeki? Futhi-ke, empeleni, ingabe uyamahloni ukusondela kuye? Mayelana nendlela yokuyeka ukuthula futhi uzuze ukuzethemba, uzofunda kusuka kusihloko sethu.

Abanye abamele iqhaza elihle lomuntu bakholelwa ukuthi lokhu kufanele kwenzeke "ngokwayo", kodwa njengoba impilo ibonisa, into yokubonga yakho ingase ifike kuwe (nakuba uhle kakhulu), kodwa usikisela ukufundela iphephandaba intombazane engenayo i-makeup eye-popping wena, futhi hhayi ngendlela efakwe kahle. Futhi ngani? Ngoba ngisho noma unomuzwa wokuthi kuvela ngaphakathi kumlingo, imfihlo esizoyixazulula ngayo manje.
Ubuntfu bebulokhu buyimpumelelo, futhi uma kubonakala kuwe ukuthi ubulili obuhlukile buyeke ukubonisa izibonakaliso zokunakwa, mhlawumbe kufanele uzinake izimfanelo ezivela emvelweni?
I-Great Ranevskaya yathi:
"Awukwazi ukujwayela iziketi." Ngesikhathi usho - "ah, ngineziketi ezigcwele ekamelweni lami" - uyeka ukuba ngowesifazane ... "
Ngempela, lapho intombazane igqoke isiketi, izicathulo nesithende, ihluke: sexy, mnene, ukhanga ukunakwa. Ukuthinta, ukubukeka, ukunyakaza, bashintsha ngaso leso sikhathi ... Masinyane emehlweni kukhona inhlansi, okuqaphelwa yiwo wonke umuntu! Uyakuthanda ukuzindla kwakhe esibukweni, kanti abanye bayamhlonipha nge-glance. Uma kungazelelwe intombazane isetshenziswe kulobuhle, khona-ke "imilingo" iyophendukela ekuphileni kwansuku zonke futhi ukuthobeka komzimba kuzonyamalalala, ukubukeka kuyoba kubi, futhi ukukhanya kuzophuma okwesikhashana.
Ngakho ungakhohlwa ukumomotheka, ukuma phambi kwesibuko! Yeka ukugxeka isithombe sakho, futhi unake lokho onakho amehlo anamangalisa, izindebe, amahlombe, izigqoko! Wena uwedwa futhi uhle kakhulu! Ngeshwa, akuzona zonke amantombazane abazitholela ukuzigxeka. Izibalo zibonisa ukuthi ziziqhayisa futhi zicabange ubuhle bentombazane engeyona into emangalisa kakhulu. Futhi uma uhle, khona-ke ngenxa yesizathu esithile kubonakala kuwe ukuthi kukhona okulahlekile! Qiniseka!
Uthando kuphela luyasiza intombazane ukuthola ukuthula komzimba nomphefumulo. Mhlawumbe ngeke ukwazi ngisho nokuthi kungani wenze lokhu, noma kungani. Ukuhlazeka kwesibili emehlweni, ukuphenduka kancane kwekhanda kancane eceleni, ukubukeka kunciphise phansi - imiphefumulo enjalo, engacaciswanga engqondweni futhi ichazwe nje ngomzwelo womphefumulo, yenza ube ngumlando ongenakulibaleka, othakazelisayo, wesifazane ... Imvelo ayikunikezi nje isikhumba esibucayi kanye nezici zobuso ezicacile , kanye nemandla omlingo, ukukhanya, inhlansi okudingeka uyenze kuyo yonke imihla, ukuze nje ukhanye, kodwa ukukhanya ngenjabulo.
Uma ufunda ukuzithokozisa ngokwakho, abanye bazokuzwa ukukhanga kwakho. Uma uzizwa ujabule, abanye bazofuna ukukunika ucezu womphefumulo wakho! Zithande wena futhi izwe lizoqhekeka ngokuphelele, imibala ekhanyayo ...
Futhi-ke, usuka endlini, uhambe emgwaqweni, futhi uhlangabezane naye! Yebo, yebo, lelo brunette elifanayo elibukeka ngokumangalisayo, ukumomotheka okunethezeka kanye nephephandaba elithi "Messenger". Wena kuphela awusanda nje intombazane egqoke kahle ngendlela enhle kakhulu, kodwa inganekwane yangempela ... Nguwe onenhlanhla yokujabula nokubuyisa emehlweni akhe, okuthinta ukukhathazeka kanye ne-naivety encane ... Ukunyakaza kwakho kuyanciphisa futhi kubushelelezi, izinyathelo zizolile futhi zibushelelezi, kodwa inhliziyo yami ... Inhliziyo yami ibonakala sengathi ifuna ukuphuma esifuba sami, ngoba ikubuka emehlweni, futhi uyaqaphela ukuthi le nsizwa iza kuwe, futhi nangu omunye umzuzwana, futhi uza kuwe: "Ntombazane, ngiyaqiniseka ukuthi sesivele sihlangane ... Ngiyaqiniseka ... ukuthi uyisiphetho sami ... "Futhi uzozibuza wena:" Yebo, nginguye emangalisa, futhi konke ngoba ngiyaqiniseka ngami. "