Ngaphambi kwalokho, bengingakwazi ukuhalalisela indoda ethandekayo, ukuthi yini ongayinika, ukuthi ngithini? Lo mbuzo ubuzwa yilowo wesifazane othanda noma othanda ukuhlanya. Ngesigaba sesibili, konke kulula. Owesifazane uzizwa ngomphefumulo wakhe, inhliziyo yakhe, yonke iseli yomzimba wakhe. Uyazi kahle ukuthi inhliziyo yakhe enothando izomtshela ngendlela efanele kule ndlela. Ngakho kufanele nginikele? Ungamhalalisela kanjani? Lo mbuzo awudingi ukuphendulwa kuphela yibo abangafuni ukucela izeluleko ezivela ngaphandle, abathembekile kubo kanye nakwabo kuphela. Azikho eziningi zazo. Singabaza njalo, sesaba ukwenza okuthile okungalungile, ukucasula noma ukucasula umgubhi womkhosi, ukudumazeka noma ukuchitha nje iholidi. Ngeze! Amaqhinga anjalo, sonke siwaphanga.
Kubalulekile ukusetha ngokucacile umgomo bese ufezekisa. Uke wanquma ukuhalalisela othandekayo wakho ukuze akhumbule lokhu ngokuphila? Mnikeze inkondlo, futhi kungcono hhayi eyodwa noma ezimbili, kodwa yonke ibhuku elizobhala ngalo ngobuqotho ngemizwa yakho ngaye, ukuthi awukwazi kanjani ukuhlala ngaphandle kwakhe, njll. Ucabanga ukuthi indoda ngeke isithinte lokhu?
Cabanga ngenye indlela. Isibonelo, esikoleni ujwayele ukunikeza ikhadi kanye ne-cologne noma ikhadi kanye nekhiya labadlali ngoFebhuwari 23, akubaluleki ukuthi yini ongayinika, kuvele kwenzeke eselulekweni sothisha noma umama wakho ozama ukunikeza imali encane ngesipho kumfana ongaziwa. Yebo, kwakunjalo nabaningi, kodwa akunjalo! Yini eyayisesikoleni, udinga ukukhohlwa! Phonsa ikhanda lami! Sinike isipho esikoleni isipho, kodwa kumuntu othandekayo! Lona umehluko.
Indoda ethandekayo ngeke ijabulise ngokunakekelwa kuphela, kodwa ngokunakekelwa nokukhathalela okukhulu, vumela isipho sakho sihluke. Kufanele uzizwe ongayinikeza. Mhlawumbe kuzoba izinkondlo, umculo noma ukuqashelwa ngokuqondile othandweni lwakho ngaye. Thuthukisa! Lungiselela isidlo sakusihlwa, into engakaze azame, into engammangaza, sicela. Indoda kumele izwe ukuthi iyingqayizivele, iyingqayizivele futhi ayinalo izifaniso.
Uma unikeza ikhadi lokuposa, zama, ukuthi kwakunombhalo othayishiwe ophansi, futhi okuningi okubhalwa nguwe. Awudingi ukuphinda ubhale umbhalo kwi-intanethi noma ezincwadini - uyakwazi ngempela ukubhala konke ngokwakho, ngisho nakakhulu kunezinye izindawo. Vele uxhumane nokuqonda kwakho ohlangothini lwothando nokukhanya, kulokho okwenzeka emphefumulweni wakho! Nansi imfihlo elula yokuphumelela ngokubhala amakhadikhadi. Makube kungabi khona imilolotelo, makungabi khona ukubhala ngesandla okuhle kakhulu, kodwa kuyoba yinto yokuqala kanye eyodwa.
Indoda yakho izokwazi ukuthi uyamthanda kanjani, ukuthi ikukhathalela kanjani. Ngikholelwa, impendulo ngeke ikugcine ulinde. Emphefumulweni wakhe, kuyoba nombhalo wokubonga okungavamile, mayelana nokuthi konke okwenzekile kuthinta kanjani.
Okuyinhloko yamadoda ukuthi abanye bafihla imizwelo yabo ngisho nemizwa. Ungesabi lokhu! Zama ukuvuleka naye, futhi uzokuveza nawe. Vele ube nesineke!
Khumbula ukuthi isihluthulelo sempumelelo sisekuthandweni, ngobuqotho, emcabangweni nasesifiso. Kuyoba khona uthando nokuthembeka - kuyoba nefantasy kanye nesifiso sokwenza kube yiqiniso.
Thanda amadoda akho! Banike wena kanye nothando lwakho! Jabulela!
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