Mhlawumbe umsebenzi wami ungumama wendlu?

"Mhlawumbe umsebenzi wami ungumama wendlu?", Abesifazane abaningi bazibuza lo mbuzo. Kuze kube manje, abanye abantu bakholelwa ukuthi le nkosikazi ikude kakhulu nezinkomba ezinhle 90x60x90, ezingalandeli ukubonakala kwayo futhi isici esibaluleke kunazo zonke ngaso sonke isikhathi sise-curlers nasembatho yokugqoka. Ngenxa yalolu hlobo, ungabazwelana nabo kuphela, futhi amadoda esabayo acabange ngomqondo wabo abafazi basekhishini labo. Ngenxa yalesi sizathu, abesifazane abahlala ekhaya futhi bahlala endlini baphoqeleka ukuba bahambe emsebenzini nsuku zonke bese bebamba labo abakhele lesi sithombe somama wendlu, kusukela lapho lezi zinto ezesabekayo nokwesaba kwabantu beza khona. Thina kulesi sihloko sizocabangela amaphuzu aphambili, ngenxa yokuthi ungaba kanjani umfazi othandekayo nomama omuhle kakhulu.

1. Ukubukeka.

Ngaphambi, lapho uya emsebenzini, uhlale ufuna ukubheka okumangalisayo. Futhi lokhu kusobala, ngoba emsebenzini ngizohlangana namahlo amaningi azobukeka; Ngeke uze ngaphandle kokwenza izicathulo nezingubo ezimbi. Elinye lamaphutha athile ukuqala kwangaphandle. Ngisho noma umyeni engekho ekhaya, usemsebenzini, futhi uyambona kuphela kusihlwa - lokhu akusona isizathu sokubheka untidy. Kumele uphume embhedeni, ugeze ngaphansi kwamanzi, ubeke kahle izinwele zakho futhi ugqoke ukhululekile, izingubo ezimnandi. Masibe izingubo ezingenakuzithoba, kodwa kufanele zihlanzeke futhi zihlonipheke. Futhi ngaleli fomu kufanele uhlangane nomyeni wakho emsebenzini. Kudingeka ukhumbule ukuthi akudingeki ukuthi ugqoke: kuhlangene, ama-T-shirts amakhulu namabhulukwe. Umlingani wakho kufanele abone ukubuka okujabulisayo nokuthokoza phambi kwakhe, hhayi owesifazane okhathele futhi oboshwe.

2. Idatha yemvelo.

Kungakhathaliseki ukuthi abesifazane abaningi bathi, uma uba ngumama wendlu, ngeke uphumelele - akunjalo neze. Ezigaba zokuqala zalokhu kuphila "ekhaya," iningi lizolahlwa ngamapounds amancane. Uma ngaphambi kwalokho ungenayo isikhathi esanele sokuluma kalula, manje manje unefriji egcwele ukudla. Ukuxazulula le nkinga, udinga: ukudla okulula kanye nokuthanda kwakho. Kungcono nakakhulu uma udlala uhlobo oluthile lwemidlalo noma uhamba nenja emini, noma ukuhlangabezana nomyeni wakho emsebenzini futhi uhambe naye - lokhu kuzokuvumela ukuba uhlanganise ibhizinisi ngenjabulo.

3. Izinkinga zasekhaya.

Kunezikhathi lapho ungafuni ukwenza lutho, nje ulale embhedeni. Uma ufuna ukulwa nalokhu, sincoma ukuthi uqale isimiso samasonto onke. Yenza uhlelo lwezenzo zakho kusukela ngoMsombuluko kuya kuLwesihlanu. Isibonelo, ngoMsombuluko ungahlanza, ngoLwesibili ukuphumula, ngoLwesithathu ukwenza izingubo zokuhlanza, njalonjalo. Lokhu kuzokunika umyalo wezinkinga zakho futhi akusivivi. Yiqiniso, kufanele uqiniseke ukuthi indlu ihlale ihlanzekile futhi ihlanzekile, lo muntu uhlale ejabule ukufika endlini ehlanzekile, noma nje ngeke akwazi ukuqonda ukuthi kungani uhlezi ekhaya, futhi yonke indawo iyinkinga. Lokhu-ke, kubangela ukungqubuzana okuningi, futhi umuntu akakwazi ukuhamba negama elithi "mina nawe sisebenza ndawonye futhi sikhathele".

4. Ikhishi.

Manje unethuba lokufakazela kumuntu wakho ukuthi ukwazi ukupheka ngendlela enhle. Kodwa khumbula ukuthi ukudla kwasemnandi nesiphundu noma isidlo kufanele kuhlanganiswe nekhishi elihlanjululwe futhi elihlanziwe kahle.

5. Ukuzilibazisa.

Akudingekile ukuba uchithe konke ukusebenza, kuphela, uhlezi wodwa ekhaya. Zizikhandle ngento ethile, futhi uzoba nesithakazelo esithile ezintweni ezahlukene ongazange uzitholele ngaphambili noma ungenayo isikhathi esanele. Iya ezintombi ekuvakasheni kwakho ukuthuthukisa ukuxhumana, futhi kaningi ukunikeza isikhathi izinqubo zokuqhosha.

Okubaluleke kakhulu, kufanele ube nombono wakho mayelana nendima yendlukazi. Abanye abantu bacabanga ukuthi abesimame abenzi lutho, ngakho-ke abathandeki. Kodwa nguwe kuphela owaziyo ukuthi ukuba ngumama womsebenzi kuwumsebenzi omkhulu futhi ungafakazela ukuthi umama wangempela ungumfazi omuhle, othakazelisayo nowenakekelayo!

UJulia Sobolevskaya , ngokukhethekile isayithi