Umshuwalense wezokwelapha: kuwufanelekile ukuthenga?
Inkinga eyinhloko abazali okufanele babhekane nayo ukusebenzisa izinsizakalo zemithi yomphakathi noma yangasese ngokwabo, noma ukufaka isicelo somshwalense wempilo yomshuwalense wokuzithandela ngemali.
Akuyona lutho ngempela
Isevisi kule polyclinics yombuso nezibhedlela kuphela ingxenye mahhala. Yebo, awukhokheli ukubonisana nodokotela, ngokudiliva ukuhlaziya. Kodwa izindleko zemithi edingekayo ezinganeni eziningi ngonyaka, futhi isimiso sodokotela asisihle ngaso sonke isikhathi.
Ngaphandle kwethimende ejwayelekile yezinsizakalo, inqubomgomo ye-VHI ingabandakanya: kungenzeka ukuthi ube nodokotela womndeni, ukwelulekwa kwamahora angu-24 nomchwepheshe ocingweni, ukuhanjiswa kwezingane kanye nokulethwa kwezidakamizwa kwezidakamizwa, ukulethwa kwezivivinyo, ukusikhipha, ukugoma, okubaluleke kakhulu kubantwana abangaphansi konyaka owodwa kanye nemindeni ehlala njalo izingane ezigulayo.
Udokotela!
Ngenxa yezizathu ezicacile, ochwepheshe abaningi, ikakhulukazi phakathi kweziphathimandla ezihlonziwe emkhakheni wabo, baya ngokuya ngokuya emitholampilo yangasese, futhi ukubonisana ngesikhathi esisodwa nabo kungabiza kakhulu. Kodwa khumbula ukuthi iningi labo lingumsebenzi wesikhashana kuphela. Esikhathini esifundeni, amapolyclinics noma izibhedlela zeminyango, nazo zamukela ukwamukela - esiteshini somsebenzi esiphezulu. Ukuza kubo ukubonisana kungaba ngezindleko ezincane noma ezingekho.
Isikole sokuthuthukiswa kokuqala: okungabizi kakhulu
Kunezikhungo eziningi zokuthuthukiswa ezikoleni zangaphambili, lapho zifunda konke emhlabeni, nangemali eningi. Kodwa ukuthuthukiswa akuyona iSpanishi futhi isiNtaliyane kusukela eminyakeni emithathu, ukugibela nokucelwa eqenjini elihloniphekile. Lolu ulwazi olusha namakhono olungele ukunikeza umntwana. Ngalo mqondo, studio yobuciko kanye nanoma yiziphi izifundo zokucula, ukubunjwa okuvela e-plasticine eNdlini yamaSiko yendawo akufani kakhulu nezikhungo "ezipholile" nama-studios. Okufanayo kusebenza ezemidlalo. Izigaba ezingabizi, ezinikwe ezenzweni zezemidlalo nezempilo, zinikeza ithuba lokuzama izinhlobo ezahlukene zemidlalo ngaphandle kwezindleko ezinkulu futhi ukhethe okuthakazelisayo kakhulu.
Waldorf, Montessori?
Ingabe ufuna uhlelo lokuqeqeshwa "olukhethekile" nesimo sengqondo esikhethekile kwengane? Khetha izinhlelo zokuthuthukisa ezinye - Waldorf, Montessori noma okunye. Njengomthetho, amakilasi ezindaweni ezinjalo angabizi kakhulu. Kodwa kufanelekile!
Izembatho nezicathulo: siyojabula ukwamukela njengesipho ...
Ukukhula okuqhubekayo kwengane kuyamjabulisa, kodwa uma usondela esikhathini esizayo uyazi ukuthi: Ijaji elithenge izinyanga eziyisithupha ezedlule liyingcosana, kanti amabhuzu, athola entwasahlobo, ayizange ikwazi "ukuhlala" kuze kube yonyaka - ungena kwi-stupor. Awuthandi izingubo zekhwalithi eziphansi emakethe? Bheka ezinye izindlela ezitholakalayo zokubuyekeza ikhabethe lezingane.
Ukudayiswa kokuSula
Ungabathembi kakhulu: ebusika bathengisa ihlobo, kanti ehlobo - ebusika. Kuze kube bunjani umlenze womntwana ozokhula ngaphezulu kwehlobo, kunzima ukubikezela kusengaphambili, ngakho kulula ukuphutha ngokuthenga "ukukhula".
Uma unabangane abanezingane ezindala kunawe, zicabange ukuthi unenhlanhla. Futhi kulula ukuba nabangane - akudingeki ukuba uhlaziye ngokuthi yini enye okumele uyenze ngezinto ezinhle, lapho ingane ikhula khona. Futhi uyamangalisa: ngezikhathi ezithile ingane yakho "iwa" izingubo ezinhle.
Funda amaforamu "omama" kumasayithi omzali adumile. Lapho, omama bakhulumisana, bashintsha izingubo, izicathulo, amathoyizi. Uma kungekho sithangami esinjalo edolobheni lakho, kungani ungayilungiseleli? Inkinga ngezingubo kuphakade, futhi isinyathelo sakho ngeke sihlale singacabangi.
Ukulandela iseluleko sethu, ungagcina isikhathi esiningi.