Ngesinye isikhathi emthethweni waseRoma, umshado wawuphathwa njengento efana nomsebenzi ohlangene lapho owesilisa nowesifazane bebumbene. Ezweni lanamuhla, lesi siko sizuze njengefa ekuqondeni okuqhubekayo "kokuphatha umnotho ovamile", kodwa futhi kuhlanganiswe nezincazelo ezengeziwe - ukukhuliswa kwezingane, umthwalo wemfanelo kanye nomthwalo wemfanelo.
Kusukela esikhathini esidlule, kwakungekho umcimbi owodwa owagubha kakhulu ngendlela emangalisayo futhi engahloniphekile, awuhambisani nenani elikhulu lezingoma, imikhosi kanye nemigodi yokulala njengeholide lomshado - umshado. Abaningi besifazane bakholelwa ukuthi umshado uyisenzakalo esiyinhloko ekuphileni kwabo.
Umshado othandweni emhlabeni wanamuhla uhlangabezana nokulingwa okuningi, ngoba i-idyll yomndeni akuyona imana yezulu. Kufanele ithole, kufanele idalwe. Futhi yini eyinkimbinkimbi nakakhulu ukusindisa. Ukuphila komndeni kuwumsebenzi lapho bobabili umyeni nomfazi bezibekela umgomo onzima - ukuhlala emshadweni othandweni. Akuwona umsebenzi ofanayo esitofu noma ensimini enefosholo, kodwa umsebenzi wokubona omunye umuntu ngaphakathi kwakho - ukwamukela ukwehluleka kwawo nokukhuthaza ukubekezelelana ngokwakho. Umsebenzi ongenamandla futhi wansuku zonke womphefumulo, ukubonakaliswa ngehora lozwela, ukuphendula nokudla.
Umsebenzi wokudala umshado, umshado othandweni - ungamanga futhi awunakulinganiswa, awukho futhi awukwazi ukupheka okungajwayelekile. Akubandakanyi ubuvila bezingqondo nezingqondo, ukukhathazeka, ukubekezelelana ngokuqondene nezenzo zomunye. Futhi akubandakanyi izinsuku, amaholide noma amaholide.
Kunzima? Ngokuqinisekile. Imishado yothando ezweni lanamuhla lihlale livuzwa. Kuyinto emnandi, ubudlelwane obuhle, obufudumele, lapho kungekho imibuzo encane kunoma ngubani okumele aphinde akhiphe udoti, ukuya enkulisa enganeni noma kumhlangano womzali., Uma wazi - eduze kwakho unabantu abathandayo, abasondelene nabathandekayo. Ngomzuzwana onzima, ungathemba, ongayenza ngalo umphefumulo wakho ngaphandle kokwesaba, wazi ukuthi ngeke uphume futhi ube yindawo yomuntu. Futhi kuphela ngezinyathelo ezisemgodini futhi ngokuvula ukhiye ku-keyhole oyiqondayo - kunjani. Kuphela-ke kuyokwazi ukugcina imizwa ezalwa ngesikhathi sokuthandana futhi iqhubekele ekugcineni ngezinkinga nezinkinga. Khona-ke kuyokwenzeka ukuthi kunqobe izingxabano.
Futhi izingxabano zihambisana nokuphila komndeni, ngisho noma kukhona uthando emshadweni. Ngoba abantu abahlukene bahlangana emshadweni. Ngezinye izikhathi nemfundo ehlukene kanye neziqu ezihlukene zemfundo. Lo umehluko futhi ulungiselele kuqala ukuvela kwezimo ezingqubuzanayo, ngisho phakathi komyeni nomfazi onothando. Esinye imbangela yezingxabano yindlela yokuziphatha exagela, yokuziphatha, impahla, izidingo zomzimba kumngane wakhe - "umfazi omuhle", "indoda enhle". Ukuthandana kwentsha kuhlale kudala, ngezikhathi zonke nakwabo bonke abantu, kwakha isaliti ephuthayo. Futhi kusukela ngesikhathi sokushada, ngezinye izikhathi kwaphazamiseka njengenganekwane eyenziwe ngezandla zomuntu siqu.
Izwe lanamuhla liphoqa wonke umuntu nomyeni nomkakhe ukuba bapheke njenge-squirrel esesondo. Kwabaningi, isikhubekiso ngumsebenzi okweqile, ukungabi nendlu kanye nokuhamba kwebhizinisi okungapheli. Ngezimo ezinjalo kukhona umuzwa wokulahlekelwa othandekayo, ongakhula ube ukungaboni kahle. Konke kuphila manje ekuhlukunyezweni, ngomqondo wokukhathala, eduze kokuphazamiseka kwemizwa. Kulesi simo, noma yini encane ingaba utshani wokugcina ebuhlotsheni bese uphonsela umshado ngaphakathi. Ngakho-ke, sonke isikhathi sokuqaphela lapho kunesidingo sokumisa, bheka ukuthi unqume futhi uqine ngokuqinile: into esemqoka kulokhu okusheshayo akuzona izindinganiso eziza nokuhamba. Into esemqoka yikhaya nomndeni.