Ungashada kanjani ilungelo, ngubani ozokutshela?

Wenzé isipho, futhi uyangabaza ngempendulo - ngokuzumayo akayena hero weveli yakho ... Indlela yokushada, ngubani ozokutshela? Uyintombazane encane, ekhangayo, ejabule, enobungane, futhi unabantu abaningi abathandayo. Futhi njengazo zonke ziyamangalisa futhi zinomusa, zithakazelisayo futhi zithandekayo. Futhi ngamunye wabo uyashesha futhi ufuna ukuthi ekugcineni wenze isinqumo futhi uthi uthandeke kangaka: "Yebo, ngiyavuma ukuba ngumkakho!" Kodwa ingabe kufanelekile ukuphuthuma, nini kudingekile ukuba wenze, mhlawumbe, isinqumo esiphezulu kakhulu ekuphileni? Akukuhle ukuthatha isikhathi, ukuyeka isikhathi esithile kusuka ekuthandeni futhi uziqonde?

Symphony of Love
Uma ulindele ukushada ngokungathí sina futhi isikhathi eside, khona-ke ukufana okunye phakathi kwakho nabo kuyadingeka. Cabanga ukuthi imiphefumulo yakho iyimishini yomculo: akudingekile ukuba izwisane ngokubambisana, into esemqoka ukudlala ngokuvumelana ngokuhlanganiswa okukodwa, ukwenza i-symphony yothando. Bheka ngokucophelela, yikuphi kubalandeli ababelana ngezintshisekelo zakho. Futhi uyakwenza ngobuqotho! Isibonelo, uma bobabili niyazi ukudla okuhle, khona-ke ngeke nibe nokuphikisana lapho uthenga ukudla, ukupheka nokukhetha indawo yokudlela. Uma nibabili abagibeli bezindiza, ngeke kube nokuphikisana ngendlela yokuchitha iholidi. Kodwa ukufana akufanele kube okuphelele! Ukuphila ngekhophi yakho eqondile kunzima kakhulu. Bonke abantu badinga uhlobo oluthile lokuhlukahluka.
Futhi sizwa isidingo somuntu oseduze ukuze agcwalise amaphutha ethu. Isibonelo, uma wena noshade naye ningenawo amathalenta ezemali, ngubani ozophatha isabelomali somndeni? Uma zombili zingasetshenziselwa ukugcina i-oda, ubani ozokwamukela amasokisi akhe nama-blouses? Uma bobabili nithanda ukuhlabelela ngokuzwakalayo, ubani ozokulalela?
Uma ufuna umshado ube njalo, khetha umyeni walowo onayo lezo zimfanelo ongenakho. Ngokungangabazeki, kunzima kunalokho: okhethiweyo wakho kufanele afane nawe futhi ngesikhathi esifanayo akusize kakhulu ngangokunokwenzeka.

Ubani onesiqalo?
Ubani ongakutshela ukuthi ungashada kanjani ngokufanele: okuthandwa, kodwa okungajwayelekile ukubizela, okunye okungekuzwelana nawe, kodwa elele nge-e-mail kanye ne-SS-masks - akukho ukubuyela emimenisweni emihlanganweni? Indoda ngemvelo iyinqobe futhi izama njalo ukufeza umgomo wayo. Uma efuna ukuba ube naye, uzothola isikhathi nezindlela zokunqoba inhliziyo yakho. Futhi lokhu kusho ukuthi uzokugubha, ukubiza, ukuphikelela ekuqedeni kusihlwa ndawonye, ​​uye esitolo sokudlela, iqembu.
Kodwa amadoda athile aziphathe sengathi awavunyelwe ukukunakekela. Kwenzekani? Ukwesaba kwangempela ngezinye izikhathi kuvimbela ukuqina, isibindi nokuphumelela (uma kungewona wesifazane) kuqala ukuthatha isinqumo esiqinile ngokumelene nawe. Uyesaba ukulahlwa! Ukupheka okuphelele, indlela yokusiza ukuzithiba kwakho okuthandayo, yebo, akukhona. Intukuthelo eyodwa yowesifazane oyedwa kuphela, exhaswe yi-delicacy, izosiza ukuthola indlela yokuphuma.
Uma ubuhlobo bakho busadinga kakhulu ukuqiniseka, zama ukusebenzisa ... ukuze uhlukanise. Uvele uphele isikhathi esivela phezulu. Uma usho ngempela kuye, uzokuthola. Futhi uma engakwenzi - kahle, ukhohlwe ngaye: ngokucindezela ngeke ube mnandi. Indlela engcono kunazo zonke, uma ingabonakali amasonto, ayikhiphi, ayibhali, bese emihlanganweni ihlabelela i-serenades ngothando, ikuqinisekisa ukuthi uyayidinga kanjani. Cabanga, mhlawumbe kufanele uthole amandla futhi uyilahle ngaphandle kwekhanda lakho noma ubhale phansi ngokuthi "abangane nje."

Akubalanga!
Abacansi be-sexologists bakholelwa ukuthi kungcono uma oshade naye ekhulile kunomkakhe iminyaka emithathu kuya kwine. Ngokombono wabo, lokhu kungukuthi umehluko omkhulu weminyaka phakathi kwabalingani, lapho ubuhlobo bobulili obuvumelana kakhulu bukhula khona.
Kodwa-ke, akekho owakusho ukuthi lokhu kuyisiqinisekiso sokuphila komndeni. Umshado ojabulisayo novumelanayo awudalwanga yimithetho. Ubani emndenini osekhulile - indoda noma umfazi - akubalulekile kakhulu. Into esemqoka ukukwazi ukwehlisa, ukuhlonipha izifiso zenye iqembu bese uzwa umlingani wakho.
Ucwaningo luye lwabonisa ukuthi ubuchopho bomuntu buhlelwe ngokuhlukile kunowesifazane.
Ngokwemvelo, lona wesifazane ungumgcini wendawo yokulala, futhi lo muntu ungumzingeli novivinyo. Futhi lo umehluko ubonakalisa kusukela ebuntwaneni bokuqala: amantombazane adlala emadodakazini omama, abafana - empini futhi aqede amathoyizi.
I-mindset yesilisa iyakwazi ukuhlaziya, thola izindlela ezakhayo zokuxazulula inkinga. Imicabango engabonakali evela emkhakheni wezimzwelo (uthando, ithemba), akakwazi ukusebenza. Iphalethi yemizwa nemizwelo yowesifazane inamakholi ayizinkulungwane nama-nuances, futhi owesilisa unemibala emihle eyisikhombisa. Singakwazi ukuhlela izigcawu eziningi njengoba sifuna, kodwa ziphazamisekile kuphela: yikuphi ukuphikisana?
Maye, ngezinye izikhathi kwenzeka ukuthi othandekayo wakho uyindoda eshadile. Ngezinye izikhathi uhlala ebusuku, ngezikhathi ezithile akuthatha "ekukhanyeni" (lapho kungekho khona abangane nabasebenza naye), uchitha ingxenye yeholide nawe. Futhi uyakondla njalo ngezithembiso zokuhlukanisa nomkakhe. Ngakho-ke kungadlulela iminyaka, futhi akudingeki uqagele nge-chamomile ukuqonda: uma engasheshi ukuxhuma isiphetho nawe, khona-ke ngeke akwenze njalo. Uchitha impilo yakho eyodwa kuye, uyiguqula ube usizi oluphelele. Awunayo yini inhliziyo yakho? Bese okungenani uhlolisise ubuhlobo bakho: ujabulele ukusondelana naye, kodwa ungalindeli okuningi.