Ukuqagela iKhadi kuyisiko, isiko, isenzo esivela kunoma yisiphi isizukulwane, ngezikhathi ezahlukene. Njengomthetho, abesifazane baqagela emakhadini, ngenxa yendawo yokugcina yengqondo yabo - banesifiso esikhulu, nakuba izwe liyazi amadoda - abathanda ukuhlomula nemilingo. Mhlawumbe, wonke owesifazane ngesikhathi esisodwa wazibuza emakhadini. Abanye abantu bacabanga ukuthi kunzima kakhulu, nakuba empeleni akunjalo. Ngenxa yalezi zinhloso, kwanele nje ukuba ube namakhadi, kanye nomhumushi wamakhadi ngabanye. Ngalesi setethi, ngisho "nomlingo" onentshisekelo angakwazi ukuzithengisa yena noma abathandekayo bakhe.
Amakhadi adumile abe, ikakhulukazi, ngenxa yokungena kwawo. Amakhadi angaba imidlalo ejwayelekile noma ekhethekile, eyenzelwe ngokuqondile izinqubo ezicebile nezifanayo. Ukuzama ukubheka ikusasa, ngamakhulu eminyaka abantu baye bahlakulela izinhlobo ezahlukene zezinhlelo zamakhadi ezinhlanhla. Isistimu enjalo ingaba solitaire ehlala njalo ekwazi ukuphendula imibuzo elula efana nokuthi "izofika isifiso sangempela noma cha" noma isakhiwo esiyinkimbinkimbi ngokusebenzisa kanyekanye wonke amakhadi avela emgodini bese eveza izimpendulo zemibuzo ngokugcwele. Phakathi kwezindlela eziningi zokuqagela emabalazweni, zikhona lezo eziheha kakhulu ukunakekelwa kwazo ngesikhathi sokuphila kwazo zonke, ngaleyo ndlela ziveza ukuthi ziyizinto ezikhethekile. Izinhlelo ezinjalo zokuthunjwa zinamagama ahlukene. Isibonelo, ukubhula kukaMalen Lenorman noma i-Yekaterinburg inhlanhla yabiza igama labo besifazane abafaka isandla ekuthandeni kwabo.
Amakhadi ngayinye enqubo yokubhula ibonisa impendulo ngesimo nesithombe esibonisiwe. Chaza le mpendulo ngezindlela ezehlukene, kuye ngokuthi isistimu yenhlanhla esebenziselwa ngayo kanye nenani elikhulu lezincwadi ezikhethekile zokuhumusha okwamanje. Kodwa kufanele kuqaphele ukuthi amanye amabalazwe, kungakhathaliseki ukuthi uhlelo lwezinkathazo, aluhunyushwa ngokufanayo noma olufanayo - emva kwalokho imiqondo ethile isilungiselelwe isikhathi eside. Isibonelo singaba "inkosi ebomvu", ebizwa ngokuthi i-hero-lover noma "i-ace of spades", efanekisela indlu kahulumeni. Ukuhlanzeka, okukhanyayo, uthando olukhulu lufundwa ngokufika kwezimpethu ezingu-9. Incazelo yokubhula akuyona nje incazelo yamakhadi awile, kodwa futhi ne-suit yabo. Ngakho-ke, amabutho anobungane abasiza endleleni yokuphila aphuma ngendlela yeziboya ezibomvu, "abamnyama", ngokuphambene nalokho, bahlotshaniswa nobubi, izitha nezinkinga.
Izithombe emabalazweni zivame ukuqondwa kahle nge-intuitively ngisho nangomuntu ode kule ndawo, okwenza ukuqagela kube okukhangayo nokulula. Noma yimuphi umuntu, ebheka inhlanganisela ewile, ngaphandle kwezinkinga angachaza isimo. Yiqiniso, oqalayo ngeke abe nenembile njengochwepheshe bale nkinga, kodwa ngokusebenzisa njalo uhlelo olukhethiwe lokubuyisela inhlanhla, ungathola isipiliyoni esingenakuqhathaniswa nesigugu, okuzobe sekukhulisa ukunemba kwezibikezelo nokuthunyelwa kwazo.
Ezimweni eziningi, njengoba izinkulumo nezithombe emabalazweni zilula, ngokuqagela, ungalungisa umuntu othile noma isimo esithile sokuphila kusengaphambili ekhadini ngalinye. Ngakho, ukuhumusha kwenhlanganisela ewile kuyoba lula kakhulu. Ngaphezu kwalokho, ukuqagela ngale ndlela cishe cishe kunika impendulo engavamile, futhi lokhu kuzokugwema ukuhumusha okungamanga kwamakhadi alahlekile. Ukusetshenziswa kwamakhadi avamile okudlala, ngokungafani namakhadi okubaleka noma okuyizintambo eziphuthumayo, kwenza kube lula uhlelo lwabaqalayo, ngoba alubandakanyi imiphumela engavamile, engaba yinselelo enzima kumuntu oqalayo. Ngakho, ukusebenza ngamabalazwe avamile kuyindlela enhle yokuqonda umhlaba we-esotericism kanye ne-mysticism.
Umbuzo owodwa uhlala uvulekile: ingabe kuwufanelekile ukuthatha imali ngenhlanhla noma uyenze ngokuzithandela? Abaningi abaqeqeshiwe nabasebenzi abanolwazi okwamanje, nokho, kanye nochwepheshe ekubhubhiseni okwedlule, abazange bacele usizo lwabo. Noma kunjalo, iminikelo yokuzithandela yamukelekile. Lesi simiso sisetshenziswa emsebenzini wabo kanye nodokotela abathile abahle. Kodwa, ngokombono wezobuchwepheshe, amazinga okuqagela akufanele ahlangane nalokho okushiwo lokhu kukhwabanisa.