Uthando luzwa okungenamkhawulo oluthinta izinhliziyo zabo bonke, kungakhathaliseki ukuthi bunjani ubuhlanga nobuzwe. Ngakho waba yisisulu sothando olungenamkhawulo ngomqondo wangempela wezwi. Okhethiweyo wakho ungumfokazi. Ngakho-ke yini okufanele uyenze ukuze uvimbele lolu thando lungabi nengozi ngenkathi uhambisa umkhwenyana kuze kube phakade? Futhi yiziphi ubunzima okumelwe ubhekane nazo?
Ukukhulumisana kwakho sekuphele isikhathi eside kunomkhawulo wokuxhumana kwezingcingo, ama-sms amahora omnyama kanye nezingxoxo ze-Skype. Ucabanga ukuthi uswazi kakade kahle futhi ulungele ukuhamba eMlandland bese ubalekela othandekayo bakho emkhawulweni wezwe. Kodwa nokho kufanelekile ukuya phansi bese ucabanga ngokucophelela ukuthi usulungele yini ukuguqulwa okunjalo kokuphela.Ukulungele ukushiya othandekayo bakho, abazali kanye nezintombi, ngoba ngeke kube khona ithuba lokukhala esihlalweni sobukhosi noma, ngokuphambene nalokho, ukuziqhenya ngengubo entsha. Ngeke eze kuwe ngosuku lokuzalwa nangonyaka omusha, futhi awukwazi ukuya kubo isikhathi seholide. Kuzodingeka uhlale isikhathi eside phakathi kwabantu abangabazi nabantu abangabazi.
Uma ungavumi, futhi usulungele ukubuyisana okokuqala ngesizungu, khona-ke sizoletha amathiphu ambalwa, njengoba asho, endleleni.
Ngaphambi kokuba sigcine sesinquma ukuhamba, seluleka ngenyanga ukuba siyivakashele, sijwayelane nabazali bakhe, sibone ukuthi uhlala kuphi nokuthi uhlala kanjani. Hlola, unomqondo ofanayo wokuphila kwansuku zonke namanani omndeni. Ngcono nakakhulu, uma uvakashela iholidi elibalulekile lomndeni. Lena ithuba elihle lokujwayela izihlobo zakhe, futhi ufunde imininingwane eminingi ethakazelisayo ngekusasa lomyeni. Kholelwa, obakazikazi nogogo bazimisele ukukwabelana ngalolu lwazi nawe.
Okuhlangenwe nakho okuhle nokuqinisekiswa kobudlelwano kuyoba yisimemo somkhwenyana sokumvakashela. Uzobona ukuthi umuntu uziphathe kanjani esimweni esingenakho ukhululekile kuye. Ngesikhathi esifanayo uzobona indlela ojwayele ukuhlala ngayo. Uma konke kusithandela, siyaqhubeka.
Yini edingekayo ukukhumbula futhi wazi lapho uya kwelinye izwe? Okungenakukwazi ukuphunyuka emkhawulweni wolimi. Futhi kungcono ukuxazulula le nkinga ku-Motherland. Bhalisela inkambo yelwimi lwangaphandle, thatha i-repeater ngokubiza amagama okukhulunywayo okukhulunywayo. Lokhu kubaluleke kakhulu. Ngikholelwa, oshade naye angeke abe nawe wonke amahora angu-24 ngosuku.
Kubalulekile ukukhumbula ukuthi ezweni oya kulo, kukhona amasiko akho, imithetho namasiko, okumele ufunde, wazi futhi ugcine. Funda kabanzi mayelana nabo. Yiyiphi inkolo ekhona kuleli zwe, iyiphi indlela yokuphila ukuthi ayinqatshelwe ukuyenza.
Thola okuvela kumuntu ozoshada naye uma uzokwazi ukwenza umsebenzi wakhe ezweni lakhe. Kuhle uma umsebenzi wakho ufunwa phesheya. Futhi uma kungenjalo, cabanga ngakho konke okusemandleni okusebenza. Ngeke kube kuhle ukuzinakekela amakhono okushayela uma ungazi ukushayela. Kholwa phesheya, ngokuvamile ilayisensi yokushayela iyadingeka yiwo wonke umuntu.
Futhi-ke, inkinga ebaluleke kunayo yonke yezimali. Kuyaphawuleka uma oshade naye ozayo eyokunikeza isikhathi sonke sokujwayela, noma, nakakhulu, impilo yakho yonke. Kodwa kungcono ukuthatha imali nawe, ukutshela ngemuva okuthembekile ngezimo ezingalindelekile. Bala ukuthi kungakanani okudingayo okokuqala, futhi qiniseka ukuthi ulungiselela le mali ngaphambi kokuhamba. Lokhu kungaba ukuhlolwa komhambi, ikhadi lesikweletu noma ukheshi. Futhi uthathe isikhathi sokuthengisa izindinganiso zempahla kanye nefa langempela ezweni lakubo, kungenziwa njalo.
Futhi uma wena, uma udlulisele okungenani lokhu, ungasho ngokuqiniseka ukuthi - YEBO! VUMELANA! Ungahamba ngokuphepha empilweni entsha phesheya.