Yini esiyaziyo ngamadoda angaphandle? Kucatshangwa ukuthi amaFulentshi ayinamahloni, ama-Italiya ayesimo se-temperamental, ashisayo abantu baseFinland ... abashiseki kakhulu. Kodwa ama-stereotypes ngokuvamile avame kakhulu neqiniso. Ngakho-ke, ukushada nomfokazi noma abafazi baseRussia phesheya yisihloko senkulumo yethu. Ngaphansi kwezinkolelo - sifunda ukuthi yiziphi amadoda angaphandle.
Isibhalisi noma uMnumzane?
Emhlabeni wonke, amadoda ase-Italy ayaziwa njengendlela yokubonakalisa ukukhathazeka okungenakuqhathaniswa nokufutheka okunamandla. Yebo, kunjalo. Ekhanyayo, enomsindo, enemibala ... Ayikho intombazane engeke ihambe emgwaqweni, ingasizwa ngemuva kokubonga "uBelou!" Umculo waseTaliyane kanye nomzwelo, uthanda futhi uhleka .... Kodwa unina ukhetha umfazi. Futhi ngokuvamile ngisho nasebuncane. Futhi abasekho abafana, kodwa abesilisa, abakwazi ukungamlaleli. Ngempela, umndeni we-Italy ungcwele kakhulu. Akekho kulezi zinsuku ezishisayo ezingabikho iminyaka engu-90 yothando lwakhe oluthandayo
ugogo. Hhayi kunoma yiliphi i-gingerbread! Kungakhathaliseki ukuthi yiNdebe Yomhlaba noma i-affair ene-blonde ekhazimulayo. Futhi hhayi ngoba umndeni awuqondi lokhu, kodwa ngoba umndeni empeleni ubaluleke kakhulu.
Emndenini we-Italy yonke into ibalulekile, ayikho into encane. Konke ngaphandle ngaphandle kobulili .... Ukuphuthumayo kuzo zonke izibonakaliso, amadoda athatha abafazi bawo ngokungathí sina kangangokuthi bavame ukwenza izinto ugogo angazilahla.
AbaFulentshi banamathele kakhulu emindenini yabo. Ziyaziqhenya ngempumelelo yezingane, zihloniphe isizukulwane esidala futhi zihlala endaweni yakithi: obakazikazi nabazalakazi, ogogo nomkhulu, abazukulu nabazukulu bachitha isikhathi sabo sonke isikhathi samahhala ndawonye, kodwa futhi baya eholidini ndawonye. Enye yezinjabulo eziyinhloko zesiFulentshi isidlo esihlangene, esiphenduka sibe yeholide langempela. Bahlangana okungenani izizukulwane ezintathu zomndeni futhi bajabulele ukuzijabulisa endaweni yokudlela noma endlini yomuntu.
Amadoda aseFrance ayabathanda ngobuqotho abesifazane. Babukeka ubuhle babo, banakekele, bavulele iminyango ebanzi, banikeze i-manto ngenhliziyo, noma balethe ukukhanya. Abathandi into eyodwa - ukukhokha. I-Skopidomstvo - isici sezwe, futhi ithemba lokuthi ukuphana komuntu ongumFulentshi kumane nje kuyisiwula.
Mayelana nesimo sezwe saseFrance, akuyona into abayakha i-ode. Ubulili ngabo bubuciko obukhethekile - oyintandokazi. Emakhulwini eminyaka adlule edlule, ukuphinga kwakucatshangwa eFrance ... okungalungile. Manje, ngesikhathi sokudalwa komhlaba jikelele, isimo sishintshile ngandlela-thile. Kodwa inhlanzi yokwethembeka evela eParis ayifanele kulindeleke. Ukuthandana nokubukeka - ngaphezu kwakho konke! Kuyathakazelisa ukuthi ngesiFulentshi ayikho inkulumo eyodwa engcolile noma ukuqalekisa okuhlotshaniswa nohlangothi lwesimo somuntu. Yikuphi okuhlukile kulohlobo lwayo.
Umndeni waseScandinavia
Amadoda aseScandinavians abesilisa kakhulu. Izindebe ezide, ezinamandla, ezinobuchopho obunemisonto nobuluhlaza okwesibhakabhaka, azilondolozanga kuphela i-genotype yamaqhawe anamandla, kodwa futhi uthando lwabahedeni, uthando nothando kulabo okufanele bavikeleke - kubafazi babo, izingane, imindeni, abangane.
AmaSweden, amaDani namaNorwegi aqotho. Futhi, njengabaphi abantu abaqotho, bathanda amaqembu amomsindo, izinkampani ezijabule nemibuthano ehlelekile ngamakhandlela ngezinkulumo eside mayelana nencazelo yokuphila. Yiqiniso, imibuthano ihambisana nengilazi (hhayi neyodwa) yewayini noma ingilazi yezinye izidakamizwa zeDanishi vodka - izithako ezinamandla ezinotshani. Ngaphambi kokuba uphuze enye ingilazi, kufanele ... uhlabele ingoma! Uma isilonda somculo esilandelayo sikhala kakhulu futhi sinomphefumulo owedlula ukwedlule, khona-ke umkhosi ubutha ukukhula. Kubonakala sengathi isithombe siyazijwayele, kepha owesifazane waseRussia uzomangala kakhulu ukuthi iqembu liphela kanjani: ngisho noma "u-humming" waseSweden noma uDane, ngokuhamba ngokuhamba nezivakashi, uzobuyela ekhishini ... ugeze izitsha. Yilokho umehluko wakhe omkhulu ovela "kubangane baseRussia" - engalahleki ukuhlonipha lokhu kule viking, uyasusa etafuleni, upake ngokucophelela ukudla okusele kule filimu bese uyibeka ngokucophelela esiqandisini. Ngoba lokhu akusona isono sokushada ...
AmaSweden, amaNorwegi namaDanes ekhishini anamandla hhayi ekuhlanzeni kuphela. Iningi lamaScandinavia lilungiselela kahle futhi lithande lo msebenzi. Ngaphezu kwalokho, babheka njengento ehloniphekile ukuqonda hhayi kuphela izinhlobo zewayini lewayini noma i-brandy, kodwa nezinkinga zokupheka.
Naphezu kokungaboni kahle, abaseSweden banomzwelo futhi banesimo sengqondo. Bangabathandi abathandekayo. Ubuhlobo obuseduze nabo bomshado buyinto ebaluleke kakhulu kunokubambisana okungokomoya noma umphakathi wokubukwa. UNkulunkulu abe nabo, ngokubukeka! Ekugcineni, wonke umuntu ukhululekile ukuba nombono, embhedeni womshado akufanele aphuze phansi! Futhi uma umfazi esebe "ekhanda" kaningi, umyeni okhathalelayo uzocabangela indlela yokuqothula abathandekayo. Isibonelo, ngokuletha isonto lokugcina e-Cote d'Azur, uhambo oluthambile oluya eNigeria noma olwandle oluncane olwandle oluya enhloko-dolobha yombuso oseduze.
Futhi noma ngabe iSweden ibhekwa njengesisu saseYurophu sothando lwamahhala, "abathandi bamahhala" ngokwabo banomona futhi banomusa, futhi abaxoleli abathengisi. Umndeni waseSweden ovamile ungumakhiwo wokwakha izindlu. Vumela umfazi angenalo inkululeko enkulu, kepha umyeni ubonisa umthwalo ongapheli, ukuvikela nokuvikela isidleke sakhe. Imikhakha yemindeni neyezwe ikhonjiswe ngokuqinile, kodwa umklomelo othembekile futhi ojulile uthola kumabhonasi akhe okungenamkhawulo amabhonasi: ukunakekela, ukwethembeka nezipho ngaphandle kwesizathu.
Abajabula kakhulu nabangenandaba nabasenyakatho bangamaNorway . Nakuba izibalo zithi iphesenti lokuzibulala eNorway yiyona ephakeme kakhulu eYurophu ngenxa yokungabi khona kwelanga, isizathu, ngokusho komhlali bendawo, silele kwenye. Eqinisweni, amadoda aseNorway asezingeni elihle elihlelekile. Isifiso sabo sokungatholakali sinamandla kangangokuthi izinkinga ezivamile zansuku zonke zivele ziphule. IsiNorway sihoxisa kuye, sishintsha umkakhe, umndeni wakhe, uqala ukuthatha amaphilisi ekucindezelekeni ... futhi uma konke lokhu kungasebenzi, kuqinisa izibalo ezidabukisayo.
Okunye okufana namaJalimane. Bobabili abagcini nje ukuthanda ubhiya nomnotho, kodwa futhi bayakwazisa izindinganiso zomndeni ... kakhulu kangangokuthi bavame ukuphela ngaphansi kwesithende somfazi. Kanye nalabo abashade nabo, bazohlala bethuthukisa indlu yabo, ingadi kanye nensimu yabo njalo, benze izinto zangaphakathi, bahlanganise izithombe bese ukhetha amakhethini ngezwi lezihlalo. Kodwa ukusho ukuthi umyeni ngamunye oqotho "ezintweni zokuzilibazisa" kuzoba okungenani kube ukunyanyisa. Emaphakathini angokwemvelo uqobo ngokwanele futhi ehlelekile, ethule futhi enokuthula, ubala imali futhi uzama ukuvula ukukhanya futhi, kodwa, ngemva kokuphunyuka "esidlekeni esiphuthumayo", uyahamba. Amabha, izindawo zokudlela, amakhasino - konke okuluhlu olusiza ukukhohlwa ngemini yomndeni oyinyumba endaweni yokucima umlilo kahle.
Ngenkululeko, uDane ubuyela ngokushesha esitokisini sakhe saseScandinavia - uchitha imali ngakwesokunxele nangesobunxele, ugijimela ezandleni zabangane bokuphuza, ephethe ama-ladies ... futhi lapho ebuya ekhaya, ugqoka ama-slippers "nesikhumba semvu" seHerr egcinwe futhi eqotho. Ubulili njengokuqedwa komdlandla kuyamthakazelisa ... kuphela ohlangothini, ngoba abafazi baseDenmark bahlotshanisa ukuthi bathanda injabulo ngamaProthestani - ngoba "kubasebenzi" egameni lokuzala.
Indaba yaseMpumalanga
Wonke umuntu wase-Arab, ngisho noma ehlanya imini nobusuku ama-kebabs emgwaqeni wesitaladi, emphefumulweni uzizwa sengathi u-sheikh wamaphesenti ayikhulu. Futhi ukunakekelwa "idayimani lamehlo akhe" uzobe esezingeni eliphezulu. Intombazane engenalwazi ingazwa izinto eziningi ezithakazelisayo ngezihlobo ezicebile ngezimboni nezitshalo emhlabeni wonke noma izindaba ezithakazelisayo mayelana nezigqoko zamafutha omndeni kanye nezintaba zegolide. Ngokuhambisana nokukhanya okuthakazelisayo kwamehlo abuhlaza obusobala, kuzokonke kuzwakale okukholisa kakhulu. Ekuqaleni. Kodwa ngokushesha kuvele kucace ukuthi umalume wakhe, umgidi, ungumthengisi wezimvu nje noma umnikazi we-kiosk one-shawarma esitaladini esiseduze.
Ama-Arabhu avulekile embhedeni, kodwa ashisa emlilweni wobumnene bawo, engakwazi ukusekela ukushisa kwezinkanuko isikhathi eside. Noma kunjalo, ukuphila kobulili okusebenzayo kukhuthazwa yiKoran, kanye nezingane, ngobuningi ... okuyinto inhloko yomndeni iyakwazi ukuyondla.
Kodwa ama-Arabhu abheka izingane njengempahla yazo, futhi omama abanamalungelo abo. Ngakho-ke, abafazi baseYurophu nabaseRussia "bama-sheikh" bavame ukuboshwa ngenxa yezingane ezinama-ex-amadoda futhi baze baphoqeleke ukuba bamemezele ukucinga: akuvamile ukuba obaba babathumbule bese beyisa ezweni labo lomlando.
I-American Dream
Eqinisweni, abaseMelika bangabantu abasha abadinga ukuba baningi kakhulu. Ukunqoba kuyisisekelo se-psychology yaseMelika. Lokhu akuyona into ebaluleke kakhulu, kodwa into esemqoka. Ngakho-ke, ukwehla komlingiswa kwanoma yimuphi umuntu waseMelika kungumzwelo wokunganaki. Ukujabula kwangaphandle kufihla ukukhathazeka, futhi kukhona njalo okukhathazayo abantu baseMelika mayelana. Ngempela, bafuna ukuthola okuningi ekuphileni. Futhi ngokushesha. Kodwa bona ngokwabo bayesaba lezi zifiso.
Bamesaba ama-yuppies amhlophe-ahlasele emhlabeni wonke: bazolahlekelwa imisebenzi yabo, badilize umshini noma ubuthi ngokwabo ngezilwandle zasolwandle. Ukuthi intombi izocasula ngesicelo sokwamukela i-pos ngaphandle kwezithunywa zevangeli, futhi unobhala uzogxeka ngokuhlukunyezwa ngokocansi (ukuhlukunyezwa ngokocansi) ukumomotheka, okuncane kakhulu emsebenzini ngaphandle kokujwayelekile. Ukuthi umkakhe wahlukumeza izingane, futhi umngane wakho wawadonsa enkantolo ezincane kakhulu ekuziphatheni. Ngakho-ke, i-American "izolinganisa izikhathi eziyikhulu" ngaphambi kokuzivumela into encane, futhi izikhathi eziyinkulungwane ngaphambi kokuthatha isinqumo nge-adventure yothando. Lokhu ngokwengxenye kuchaza isitayela sempilo yomndeni. Ukulungisa, ukulungisa nokulungisa futhi. Konke kufanele kube "njengabantu": ukugijima ekuseni, umsebenzi ozinzile, ngeSonto picnic emaseni futhi, nakanjani, baseball. Konke lokhu kuqiniswa ukumomotheka okulethwe ku-automatism.
Umfazi weMelika ngesikhathi esifanayo uphawu lokunqoba kanye nengozi yokunqotshwa. Ngakho-ke, baseMelika bazama ukuba ngabayeni bokuqapha kanye nobaba abathandayo. Futhi yini enye edingekayo ekuphileni komndeni othulile?
Ukuphupha ukuya kwelinye izwe ukuthola indawo yokuhlala unomphela, kubalulekile ukukhumbula ukuthi "kuhle lapho singekho khona." Yilokho konke intombazane okufanele icabange ngakho ngaphambi kokuba ushade nomunye wezizwe noma abafazi baseRashiya phesheya kuzoba njalo, futhi injabulo izobaletha kancane kancane.