Ubuhlobo bokuqala obubi phakathi komfana nentombazane

Ubuhlobo obunzima bokuqala phakathi komfana nentombazane akuyona nje kuphela injabulo yendawo yonke, kodwa futhi nesenzakalo sokulungiselela umthwalo omkhulu wokuziphatha ngokuqondene nomuntu oye wangena kulobu buhlobo. Lesi yisikhathi sesikhathi sokukhula, lapho abantu bephenduka emagama futhi bethembisa ezenzweni - futhi lokhu kuyisinyathelo esibi futhi esinomthwalo wemfanelo.

Yiqiniso, okuhlangenwe nakho kobuhlobo obunzima bokuqala phakathi komfana nentombazane akupheli ngaso sonke isikhathi ngomshado, imikhosi kazwelonke kanye nokuzalwa kwezingane. Ngokuvamile ziphela ngegebe, ngoba abantu abasha abahlale bekulungele ukuguqula izimpilo zabo ezingu-180 bese beqala kabusha, njengokungathi kusuka esitelekeni esihlanzekile. Omunye umuntu akazange ahambe, othile wayengakwazi ukujwayela imikhuba engavamile yesiqingatha sakhe, othile wayengenelisekile ngokuthi ubuhlobo obunzima walithatha inkululeko yakhe enkulu - futhi wafuna ukukhululeka. Kodwa lokhu kungukuphila, futhi ubuhlobo bokuqala buyinto yokuqala nokuphambili, ukunikeza umbhangqwana umbono walokho ukuphila, umthwalo wemfanelo, nokuthi konke lokhu kungathinta kanjani uthando (futhi akunjalo?).

Okusemandleni akho umzuzwana usufikile lapho unganelisekile ukuhamba ngaphansi kwenyanga njalo kwezinsuku ezintathu, uma usuku lwakho oluthandayo lungakunika isikhathi. U-Nabili nosminu la ma-chocolate candies, ayewathokozisa kakhulu emihlanganweni yabo yokuqala kanye nemihlangano. Ukhathele ukulala, ukugcoba umcamelo, yedwa, embhedeni obandayo. Ukukhathala ngaphambi kokulala ukubhala imilayezo emide ngothando lwakhe olungapheliyo. Futhi ngakho-ke ufuna ukuhlala usondele, umhlangabeze emsebenzini, umlungiselele isidlo sakusihlwa. Buza ukuthi kwenzekani kuye ngalolu suku, ukuze ubukele ukuthi uhlala kanjani egofa eseceleni emva komsebenzi wosuku olukhuni. Menze ukuphumula okuphumuzayo futhi ukhulume ngokuthi ungumuntu onjani, unamandla kangakanani futhi uhlakaniphile. Ukuthinta ngobumnene izinwele ngesandla sakho, uphefumule kumnandi wakho oyintandokazi ... Futhi ngaphambi kokulala, ungabhali izicelo ezinde ngothando, kodwa ubumnene uzwakalise ezindlebeni zakho, uzizwe inhliziyo yakho ishaye ngokushesha futhi ngokushesha ngamazwi akho. Ukuzwa ukuphendula kwakhe okuyisimungulu endleleni abonisa ngayo ngomoya omuhle ezandleni zakhe eziqinile, egubungela ubuso bakhe ngokumanga ... Yebo, kufika ekuphileni komunye nomunye ngesikhathi lapho konke okufunayo okukufunayo kanye nalokho.

Uyabona ngenjabulo ukusabela kwakhe - ngicabanga ukuthi usekulungele ubuhlobo obunzima, uyazi ukuthi angeke aphile ngaphandle kwakho nosuku, kunzima kakhulu ukushiya umnyango wakho. Uvame ukubizela kuye ngokwengeziwe, ukuhlala ubusuku bonke, futhi emva kokuzijwayeza abazali bakhe. Noma uqashe izindlu bese uhlala ngokwahlukana nawo wonke umuntu, ekhoneni lakho lasezulwini, elijabulisayo nelithulile. Futhi unikeza imvume yakho, hhayi ukungabaza, ngoba nje usho ukuthi yini wena ngokwakho oye waluphupha isikhathi eside!

Futhi manje uthola isidleke esifanele futhi uhambe kuwo, ugcwele ithemba ngekusasa elikhanyayo. Wena-ke, uyazi ukuthi ubuhlobo obunzima phakathi komfana nentombazane kuyisigaba esisha ekuthuthukiseni uthando lwakho, isinyathelo esikhulu phambili, sinomthwalo wemfanelo hhayi ngaso sonke isikhathi sezingane. Futhi wena, kubonakala sengathi ulungele ukukwenza, uqinisekile ngezikhwepha zakho nokuthi uthando lwakho luzobhubhisa zonke izithiyo ezingasima endleleni yakho yokuphila.

Ekuqaleni uhlala umphefumulo emphefumulweni, zama konke okusemandleni akho ukuba ungavumeli impilo yakho idle uthando lwakho. Uyihlambulula ndawonye, ​​usuku lonke ovelele ekhishini, ukujabulisa abathandekayo bakho ngesidlo esingenalindelekile. Akakhohlwa ukukunika izimbali futhi alethe ikhofi ukulala, usalubambe ngokulangazela amazwi akho ngothando futhi akakhathali ukuveza imizwa yakhe. Ngezimpelasonto wenza uhlelo lokuzijabulisa langempela futhi ungahlali ekhaya, kodwa zama ukuchitha isikhathi ujabule futhi ngenzuzo. Kanye ngesonto, bonke abangane bakho bahlangana endlini yakho ukuhlela iqembu elimnandi futhi bafike ngokugcwele.

Kodwa lapha kudlula isikhathi esincane - futhi impilo iyayithatha, ilungiselela ukuhlolwa kwangempela kulabo abaphikisana nabantu abadala kanye nobuhlobo obukhulu. Okokuqala, ukuhlanza endlini kuhamba ngokufudumele. Ngemuva kwalokho, othandekayo ukhathele emsebenzini kangangokuthi akanayo amandla okugijima azungeze indlu nge-mop. Uyazi ukuthi wawuphi, futhi wawukulungele. Manje usuke ukhathele kancane kancane, kodwa uthando alupheli kulo.

Khona-ke kancane kancane ukuzilibazisa kwakho kuyaba yinto engcolile. Uma inyanga edlule awukwazi ukuhlala ezindongeni ezine, kodwa manje uvila kakhulu ukuhlangana endaweni ethile. Kubonakala kuwe ukuthi konke ongakwenza - usubonile kakade. In cafe awufuni. Ku-movie - naye. Ngakho ulala nje embhedeni, ubambe, futhi ubukele i-TV. Noma uphenduke uhlezi ekhompyutheni. Noma ... ngokujwayelekile, kunezinketho eziningi, kodwa zonke zifuywayo.

Khona-ke uqala ukuthukuthela nge-monotony enjalo empilweni, ufuna ukuzijabulisa nezintombi zakho ngendlela owawujwayele ukuhamba ngayo ku-nightclub ngaphambi kokusa, futhi emva kwalokho uhlangabezana nokusa okubomvu ogwini. Ufuna ukuhlela i-shabashka enhle embuthanweni wabangane, iningi lokuphuza ubhiya nokudlala bowling noma amabhilididi. Kodwa awukwazi ukuqaphela amaphupho akho, ngoba ekhaya uphinde ulindele ukuhlanza, kukhona intaba yokungcola izingubo ebhasikisini, futhi akukho okunye okulungele ukudla. Akayena ku-carouse nabangani ngaphandle kokubambisana.

Kuthatha isikhathi esengeziwe, uqala ukucasula ngokujulile yonke imisebenzi yasekhaya. Ngesikhathi esifanayo, umuntu othandekayo ngokuphindaphindiwe ngemuva kokusebenza isikhathi eside nabangani emakhakheni ukuze aqede ukucindezeleka emva komsebenzi wosuku. Uziphindiselela intombi yakho, uthatha ibhodlela lewayini nawe - futhi uhlela iseshini sangempela ye-psychoanalysis, ehambisana nezikhalazo ezinzima "ngokuphila okunjalo." Intombazane iyakuthanda kakhulu futhi ikuthulukise ngokwengeziwe, ngokufanayo ngokutshela ukuthi izolo zivuliwe kanjani namantombazane ebusuku. Futhi uzibamba ucabanga ukuthi unomhawu omkhulu ngenkululeko yokuhamba kwawo. Futhi unquma, ngaphandle kokuphazamiseka ngakho konke, hamba ukuhamba.

Uma umfana ophuthumayo efika ekhaya futhi engakutholi lapho, uqala ukubiza, futhi uma uzwa ukuthi usebusuku, ubhekene nomsindo ngokungahloniphi kwakho kuye: ungakwenza kanjani, ngoba anginakho ukudla? Ukuxabana kuqale, okuqhubekayo lapho uhamba ngaphezu komngcele wefulethini ... Futhi uma uvumela izinto ukuba zihambe ngokwazo, maduzane uzolahlekelwa lobu buhlobo, ongase uzizisole kamuva.

Lokhu-ke, kungenye yezindlela ongakhetha ngayo impilo yakho emva kokuba unqume ngobuhlobo obunzima. Konke kwenzeka ngokungafani, ikakhulukazi uma abantu bekulungele ngempela ukuthi balindelwe yini. Kunoma yikuphi - ubuhlobo obunzima bokuqala akuwona nje kuphela ukuhlolwa kothando lwamandla, kodwa futhi nokuhlolwa kwangempela empilweni, emva kwalokho uzokwazi ukusho ukuthi ungumuntu okhulile futhi ohlakaniphile, ukuthi usulungele ukufuna ukuyekethisa ezimweni ezinzima futhi ukhuthaze izikhathi ezithile , fundisa othandekayo wakho futhi ushintshe ngokwakho, uma izimo zidinga.