Ngokuqinisekile uhlangabezane nabammeli bakho besifazane abangakwazi ukubizwa ngokuthi abesifazane, igama lokuqala eliza engqondweni "ngunina." Ngakho-ke laba basifazane bani nokuthi bangaba kanjani omunye wabo?
Ubani esibiza ngokuthi "u -kazi"? Amantombazane kuphela angakwazi ukukhononda ngeshlabathi esishisayo, ebanda kakhulu ulwandle, athukuthele ngabanye abantu, futhi ngokwabo bavele bamemeza nje ngomyeni wabo, nakwabanye abangabazi, bangadla ihafu yehora ogwini kuphela 3 Hamburgers, nakuba bona ngokwabo ngokuzithengela bona kakade isayizi umkhumbi size XXXL ...
Uma sibona abantu abanjalo, khona-ke thina masinyane sichaza ukuthi akasoze futhi singasoze sibe njengabo. Nokho, abaningi bathi esikhathini sethu abazange bahlele ukuba njalo ...
Ngako-ke, unina uzothatha iminyaka emingaki?
Ngesinye isikhathi, kukhona nabalingani nabo ekilasini kanye ne-odnogruppnitsy, okuyiminyaka engu-16 no-19 engabizwa ngokusemthethweni njengamakhulukazi.
Ngemuva kwalokho, abantu abavamile abasencane bayaya emakhonsathini, badlala, ama-movie, ngezinsuku, nalabo abasengqondweni yabo kuphela baya esitolo seqembu lama-carbohydrate namafutha futhi babuyele ku-vobschizhitie noma ekhaya. Bahlale besabisa abantu abahlala nabo ngenxa yokungcola nokungafaneleki noma ukungathandi ukulungisa isidlo esicebile, esiyinkimbinkimbi.
Laba bokazi abazange baqede amakilasi, kodwa izilinganiso ezingaphezu kwalezi zintathu azikatholanga. Kodwa-ke, iphupho labo elikhulu kakhulu futhi eliphakeme kakhulu "Ngifuna ukushada" (Yebo, akekho othukayo ngokubiza amantombazane anjalo ashada, futhi wona ngokwawo awawuthathi lutho ngalokhu). Ukukhulumisana nabesifazane abanjalo kuyamangalisa, ngoba konke abangatshela ukuthi bangayithola kanjani inzuzo esitolo, kuthiwani, kuphi nokuthi yiyiphi intengo esithengiswayo, ngaphezu kwalokho, bayathanda kakhulu ukufundisa impilo, ngoba omama bahlale beqiniseka ukuthi baqinisile!
Kodwa uma uyibheka ngokubukeka okuhlukile, u-anti wakho akanakuliswa, ngoba iminyaka ayikuguquleli njalo kwesinye isigaba, isibonelo, uJuliet Binoche, uSophia Loren, uMadonna ubukeka ...
Iyini impilo ka-aunts esekelwe?
Ngingeke kanjani ngibe unina onyanyekayo? Kumnandi futhi kulula ukuhlobene nokuphila, ukuphupha, ungesabi okusha, ufeze izifiso zakho, ufeze imigomo.
Ukaninikazi ekhanda lami uyaqhubeka. Nazi ezinye izimiso ukuthi izigaba zakudala zihlala ngukuthi:
- "Ukuze ungaba namahloni phambi kwabantu." Yiqiniso, unina wakhe ngokungahambisani nokho ukholelwa ukuthi imibono yakhe iyona efanele kunazo zonke emhlabeni, futhi uzama ukuyibeka kumuntu wonke omzungezile, kodwa endaweni ethile emphefumulweni wakhe, uyathukuthela kakhulu, uma othile emlahla, ikhombisa ukwehluleka kwayo kanye nokungaphumeleli. Ngakho-ke, umuntu onjalo ulungele ukwenza lokho angafuni futhi abathandi, kepha bayakwenza, ngoba: "abantu bayothini?".
- "I-oda kufanele ibe yonke indawo - lokhu kuyinto esemqoka." Yonke indawo futhi kukho konke okumele kulandelwe khona i-oda. Ikakhulukazi kubalulekile ukunaka umnotho. "Emva kwakho konke, abantu abaningi bacabanga ukuthi lokhu kulungile. Kubalulekile ukuchitha lonke ihlobo e-dacha, noma ngabe i-Colorado bezambane beetle izoyidla. Ngizohamba, kodwa abantu bazokwenzenjani? "Futhi uma siya olwandle, ukunikeza ukhula kuyoba" yisifo "!
- Into eyinhloko ukuthi njengabantu. " Abesifazanekazi banomhawu kakhulu, futhi ngaphandle kwe-rassabororostvenniki it, abangane, omakhelwane, izitha ... Yazi ukuthi cishe akukho imibono nezifiso zayo, ngoba iphila izimpilo zabanye abantu. Ngakho-ke, bacabanga ukuthi kuyadingeka ukuba baphile, ngoba abanye abantu, njengomakhelwane kaZinka, ohlala ngaphesheya komgwaqo noma umakhelwane uKatka, ohlala ocingweni. Ngemuva kwalokho, odadewethu besaba ukwenza okuthile ngendlela yabo, besaba ukuphuma esixukwini. Ekuqaleni, baya esikoleni, ngemuva kwesikole esikoleni noma ekolishi, emva kokushada, babeletha ingane ngonyaka noma emibili bese kuthi okwesibili. Futhi, yebo, sebenza. Kodwa lokhu kuphela uma ungeke ukwazi ukushada noma umyeni onamawala wenqaba ukugcina. Yilokho konke u-anti akudingayo ku-unina, into ekhona eseleyo kuphela ukuhlala emhlalaphansi, futhi kancane kancane uguqulwe kumakhulukazi kumakhulukazi. Lokhu kuyincazelo yomhlaba wonke, empeleni, u-anti angasebenzisa "into eyinhloko ukuthi njengabantu", lapho ekhetha umshini odongeni noma enza umyeni wakhe amamathele tile esihlahleni nokunye okunjalo.
Uthonakho ubheka kanjani?
Amakhulukazikazikazi ahlukene kakhulu, kepha angahlukaniswa abe ama-subspecies amabili: anqobile futhi acebile .
U-anti, "onqobayo", eqinisweni, angaba nengeniso efanayo njengabacebile. Uvele enesimo sengqondo esihlukile semali. Uthi: "Ipulazi kumele igcinwe, lapho okunye okumele kusetshenziswe khona ngezigqoko nezimonyo, futhi angiyidingi konke, angineminyaka engu-20 ubudala, angiyikuhlangana nomuntu ...".
Kuphi omama abangampofu abahambayo:
- Esikhundleni sengubo yembobo bagqoka ijaji eliphansi, futhi kusukela ngo-Okthoba kuya ku-Ephreli!
- bayathanda ama-breeches - ama-tartar ahlakaniphile amancane abangakwazi ukugcizelela isibalo sentombazane encane, nabesifazane abagcwele, ikakhulukazi. Uma befaka ijackethi phansi ekamelweni lokugcina, baphuma ngama-breeches kanye neTe shirt yezindlovu.
- bakhetha ama-t-shirts, nakakhulu, ngcono.
- izimbadada, izicathulo, izimbadada kanye nezinye izicathulo zasehlobo ezishintshayo.
Lokhu kusho ukuthi unina wakhe uhamba kulokho akuthandayo, futhi okubaluleke kakhulu, eshibhile. Isitayela nokubukeka okujwayelekile kubo, abakucabangi ngakho. Ngaphezu kwalokho, okazikazi bayaqiniseka ukuthi abakudingi. Mhlawumbe, kwaba yilokho abahluphekile, abafazi abanobugovu abaqamba amagama "indwangu enhle" kanye "non-marble".
Ngamafuphi, ungaba ngunina ngoba awunayo into ebonakalayo, kodwa ngenxa yokuthi awukhathaleli wena nokubukeka kwakho.
Laba bafana "abacebile" abanalo imali enkulu yezigidigidi emabhange aseSwitzerland, bafuna nje ingubo ye-muzhinorkovaya. Futhi kusukela ngo-Okthoba kuya ku-Ephreli baya kuwo. "Abafundisikazi abacebile baziqhenya ngokuthi banemali, ngakho bazama ukuyiveza ngokubonakala kwabo.
Esigqokeni sabo sangempela ungathola ngokuqinisekile:
- uma kungenjalo i-mink, isembatho se-karakul esikhwameni. Ngaphezu kwalokho, lapho ungaboni nje kuphela ingubo yoboya, kodwa futhi uhamba nekhanda elifanayo, kodwa basagibela amabhasi namabhasi e-trolley, futhi bathatha isikhala esiningi ekuthuthweni kwabo ngobukhulu bawo.
- igolide - kungamasongo, amaketanga, izinhlamvu ezinkulu ... Ngaphezu kwalokho, zonke izindwangu zokugqoka zigqoke ngisho nakusasa, ngisho nasitolo, ngisho nangetheyili ne-t-shirt.
- ama-sweaters anenhlobo ehlukile ye-shiny. I-Ony ibuye igqoke ngisho nasezinsukwini zamasonto.
Ngamanye amazwi, omama "abacebile" bahlale begqoke ngakho "wonke umuntu angabona ukuthi angayithengela wona". Abaninazana abazithengi izinto eziphansi kakhulu, kufanele zikhanye!
Isitayela nokunambitheka akucatshangelwa ...
Ngakho-ke obabakazi bathambekele ekuthengeni umakoti, futhi "izimpahla zabathengi", wonke umuntu ugqoke, ngoba "abaningi bayazi ukuthi intengo yale nto, ngakho-ke, bayakujabulela futhi babone ukuthi nginikeze imali eningi!"
Ukuze ungabi njalo, udinga okungenani ukuthenga izinto ongayithenga kuzo zonke izixazululo zesithathu emakethe yokugqoka!
Othandane bahlobene kanjani nomsebenzi?
Abaningi baphutha lapho becabanga ukuthi uma bengasebenzi, bayoba ngunina. Eqinisweni, ama-50 %kazi ka-50% omama abasebenza.
Amakhulukazi asanda kubhekisela ngqo kulo msebenzi, abathandi kuwo. Ngaphezu kwalokho, nabo abanesithakazelo kwezinye izikhathi ezibalulekile ekuphileni.
Ama-aunts abakwazi ukwakha umsebenzi othakazelisayo, ngoba abanaso isikhathi sezingxabano, izingxabano kanye nezikhalazo. Bazama ukushaya okungenani isikhundla esithile esikhungweni esithile se-state. Awukwazi ukusebenza ngokujulile futhi afinyelele impumelelo langempela!
Yini okufanele uyenze ukuze ungaba ukanina?
Yiziphi abesifazane abangasongelwa ukuba ngumama?
- Abesifazane abazinakekelayo, balandele isitayela nemfashini.
- Ejabule futhi enethemba.
- Ngomdlandla. Futhi kungakhathaliseki ukuthi bathande kangakanani, umndeni, ukuzilibazisa noma umsebenzi. Khumbula ukuthi uma unesithakazelo ekuphileni kwakho, nakakhulu uma udehlukanisa nesithombe sikakanini wakho.
- Ukulungele ukwamukela amaphutha abo futhi ufunde.
- Ukuthanda nokuthandwa. Phela, uthando lunikeza njalo ithuba lokuzizwa, ngakho-ke akunakwenzeka ukuba sibe yinto eqinile futhi eqinile.
Ake sithemba ukuthi phakathi kwe-vetnet u-ununts, futhi awusoze uthanda!