Umona wezintombi
Uma othile ecasula impumelelo yakho nempumelelo yakho, khona-ke ungayibheka kusukela ekubukeni okuhle, ngakho impumelelo yakho ibalulekile futhi umuntu angathanda ukuba yimpumelelo njengoba wena, ngakho-ke umona. Mhlawumbe, ngamunye wethu unomngane, lapho ebona isembatho sakho esisha, u-manicure noma i-hairdress, eqala ukusho ukuthi wayesezinwele ezifanayo, nokuthi wayehamba kakhulu futhi emzungezile kuphela ngezinwele zakhe wathi . Ungathukutheli ngalawa magama bese ugijima ukulungisa izinwele zakho. Kungenzeka ukuthi kuthiwe ngomona, ukuze ungaboni eceleni kwakho ohlakaniphile futhi omuhle kakhulu ongasethandwa futhi othuthukile.
Umona womama
Ngomona umama azizwa ngendodakazi yakhe, konke kuyinkimbinkimbi kakhulu. Umama wakho akayitholi encane minyaka yonke, isikhathi lapho esemncane futhi ekhula khona sekudlule kancane kancane, kodwa kubonakala sengathi akakwazi ukwamukela lokhu. Zama ukungamcasuli, angakufisa ngobuqotho injabulo nokuhle, kodwa ngesikhathi esifanayo yena uhlale ehlala owesifazane. Futhi wonke owesifazane ufuna ukuba ngcono futhi abe mnandi kunezinye, ngisho nendodakazi yakhe siqu. Lokhu kungokwemvelo yethu. Ubekezelela kakhulu umama wakhe, hhayi amandla akhe okuletha ubusha emuva. Cabanga ngelinye ilanga uzobe usendaweni yalo, bese ungabe usengumphikisi wendodakazi yakho esekhulile futhi enhle kakhulu. Noma kunjalo, iqiniso lokuthi umama wakho ufuna okungenani ahlale futhi abonakale enhle njengalokhu efanelwe ukuhlonishwa. Ngakho-ke mhlawumbe kufanele uhambe uthengise ndawonye bese ukhetha izingubo ezintsha kuMama? Myeke axoshe abantfwana bakhe beminyaka yobudala futhi bakhe amehlo oontanga bakho abazokuvakashela ngendebe yetiyi.
Umona Wezithandwa
Futhi ekugcineni, ukhetho olunzima kakhulu: umona uvuka ensizweni yakho. Futhi lesi isizathu esibi kakhulu sokucabanga ngobuhlobo bakho. Kungenzeka ukuthi manje uyisikhathi esinzima kangaka empilweni yakhe, mhlawumbe izinkinga emsebenzini noma ezinye izinto azihlanganisiwe, noma nje unezimo ezimbi kulobu busuku. Mhlawumbe usakholelwa kuwe, kodwa waphonsa inkulumo eyisiphukuphuku, ngokuphelele ngaphandle kokucabanga hhayi ngobubi, kodwa ngokukhathala, isibonelo. Kodwa uma lokhu kungeyona isenzakalo esiyingqayizivele, futhi lokhu kuphindaphindiwe ngezikhathi ezithile, futhi akunakwenzeka ukuloba ukuziphatha okunjalo kwezinye izinto zangaphandle, khona-ke kukhona indlela eyodwa kuphela yokuphuma - ukuphunyuka ngaphandle kokubuka emuva kusuka enkosini. Akukho okuhle kumuntu onjalo empilweni ngeke.
Imithetho yokuvikelwa
Ngakho yini ongayenza ukuze uzihlukanise futhi ungathathi umona womunye umuntu eduze kwenhliziyo yakho? Ake senze imithetho ethile.
- Isimiso sokuqala: ungavumeli noma ubani abhubhise ukholo lwakho kuwe. Futhi bonke abakuzungezile bathuthumele ngalokho abakufunayo, bangalaleli ulimi olubi, babe phezu kwabo. I-aphorism ye-Golden "Smile - iyamcasula wonke umuntu!" Ingabe nje ihlaya.
- Imithetho emibili: yiba nobucayi kakhulu futhi uqaphele ezitatimendeni, ikakhulukazi nezihlobo zakho. Uyazi ukuthi ubunzima babo bunjani manje. Ngezinye izikhathi izimpumelelo zakho kufanele zibe phansi kancane, ukuze kungalimazi ngokungafanele imizwa yabantu abaseduze. Futhi uma kufika umzuzwana omuhle, ungakutshela izindaba ezijabulisayo nezibalulekile kuwe, khona-ke uzobonakala ngokuhluke kakhulu.
- Isimiso sesithathu: uma ukuxhumana nabanye abantu kukucindezela, kungcono ukunciphisa ize. Uma banobubele nganoma yisiphi isizathu, kuqala ngokuthi ukwazi ukufika ku-premiere yefilimu futhi uphela ngomklomelo emncintiswaneni wokuhleka wekati lakho, ngakho awukho endleleni efanayo nabantu abanjalo.
Ngakho into ebaluleke kakhulu ukuzethemba kanye namandla akho. Futhi umona wabanye ungakusiza kuphela ukuba ufinyelele ukunqoba okusha futhi akekho oyokuvimbela ekufinyeleleni imigomo yakho.