Ekuphileni siyadlala indima ehlukene: i-Innovator, i-Seeker, Umdlandla, uMninimabhizinisi, uMhleli, i-Analyst, i-Critic, i-Advisor ... Ungaqhubeka kuze kube phakade. Endleleni eya ekufezeni imigomo yethu ngempumelelo, kumele sifunde ukushintsha ngokushesha ukuthi yilawo maqembu okusiza ukuthi uvumelane nezimo ezishintshayo.
Uma kwenzeka ukuthi ushintsho oluya embusweni omusha luqala nganoma isiphi isifiso esinesithakazelo, khona-ke indima yethu kulesi sigaba kufanele ibe nesisusa, eshukumisayo. Khona-ke siphendukela ezenzweni ezicasulayo, ngokufanele, indima yomuntu obambelela futhi enamandla iba efanelekile. Kuncike emisebenzini emisha ephakama phambi kwethu, sizozama ukuzitholela izindima ezifanele futhi, okubaluleke kakhulu, ukuba sibhekane nomoya nendlela okubekwe ngayo kulezi zindima.
Ungakhetha kanjani indima efanele bese ufaka isithombe?
Okokuqala kufanele uhlole ukuthi yiziphi ozizwa ukhululekile ngazo, lapho, ngokuphambene nalokho, akukhathazeki. Khona-ke siqala ubuciko bethu, okuyinto, njenge-bore, eyenza umgodi ebunzini bokuziqonda kwethu futhi iphule ngokusebenzisa ama-stereotypes, ifinyelela emandleni ethu okugeleza, futhi kanye nayo siyaphuma emingceleni yombono wokuzibona nsuku zonke.
Qhathanisa wena nezinhlangano ezintsha. Yenza izinhlangano nezinto, izilwane, izenzakalo zemvelo, abanye abantu. Isithombe ngasinye esisha sandisa ulwazi lwamakhono akho kanye nokubonakaliswa kwakho. Inqubo yokujula ibe "I" eyedwa iqala ngokusebenza kwe-intuition, ngokuvamile evame ukukhombisa ukuthi umthombo ukhona kuphi.
Konke lokhu kuzosiza ukuzihlola wena ngaphandle kwe-hypostases ehlukile. Ngaphambi kwakho uzobona umuntu omusha ngokuphelele.
Uma usuqedile indima yakho, okungukuthi, ukwazi ngokwakho, kuzoba lula ngawe ukuthi uqale ukufunda ngabanye. Kuyasiza kakhulu futhi kuyathandeka ukwazi abantu.
Ngabe unomsebenzi onjani manje?
Ngamunye wethu uye waba yisikhathi sokuqhathanisa. Masixoxe ngezithombe eziningana zamantombazane ezinokwenzeka.
I-Predator: "Nginjengengonyamakazi, ngihlala ngilabo abaqamekeleyo, futhi phambi kwami sidlula izimbuzi, izinkunzi, izimvu, izinkukhu zokukhwabanisa, ugxume onogwaja kanye nama-cocks oduma. Ngizizwa - maduzane ukuzingelwa kuzoqala! ".
Uhlukumezekile: "Mina, unomusa, ohlotshiswe kahle, uzungezwe ngama-slobbering, abesilisa abalambile, befisa ukumbona, futhi bangangisebenzisa ngami ngaphansi kohlelo olugcwele, ngisho nhlobo-ukuba badle."
Ukufanisa kungenziwa kuphela ezweni lezilwane. Izinto ezisizungezile zibuye zisenze sicabange futhi senze izinhlelo zethu zemisebenzi.
Lapha, isibonelo, indaba yentombazane eyayifuna ukulahla umlutha wayo ku-gigolo. Wayecabanga ukuthi inhliziyo yakhe yayiyi-casket lapho, ngokusobala, ukukhathazeka nothando kufanele kugcinwe. Esikhathini esidlule, isikhwama sasigcwele, kepha manje, lapho impilo yentombazane inomfana omubi ovula njalo amapayipi akhe angcolile ebhokisini, uvele "ahlume" ngonya. Kodwa uma kuvela umfana omuhle, intombazane kuyodingeka ibuyisele ingcebo yayo isikhathi eside, ihlanze i-casket of impurity.
Kungenzeka ukwenza ukufaniswa okuqhathaniswayo. Cabanga ukuthi umzimba wakho iyindebe okumelwe ingabi nalutho ukuze indoda yangempela ingayigcwalisa yona. Uma unquma ukuthi insizwa yakho yamanje ayikho konke ongathanda ukukubona ku-ekahle, phuma emkhatsini wakho wonke ama-viscous, stale, spoiled, okuphazamisayo, okulimazayo, okulimazayo. Ngokuvamile, susa konke ongakuthandi. Khipha indawo yesiphuzo esiphundu esisha, okungukuthi, kumuntu ongakujabulisa.
Ufuna ukuba yikuphi?
Ngemuva kokuthola ukubonakala kwendima yakho yamanje, ziphendule kumbuzo: unelisekile yini kuwe? Uma kungenjalo, vumela ukuba uphuphe kancane.
Kungenzeka ukuthi indima yesisulu ufuna ukushintsha indima yesidalwa. Mhlawumbe isilwane kufanele sibe negazi elincane. Mhlawumbe ukhathele ukuphuzwa njalo, ukukhishwa, udliwe, unganikeli lutho ngokubuyisela.
Cabanga ngesithombe lapho ungase ube umthombo ongapheliyo, noma uvume kuphela kuphela okufanelekayo, ukwanelise izidingo zakho futhi ukwazi ukwenza lokho akuthathe kuwe.
Khumbula izindabakwane zezinganekwane nemifanekiso, uzitholele indawo. Ngikholelwa, lokhu kuwumsebenzi othakazelisayo futhi owusizo kakhulu!
Qiniseka ukuthi ukhululekile ngemifanekiso emisha, ukuze bakhuthaze ukuba ufeze imigomo yakho.
Uhlobo luni lwesilwane?
Njengoba uziqonde wena, ungaqhubeka namadoda.
Yiziphi izithombe zesilisa eziphikisana nathi?
Asinasithakazelo kumadoda, okungafaniswa nesifo somdlavuza, ugundane, i-acid enokushisa, izithelo ezibolile, njll. Asinasithakazelo kumadoda adle futhi aphuze ngaphandle kokulandelela. Asinasithakazelo kubabhubhisi nabangcolisi. Asifisi iziphepho, izivunguvungu, ukuzamazama komhlaba nezinye izinhlekelele zemvelo ezimbi. Asinasithakazelo ezintsheni nasezinhlungwini, omiyane kanye nezimpukane ezicasulayo, ama-penguin angenangqondo kanye onogwaja abesaba.
Yini esiyidingayo ngempela? Ubani umuntu wethu angase abukeke?
Ungaba ngumnqobi ohloniphekile, umkhonto noma umgijimi onqoba izintaba. Ungaba yingonyama ehlale ekulungele ukusinxusa. Angaba inyosi, okusho ukuthi, emva kokudla umpe wethu, akusigcini nje ngokusilimaza, kodwa futhi usinika uju, esingayidla. Sizosondeza izintuthwane ezinzima, ama-square squirrels nama-hamsters, izindlovu ezinamandla nezokuthula, namakamela aqinile. Indoda ingaba injini, isisindo sokuhamba, amasondo kanye nokuqhuma okusebenza ngokuphenduka okubukhali. Futhi ikhompuyutha eneprosesa enamandla engenawo ukuhlukumeza ngokweqile kanye ne-pragmatism nayo inhle.
Ngokomqondo kaFreud, isimiso samadoda senzelwa amafomu e-phallic, okungukuthi, "ama-protuberances", abesifazane ezisezintweni nasezintweni ezizungezile, okungukuthi, "ezinhlobonhlobo". Lokhu kuvumela ukuthi ubuciko bakho bube ukuxilongwa okuningi.
Endabeni uma ikusasa elikhethiwe likubona ngendlela yezintaba eziphezulu ezingalondoloziwe, lokhu kusho ukuthi ufuna indoda enobuso obucacile. Uma kufana nombhede oshisayo oshisayo, udinga insizwa elula futhi elula.
Ngemuva kokunquma izithombe zakho (owesilisa nowesilisa), qiniseka ukuthi usungula inganekwane. Ungathatha indaba edumile. Lokhu kuzokusiza ukuletha ukushintshashintsha kwenkinga ebuhlotsheni, ukudala ngaphakathi kwakho indima yokudlala, okuyinto ezingeni elingenalutho elizokhetha ukufanisa noma ukungahambisani nalowo muntu kwiskripthi sakho.
Ngama-clich-play-play, ngicabanga, kuyaqondakala. Mayelana ne-dynamic simo ngizochaza. Sibhekisela kuzo izinyathelo zokuthuthukiswa kwesithombe (ama-pawns enkosini) kanye nomkhuba walokhu kuthuthukiswa (akuwona wonke ama-pawn angaba yinkosi) Ama-pawn amaningi alahleka futhi aphenduke izibalo ezingasebenzi. Abanye bangase bahlale enkundleni, kodwa ngemuva kokugubha ekhoneni futhi bahlale endaweni efile, baba izibalo ezingenalutho.
Khetha indima wena futhi ujabule!