Uthi cha? Khona-ke ugqoka nobani nsuku zonke? Kungani lezi izithende eziphakeme, lapho i-caviar iyancipha khona? Kungani abesifazane banezimonyo zezimonyo kanye nebutho lama-stylists nama-makeup abaculi? Yini amadoda ayakwazisa kwabesifazane? Futhi kungani kufanele sikwazi ngalokhu?
Okusho ukuthi, lo wesifazane wenza kuphela ngenxa yabantu.
Ngalokho? Ukuze siqonde ukuthi yini amadoda ayakwazisa kithi, senza ucwaningo phakathi kwamadoda ahlukene nobudala obuhlukene. Futhi yilokho esinakho.
Ekuboneni kuqala, emhlanganweni wokuqala, indoda ihlola umzimba wesifazane. Ngakho-ke, wonke owesifazane ohlakaniphile, ephupha ngenjabulo yabesifazane, kufanele njalo aqaphele isibalo sakhe futhi azigcine ehle. Futhi, amantombazane avunyelwe ukusebenzisa imisebenzi evinjelwe. Efana nokuthi, amahlombe wehlisiwe we-dress, the neckline. Kubantu, lezizinto ezincane zibhekwa njengezocansi kakhulu. Abantu bayakwazisa futhi bathande abesifazane besifazane kanye nokukwazi ukujabulela injabulo yomzimba wabo.
Kodwa, ngaphezu kokubukeka ngokocansi, ubuhle nesimo esihle, amadoda ayazisa abesifazane abathandekayo. Ukuthi kungase kusekele ingxoxo, ikakhulukazi esihlokweni semidlalo yezocansi.
Amadoda athanda izindebe zabesifazane. Izindebe zowesifazane iyisitho esithakazelisayo kunazo zonke emzimbeni wesifazane. Ngicabanga ukuthi kungani. Izindebe zakho kufanele zilungiswe kahle, ungakhohlwa mayelana nezindebe zezingubo ezihlanzekile. Kumele kuqashelwe ukuthi amadoda afisa ukubheka izindebe zabesifazane, ehlanganiswe ne-glitter. Kodwa, ngeshwa, abafuni neze ukumanga lezo zindebe.
Abaningi bakholelwa ukuthi izinduna zikhetha ama-blondes. Konke kuyize. Amadoda ayithandi ama-blondes, kodwa amantombazane aqhakazile abonakala ekubukeni kwawo esixukwini esibucayi.
Amadoda ayakwazisa futhi abathanda labo besifazane, okwamanje ngenkathi yobufazi, abakhohlwa ukuthi bangabesifazane. Amantombazane kumele abe abesifazane, angabi njengezilwane eziphakathi kwe skirt.
Amantombazane, ungalingisi umAmerica, vumela lo muntu akhokhele ekudleni, ikakhulukazi uma efuna ngempela.
Amadoda ayakwazisa kakhulu labo besifazane abazizwa bekhululekile lapho behlala nabangane bakhe. Uma engakwazi ukusekela ingxoxo ngezihloko zamadoda kuphela - uyigugu kumuntu wakhe kuphela. Owesifazane onjalo indoda iyoziqhenya, iyakubonga futhi ithande.
Intombazane enesibindi ngomuntu yilabo abathanda futhi bayakwazisa umzimba wakhe. Uyazi ukuthi unamaphutha ngesimo sephepha le-orange esilwaneni noma ngesisu esincane, kodwa ngesikhathi esifanayo, akanandaba ukungcwaba phambi komthandekayo wakhe.
Ufuna ukwazi ukuthi yini amadoda engayithandi kwabesifazane? Ukungqubuzana. Intombazane echitha amahora ekuvumelaneni nomamukeli wocingo futhi etshela abangane bayo yonke imvelaphi - yesaba noma yimuphi umuntu.
Amadoda ayakwazisa lapho owesifazane engathokozi ngabahlambalazi, lapho owesilisa oqinile "cha" eyozwa u-whim olandelayo.
Amadoda ayakwazisa abesifazane ukuzinikela kumlingani wabo. Abesilisa abatholi ukuthethelela ukungathembeki kwabesifazane, ngoba kubo kunzima kakhulu ngokomzwelo.
Amadoda acabanga ukuthi ngemva kokushada, uzoba u-fat fat nezinwele zezinwele ekhanda lakhe. Ukuthuthukiswa kwabo kobudlelwane kusabisa kakhulu. Amadoda ayakwazisa futhi abathanda abesifazane ukuthi banesifiso sokuhlale behlelekile futhi behle, ngisho noma indandatho eyigugu isivele isemunwe wakhe.
Into yokugcina amadoda ayithokozisa kwabesifazane iyimfihlakalo. Amantombazane, ungaguquli incwadi efundwayo, njalo ujabulise kumuntu wakho.