Ubuhle obunye obungaphandle abukwenele ukudukisa indoda, kubalulekile ukuba nobuhle ngaphakathi, kungakhathaliseki ukuthi kubonakala kungenangqondo kanjani. Kodwa kuyakhangeka okuheha abantu. Isivivinyo asikho ukudukisa, kunzima kakhulu. Indlela yokwenza ukuze afune ukukufeza, aphuphe futhi acabange ngawe kuphela? Isayithi lethu lizonika ezinye izincomo zokuthi ungamlingisa kanjani umuntu.
Ungalokothi ukhohlwe ukuqapha ukubukeka kwakho nawe ngokwakho
Ukulungiswa kahle kuphela, ukuhogela okumnandi kanye nabesifazane abagqoke kahle bangabheka abantu. Uma unquma ukudukisa indoda - qaphela yonke into encane yokubukeka kwakho, yonke imininingwane ibalulekile. Ukuzijabulisa - ungasetshenzisiwe ukuphuma endlini ngaphandle kokuqabula ubuso bakho ngokuphazamiseka okuncane noma ngaphandle kokunikeza ukucabangela emehlweni akho. Akudingekile ukusebenzisa i-palette yonke yemibala yabo, kodwa ngisho nokukhanya akukwesabi muntu. Bheka izandla zakho bese ubukela umuthi womzimba - uyazi ukuthi izandla zingatshela okuningi ngomfazi. Gqoka isitayela, ungadluli izambatho zakho nezesekeli, khetha ngokucophelela yonke imininingwane esithombeni sakho. Ungakhohlwa ngokubheka ubuso, izinwele nokukhishwa kwezinwele - lezi zinqubo kufanele zibe njalo, njengokuxubha amazinyo akho. Sebenzisa ama-perfume kufanelekile futhi ngobuningi obufanele. Ungakhohlwa ukuthi amafutha kufanele afane nemvelo yakho futhi anikeze umuzwa wenduduzo. Buka izicathulo zakho nezingubo zakho - kufanele zibe nesimo esiphelele. Gcina imhlane yakho iqonde, ngisho noma sekupheleni kusihlwa uzizwa sengathi konke ukukhathala kuhlezi ngemuva kwakho. Akukho lutho olujabulisayo emehlweni ensizwa egobekile.
Ukuba sexy kuyindlela efanele yokudukisa indoda
Yiba nesibindi - vula ingxenye yomzimba wakho. Akuyona into edingekayo yokuziveza ngokukhululekile, kodwa ngaphakathi kohlaka olufanele futhi endaweni efanele, ngesikhathi esifanele ngeke kulimale. Iziketi ezifushane kanye ne-neckline ejulile ngeke kuyenze ube sexier kunokuba ufake i-pencil skirt kuze kufike emadolweni nge-neckline ephezulu noma i-blouse ngaphansi kwentamo yakho, kodwa uhlambala amahlombe akho. Ukubamba umlenze emininingwaneni yezocansi oyifunayo, yenza isenzo esingabonakali lapho umuntu okhanukile ebuka wena: ubeke unyawo lwakho emlenzeni wakho, futhi uvumele isandla sakho sihlale esikhwameni sakho. Ukubukeka kwalowo muntu kuzolandela isandla sakho futhi, ngokunaka ingubo ehlanganiswe ingubo, kuyoqagela iphethini lezingubo zangaphansi zangaphansi noma izinqola. Emva kwalokho, indoda izohlala iphupha ngawe, futhi ukucabanga ngendlela ephumelela kakhulu yokudukisa indoda.
Kodwa ubulili bakho buzogcizelela hhayi kuphela ikhono lokugqoka kahle, kodwa futhi neminye imininingwane: ukuziphatha, imikhuba, ukuthobeka kanye nesigcawu sezwi, ukumomotheka, ububele kanye nokunyakaza okubushelelezi.
Yiba ngunomusa, kodwa ungafaki umfanekiso wesincane esingafinyeleleki. Ukudlala ngothando kalula nokuvuleka kokuxhumana kwenza i-interlocutor.
I-seducing, ihlale isifazane
Abanikazi bezinwele ezinde babe nezinzuzo ngaphezu kwezintombi zabo - phakathi kwezinye izinto, uthola amaqhinga amancinzana amancane: ugoqa umunwe ngomunwe, flip izinwele zakho away. Ngokuqinisekile, izinwele zilokhu zihlotshaniswa nobufazi.
Zama ukugqoka izingubo kanye neziketi - lezi kuphela izinto zokugqoka zezingubo zabesifazane, ngakho-ke kungani ulahlekelwa injabulo yokuba ngumfazi kanye nomqoqo wemibono yabantu? Uma ukhetha ukuba ngowesifazane - zama ukuba ngale ndlela kuze kube sekupheleni: ungasho ukungahlambalazi, ungafungi njengesihlangu, ungaphuzi iziphuzo "zamadoda": ubhiya, i-vodka.
Hlala umvelo futhi uzizuzise phezulu
Ukuzama ukuba ngowesifazana ne-sexy ngento eyodwa akwanele, kufanele ukhohlise njalo, ujwayele lesi sithombe! Ngokwemvelo, ukuguqulwa okuvela "emulenzeni" emoyeni we "Insizakalo Yesevisi" ngeke kudlulele kuwe, ulungiselele, nokho "umdlalo ufanele lelikhandlela." Ungakhohlwa ukuthi ngokudukisa indoda, kufanele uqhubeke uhlala umhle, uthakazelisa futhi ufisa sonke isikhathi, ngaphandle kwalokho ngeke ukwazi ukugcina, kungakhathaliseki ukuthi uzama kanzima kangakanani.
Hlala uhloniphekile futhi wazi ngokwakho intengo, amadoda ngokuqinisekile alalele owesifazane onomuzwa wokuzibheka, uzibonele ngokwanele. Vumela lo muntu evule umnyango kuwe, akhokhele esitolo sokudlela, akukhathalele. Zizwe njengowesifazane wangempela eceleni kwakhe, makabe ngumlindi onesihawu.
Okokuqala, yiqiniso, funda ukuthanda nokuzihlonipha wena, khona-ke amadoda ayojabula futhi ukukuphatha. Zizenzele ngezindlela ezijabulisayo: uthenge ingubo entsha enhle, uzidle ngokudla okunomsoco, ungene endlini yokugezela nge usawoti namafutha. Zihlele izinsuku zokuhle: vakashela ama-salons, faka izinwele zakho enkosini, vumela ubuso bakho kuthathwe ngabachwepheshe. Ukuphumula futhi uthole ukulala ngokwanele, ujabulele ukuphila. Ungakhohlwa ukuthi ufanelwe kuphela okungcono kakhulu.
Flirt, ukudlala
Ukudlala ngothando kuyindlela enhle yokudukisa indoda. Ukudlala ngothando, awugcini nje ukumkhohlisa, kodwa futhi uphakamise ukuzethemba kwakho, ngaleyo ndlela ube okukhangayo nakakhulu nakwezocansi. Amadoda adlala futhi athanda "ukudlala ngothando" nabesifazane. Ukubukeka okungajwayelekile, ukumamatheka kwethenda, ukuthinta okubonakala kungenacala - futhi nangu mdlalo. Ngaphandle okungaqondakali, kodwa phakathi kwakho kakade uxhumano oluqinile. Abachwepheshe basikisela ukuthi bangasebenzisa kanjani okuthiwa "magnetic" look: bhekani ehlombe lomuntu wakho ibanga, ubuke amehlo akhe - ngakho abafundi bakho bazothuthukisa ekugxileni into esondelene nayo, ngakho-ke uzofeza ukubukeka kwamagnetic. Ukudlala ngothando, ungakhohlwa ukubonisa isithakazelo sangempela kumuntu, umlalele ngokucophelela. Kubantu, kubaluleke kakhulu ukuzwa ukuthi "bamlalele", baphuthelwe amazwi akhe. Ngakho-ke, qotho naye, umuntu ngeke akwenze ulinde ukuhlola intshisekelo yakho. Ngezinye izikhathi amanye amadoda afana nawo uma umlingisi "ephila" izindaba zakhe futhi esebenzisa amagama akhe siqu engxoxweni, ukhuluma ulimi olufanayo naye. Kodwa ungadluli! Kunoma yikuphi, masizikhulule nawe, ube "ngowakhe", ngakho-ke ukuthintana kungasungulwa futhi ufezekisa indawo yakhe.
Yenza kahle
Uma ufuna ukudukisa umuntu - bonisa isinyathelo sakho. Khumbula: ukuqala kobudlelwane "umdanso omhlophe", indoda angeke ibe ngowokuqala ukukhombisa inkambo yezenzakalo. Kuze kube yilapho umvumela ukuba akwenze. Indodana yangempela iyomtshela umuntu uma isinyathelo esilandelayo singathathwa. Lokhu kuyisisekelo saleso sinyathelo! Thumela kuye, wink, ngobumnene futhi njengokungathi uthinte ngephutha isandla sakhe - lokhu kuzomchaza ukuthi uyamvumela ukuba aqhubeke ethinta. Msize aqagele izifiso zakho, amadoda akulula kakhulu ukubhekana nemigqa yakho.
Iseluleko esinikezwe lapha sizokusiza ukuba uqonde indima futhi ube ngowesifazane okhangayo futhi oyithandekayo, ukuba ube iphupho lomuntu. Qala wena ngokwakho, ushintshe isimo sakho sengqondo, futhi uzobona ukuthi abantu "bayolungiswa" kanjani - ubonakala ubamba umvuthwandaba owodwa. Ufuna ukukhohlisa - abe nguye.