Khumbula ukubhala izinombolo ephepheni noma ephepheni elingasetshenzisiwe futhi engafaneleki. Uma unekhadi lebhizinisi, le ndoda ngeke ililahle, futhi umphikisi wakho, uma etholakala, ngeke amthinte, ngoba uzocabanga ukuthi yilokho okwenzekayo. Khumbula, hhayi zonke izintombazane zinikeza ikhadi lebhizinisi futhi yingakho indoda ingeke ikukhohlwe.
Yebo, uma uhlezi, futhi indoda yakho ingakabizanga kanjalo, zibize. Mhlawumbe wamangala kangangokuthi akazange alinge ukukubiza. Shayela futhi uthi lena yintombazane eyashiya ibhizinesi lakhe lebhizinisi. Futhi uzizwe ukhululekile ukumemema kuqala ukuba adle. Uma uhlangana, tshela ukuthi ujabula kakhulu ukumbona futhi mhlawumbe ikhadi lakho lebhizinisi lizoshintsha impilo yakho yonke yesikhathi esizayo.
Yiqiniso, ukujwayele kakhulu edilini nabangani, kahle uma udla ezokuthutha noma endaweni yomphakathi, futhi umthanda ngempela lo muntu. Lapha futhi uzosizwa ikhadi lebhizinisi lakho, onakho esikhwameni sakho. Hamba futhi ujwayelane nomuntu oyithandayo bese ushiya ikhadi lakhe lebhizinisi ngenombolo yocingo. Futhi uthi uzobheka phambili ucingo lwakhe.
Njengoba kwaphawulwa izazi zengqondo, lapho owesifazane efika kumuntu futhi ngokungalindelekile ukuthi ushiya ibhizinesi lakhe lebhizinisi ngenombolo yocingo bese ethi, mbize, amagama akhe azwakala sengathi unomsindo. Uma ufunda ngokucacile futhi ngokuphefumula owodwa kuthiwa la mazwi, kholwa mina, injabulo yakho ngeke ikudlule.
Kukhona esinye isizathu sokuthi kungani kufanele ube nekhadi lebhizinisi lakho. Nansi into, amadoda amaningi aphumelelayo futhi aqinile, efunda omagazini abesimfashini baqiniseka ukuthi owesifazane udinga imali yakhe kuphela. Futhi ukuthi yena kubo akameli lutho njengomuntu.
Ukugwema umbono onjalo udinga ikhadi lebhizinisi. Ngempela, uyini ikhadi lebhizinisi lakho? Ukuba nekhadi lebhizinisi ungabonisa futhi uzibonakalise kumuntu wakho ukuthi ungumuntu ophephile futhi onokwanele ongadingi lutho, akabheki amahholo kanye nezindlela ezilula. Kholwa, uma uqonda lokhu, indoda yakho izokwenza konke okusemandleni ukuhlala njalo nawe. Futhi inkambo eqhubekayo yobuhlobo bakho iyoxhomeke ngokuphelele kuwe. Uma ungowesifazane ohlakaniphile ungayigcina ekhoneni lakho.
Kodwa wena udinga kuphela ikhadi lomuntu wakho konke lokhu. Ngakho kungani ungayitholi, ngoba nakanjani ngeke ikulimaze.