Ukuzithiba kungalinganiswa nokushisa kwenjini yemoto. Uma iphansi kakhulu, ukunyakaza kuzophuza, uma kuphakama - kungakwazi ukumelana nomthwalo. Yini izinzwa zakho ezibonisa?
Izwa izinga elihlaza okwesibhakabhaka - izinga elincishisiwe lokuzithiba
Unzima kanzima, noma cha ngaso sonke isikhathi ukudla kwamazinyo, izikhathi zokugcina, ukuqeqesha okuvamile kanye neminye imisebenzi efuna izimangaliso zokuqondisa. Konke lokhu kuhambisana nomqondo wecala, ukwehla kokuzihlonipha kanye nomzwelo wokuntuleka kwenkululeko ngokuphelele, isibopho esingunaphakade salowo muntu (kokubili kubo kanye nabantu).
Kungani kunjalo? Iningi lezimpilo zalabo abasendaweni engamashumi amathathu, abalawulwa ngabanye abantu - othisha (kubantu abasha lesi sitatimende siphuthuma nakakhulu). Abambalwa kithi abanikeze igunya elanele lokufunda ukwenza izinqumo ngokwabo, ukulawula ukuziphatha kwabo nokuphatha ngokugcwele lokhu. Futhi into eyinhloko ukuthola injabulo kule nqubo, hhayi ukuhlupheka ngenxa yokuzisola, njalo esaba ukujeziswa. Ugxila engalungile: okokuqala ucabanga ngalokho okuzolahlekelwa khona uma uhlala ngendlela ehlelekile futhi enokwethenjelwa ("kuyoba yinto enhle futhi kungekhona ngokuzenzakalelayo", "abantu abaphumelelayo banesizungu", "Angizange ngibe nesikhathi sokuzijabulisa"), futhi awushintshi eyodwa yengane, baqhubeke behlala ezinkingeni ezingavamile noma ezingavamile futhi bezwa imizwa engafanelekanga ("futhi bayomangala", "Ngikhathele," "Angikaze ngifinyelele ku-44 ubukhulu"). Uyesaba ukwehluleka futhi uphile ngesimiso sokuthi "konke noma lutho": "Ukungahlehlisi isisindo ngo kg", "akukho phuzu ekuhlehliseni ama-ruble angu-500 ngesonto", "nesmeslisa uhlanganyela engxenyeni yehora ngosuku." Kodwa-ke, kuzinyathelo ezincane ukuthi le ncazelo iphetha.
Ungayilungisa kanjani?
Ucabanga ngokulahlekelwa yimpumelelo nokuhlelekile? Cabanga kangcono lokho abayithola! Imaminithi embalwa yokuhlelwa kwansuku zonke (ukuhlanganisa uhlu lwamacala) kuzokhulula amahora wemisebenzi oyikhonzile, ukudumisa esikhundleni sokuzibeka eceleni kuzoqinisa umphumela (kanye nohlu lwemigomo okudingekile ukuhlanganisa uhlu lwezikhuthazo ezilula).
Uyesaba ukwehluleka? Hlonipha i-biography yezinkanyezi futhi uthole kuzo zonke izibonelo eziningi zenhlanhla. Awazi yini ukuthi uzohlupheka ngani? Khumbula amazwi ajabulisayo wabantu abanesibindi futhi ushintshe "ukuhlupheka" ezimweni owadunyiswa ngumuntu onenjongo ngempela (hhayi isihlobo, umngane, umeluleki).
Ngempumelelo ngayinye elandelanayo (encane kunazo zonke) ekuzitholeni uzokuzethemba ngokwengeziwe, okusho ukuthi uzokwazi ukwenza izinyathelo zangempela.
Inzwa yombala obomvu - izinga elidlulele lokuzithiba
Uhawukela osebenza nabo nabangane: ngehora ungakwazi ukulungisa ukuthi bangaki abanye abangenawo isikhathi ngesonto. Emnyuziyamu we-anthropological, kungaba umbukiso omuhle we-homo disciplinus. Ngakolunye uhlangothi lwengxabano enjalo kunzima ukuphumula, izinhlungu ezingenakwenzeka ezingxenyeni ezahlukene zomzimba. Ukhona emagceni amakhulu kakhulu we-psyche nobuqotho ukuthi lesi yisikhathi sokuziqhenya, hhayi ukukhathazeka.
Kungani kunjalo?
I-Te6e iyaqonda amagama athi "kufanele", "kufanele", "manje", "hhayi". "Cishe awuqondi:" Angikwazi "," ukhathele "," Ngifuna ". Angijwayele ukubonisa okuningi, buza imibuzo "kungani" futhi "kungani", ungenza kahle kusuka kocingo kuze kwasemini. Cishe, emndenini wakho othile wayeyinkinga enkulu, futhi wayenezizathu zakhe. Futhi ubona injongo yokuphila ekunqobeni izinkinga. Ukuhlela kanye nemisebenzi yonke emaminithi (cishe, ngisho nokuphumula nokuhlela nokuhleleka) kunika umuzwa wokulawula nokuvikeleka - akukho okungazelelwe okwenzekayo (nakuba kungenjalo, kodwa ukucabanga). Ngaphezu kwalokho, ukuphazamisa kuzothuthukisa ukucabangela, futhi awukhululekile ngalesi simo. Mhlawumbe kubaluleke kakhulu ukuthi ungacabangi ngokuthile okungajabulisi okwenzekile kuwe.Mhlawumbe, ujabule ngokuphila futhi ukhethe ngamabomu ukuvutha, futhi ungapheli kancane. Njengokungathi ungasoleki ukuthi phakathi kwezinguquko ezimbili kukhona namanje "ukushisa" futhi "ukufudumala" ", Ukujabulisa umuntu ngomfudumalo nobuhle balesi simbukiso.
Ungayilungisa kanjani?
Iqiniso liwukuthi i-homo disciplinus igxile kakhulu ekufakeni izifo kanye nezifo ezinezimpawu ezingavamile. Futhi ukuphatha izifo ezinjalo, zisiza kakhulu ukuyeka okuphazamisayo, lapho, ebusweni bompilo wakho ohleliwe, izindawo zokuphulukisa zokuqwashisa nezimpendulo zemibuzo "kungani" kubonakala kungazelelwe. Ungenzi okwesikhashana okwakho - umzimba we-podkinetvnezhny ozibandayo, ubuhlungu obungaqondakali. Ubunzima bukhona nokuthi iqiniso lakho livunyiwe kakhulu emphakathini wanamuhla, futhi bambalwa abantu abathandeki kulowo wesifazane ophumelelayo, onamandla. Uma ufunda ukuphumuza futhi ukwazi ukuvumela izinto ukuba zihambe zodwa, uzoya eqenjini elithile eliphakathi - i-homo idealis.
Inzwa engenalutho-izinga elivamile lokuzithiba
Uyazi ukuthi ungabuthana kanjani uma kudingekile (umndeni, ibhizinisi, impilo), kodwa awuyikuguqula impilo ibe yisibindi nokulwa. Uyakwazi ukuthi konke kungumuntu ophilayo, ngakho-ke amathuba akho ayalinganiselwe, kodwa ngezinye izikhathi amaphiko akhula.
Kungani kunjalo?
Ngokusemthethweni, leli cala ngentsana ejabulisayo, njengoba kwakunjalo banal etony ezwakalayo: eceleni kwakho, ngokuqinisekile, kwakukhona umuntu onokwethenjelwa futhi onesibindi, okuvumela ukuba ubonise ukuzimela okuphezulu kokwazi kwezwe, ubudlelwane nabantu kanye nawe, kodwa ngesikhathi esifanayo bekulungele ukusekela. Kukhona futhi amathuba ukuthi le mfanelo ebalulekile oyitholile enkambweni yokuphila, kodwa lapha kwakungekho uthisha omuhle, isibonelo. Uyazi ukuthi ngezinye izikhathi kubalulekile ukwenza okudingekayo, hhayi okufunayo. Kodwa akubalulekile ukuthi ulandele izifiso ngezikhathi ezithile. Uyakwazi ukuthi ngomsebenzi omkhulu futhi unqobe ubuvila obuvamile bomuntu ufanelwe umvuzo, ukuthi kwakuyisinqumo sakho samahhala, hhayi isikhathi eside, futhi ulungile, ngoba wenze lokho.
Ukuvimbela
Ungesabi ukuthi impilo izolahlekelwa ukudweba kwayo, stavrasplanirovannoy, igcwele izibopho kanye nesimiso. Ngokombono wakho, konke lokhu kungaletha injabulo, hhayi nje kuphela ukususa amandla nokuphatha isimo sengqondo. Isondlo esingcono kakhulu sokuvimbela izinga eliphilile lokuzithiba yilona ukuhunyushwa kokuhlangenwe nakho kwakho endaweni enezingqimba (abangane, ozakwabo) noma isiqondiso esiqondile (izingane). Ukugqugquzela abanye ngendlela yokuphila enempilo nokuziqhenya ngokufanele, ugcina umqondo.