Abantu abaningi emphakathini wethu abanamathemba kakhulu ukuthi amadoda kuphela angaba isithembu futhi abesifazane abakhathaleli. Qedela izinto ezingenangqondo! Iplanethi enhle ingaba isithembu.
Kungenzeka ukuthi uhlangane noma wazi nentombi, intombi intombazane intombazane - ongakwazi ukuhlangana noma ukuhlangana isikhathi eside nabalingani ababili noma ngaphezulu. "Isimo se-Snow White" kuze kube yimanje - into ejwayelekile.
Isithembu sesifazane, kuye ngokuthi owesifazane ngamunye, ingahlukaniswa ibe yizinhlobo ezintathu.
Uhlobo lokuqala " umthandi womqoqo. " Lolu hlobo luyathokozisa nje ukuthi akanalo, kodwa abalingani ababili, ukuthi izintombi zakhe ezijwayele ukuqhuma ngomona futhi ngenxa nje yokuthi ungumqambi onobuqili futhi onobuqili.
Uhlobo lwesibili " ukungabaza ". Lolu hlobo lwabesifazane lubonakala luthanda kokubili, kodwa, ngeshwa, alukwazi ukukhetha ngokuya kwesinye. Kulokhu, izibalo zibonisa ukuthi ubudlelwane obunjalo buphela esimisweni - "Ngamahabhu amabili" ...
Kulungile, uhlobo lwesithathu lwe-" predator's predator ". Uhlobo lokugcina lwesithembu abesifazane abanobuhlobo obunjalo bubala ngokubala. Laba besifazane bakholelwa ukuthi indoda ingaphezu kwe-homie eletha ubucwebe obubi, ubulili obuphezulu, iholela owesifazane ezindaweni zokudlela futhi imlethe endaweni ethile emphakathini ... Yebo, kungenzeka ukuthi umkhwenyana ungumthombo wokunakekelwa, ukunakekelwa nokuthanda . Ngeshwa, ezweni lethu, esikhathini sethu, indoda eyodwa ayikwazi ukunikeza intombazane konke okukudingayo. Mayelana nalokhu, abadlilayo bathi abantu abaningi empilweni yabo, ikakhulukazi kule nzuzo. Ngamunye wabo ulethela inzuzo yakhe - umuntu uthatha ikhefu, othile uyithatha esitolo sokudlela, futhi othile uyayithanda. Futhi ngaphezulu kwakho konke, akukho okungafanelekile kumqoqo ojwayelekile.
Kodwa ngezinye izikhathi kunesinye isithembu sabesifazane. Isibonelo, ukungahlehlisi okujwayelekile - ukuphindiselela kulo lonke uhlanga lwama-zapolamnost ... Kubonakala sengathi, kuyini okuyisisekelo? Yisiphi isiyaluyalu? Kodwa owesifazane, lokhu kuchazwa kalula kalula - lapho ezwa ukuthi indoda yakhe ethandekayo inomunye othandekayo ayehlangana naye ngokufanayo naye. Khona-ke waphula inhliziyo yakhe futhi kusukela ngaleso sikhathi "uyavuma" wonke umuntu, ukuze athole ubulili besilisa. Kungakhathaliseki ukuthi kungase kubonakale kumnandi kangakanani ngaphandle.
Noma ngabe yini ongayisho, isizathu esivame kakhulu sesithembu sabesifazane ukuthi wonke owesifazane wesifazane ufuna ukumthanda umuntu othile. Kodwa-ke, izifiso zabo ezingalawuleki ngezinye izikhathi ziwela ngaphezu "kohlaka" oluthile.
Noma kunjalo, isithunzi salendlela yokucabanga owesifazane okufanayo, isibonelo:
- Amadoda amaningi - ukumanga okungaphezulu, ubulili, izimbali, uthando, ama-dessert kuma-amathilomu kanye nama-cocktails ngemishayo.
- Kubalulekile emehlweni abo - "Anginakuvinjelwa!" - Mhlawumbe, umcabango ogqamile kunhloko yowesifazane ngale ndlela yokuphila. "Amadoda amaningi angangena ngami!" ...
- Umshuwalense - yebo, nguye ongowona. Ngakho-ke uma ukhuluma - uma impilo eyodwa isakaze imigwaqo nayo yonke eminye imigwaqo yomhlaba nomoya, kukhona umfana wesibili endaweni yokugcina okuzofudumala nokuzisola.
Nokho, ukungalungi nakho kwenza bazizwe bezwa ...
Uma unezinkabi ezimbili, udinga isikhathi esiningi kakhulu kabili! Akunjalo? Kungakhathaliseki ukuthi ujika kanjani, owesifazane akakwazi ukuhlala ezindaweni ezimbili ngesikhathi esifanayo, futhi impilo into enjalo ngelinye ilanga, kuyoba nesimo uma kudingeka.
Ukuncintisana kabili ngokwengeziwe, ngoba Amadoda asetshenziswa ngokubheka abanye besifazane, kuba izinkinga eziningi. I-dvumuzhikami kunzima ukulandela ithrekhi.
Ukuvezwa kuyingozi kakhulu isithembu. Kuyinto enzima kakhulu idumela lomfazi.
Ukuphila komqokeleli kungabalwa kwindlela elula kakhulu: ukwehluleka kanye nezithiyo - eziboshwe kumuntu oyedwa, zanda ngamanani ala madoda afanayo, kanye nenani elikhulu lezinzwa ezisetshenziswa ekufihleleni i-sirloin. Futhi amangqamuzana awabuyiselwa, ekugcineni - ukuguga kwasekuqaleni.
Ukhohlwe lutho? M, Yebo! Ngingazange ngicabange kanjani iphutha elibaluleke kunazo zonke, njenge-MINUS, i-minuscin iqondile. Zasendulo - isignali yokuziphatha. Ngoba Ukuze ube owesifazane wesithembu, kubalulekile ukuthi unganembeza nhlobo, kodwa ube nokuziqhenya okukhulu. Futhi konke lokhu kufanele kuhlanganiswe nobugovu nokuthanda okungapheli ... kuwe!
Kodwa uma ungenakukwazi ukumelana nalolu hlobo lokufeza impilo yakho, olwehliselwe emathangeni we-adrenaline nokuhlukunyezwa, khumbula imithetho emine eyisisekelo yokuqhuba isithembu:
Inombolo eyodwa yokubusa:
Ungalokothi, uzwe, ungalokothi uthole ubuhlobo namadoda avela enkampanini eyodwa esebenza enhlanganweni eyodwa, ehamba epakini elilodwa noma ebhukuda kwelinye idamu! Lokhu kuzoholela emphumela omubi kakhulu kuwe ... Futhi uma labafana abanegazi elishisayo, khona-ke omunye umuntu angase abe phansi phansi echibini.
Inombolo yesigaba ezimbili:
Ngokuvamile kubonakala kubesifazane ukuthi akekho oqaphela izingxoxo zakho "ezithule" ngefoni ngokumemeza, izinkulumo ezinjengokuthi "Masikhulume kamuva", akazinaki izipho ezingavamile ekhaya lakho ngaphambi kokuba ufunde izincwadi zakho ngeposi. Khumbula - kulezi zinto ezincane wonke umuntu ohlangabezana nazo!
Inombolo yesithathu:
Uma uqamba amanga kakhulu, khona-ke amathuba okuphakama ukuthi uzokwehliswa. Lokhu kuyisimo se-axiom. Ukuze ungabanjwa, kungcono ukushiya imibuzo bese ungasho lutho kuze kube sekupheleni. Isibonelo, ungasho ukuthi uhamba usuku lonke ukuyothenga, ngoba Kulula kakhulu ukuhlola nale ntombazane kakhulu. Kungcono ukuvuma ngobuqotho ukuthi uhambe wedwa futhi ulindele isipho sokuzalwa, kepha ngeshwa akukho lutho olufanele olutholakala.
Yebo, umthetho wokugcina:
Awudingi ukutshela abangani bakho ngempumelelo yakho ebukhosini besithembu. Kuwo wonke owesifazane ngaphakathi kwakhe ufisa ukutshela wonke umuntu nento yonke into kumuntu. Nje ukuhleba. Lokhu kuyinhloko yamantombazane. Ungethembi muntu, hhayi ngisho nezintombi ezingcono kakhulu.