Kodwa nokho, lokhu kuyimfihlakalo kunabo bonke abantu abadala izinkinga eziningi kithi, ngoba kufanele sihlale nabo ngandlela-thile. Ngifuna ukuthi basithande, bafunde, ngakho-ke sidinga ukuqonda ukuthi hlobo luni lwabesifazane abathanda abesifazane.
Embuzweni wohlu lwabesifazane abanjengebesilisa, ungaphendula ngegama elilodwa - elihlukile. Ekuboneni kokuqala, kubonakala sengathi kufanele ubanike wonke ama-blondes nge-busty enkulu, kodwa uma kunjalo, ngamaphesenti angama-95 nathi singaba madodakazi asebekhulile. Noma kunjalo, sonke sihlukile, kodwa wonke umuntu unayo, akeke umyeni, kodwa ngokuqinisekile ungumshayeli. Okokuqala, ake siqede inkolelo yalezi zimpawu ezivelele kakhulu ngesibalo se-barbie (ngithemba ukuthi amantombazane ethu enhle anezinwele ezinamaphesenti amanani angifuni).
Bathi amadoda athande amehlo. Ungasho ukuthi lokhu kuyiqiniso, kodwa amehlo abo athande ngokuphelele. Omunye uthanda izinwele ezimfushane, ama-brunette amancane, abesifazane abathile abancane abavela emidwebo kaRubens, namantombazane amade amancane avela emaphethelweni omagazini. Akunakwenzeka ukuthola ngokuqondile uhlobo lokuheha abantu abathile. Izazi zengqondo zithi indoda ifuna owesifazane ngesithombe somama nabafazi bawo sinokuthile okukhumbuza umama ebusheni babo, ososayensi bathi amadoda athambekele ekukhetheni amantombazane ahlangabezana nezidingo zabo zokuzala, amadoda athi akukhohlobo oluthile lwabesifazane, nje Abesifazane abanesihawu kubo, kodwa kukhona nalabo abangekho kahle. Kodwa into eyodwa ingashiwo ngokuqiniseka okuphelele ukuthi akukho muntu ozoyilalela intombazane engalandeli ukubonakala kwayo. Angicabangi ukuthi noma ngubani kini, amantombazane abathandekayo azongamela umuntu onobuhle, onobuhle, onamafutha aphethwe yizintambo ezibukhali kanye nokuphefumula. Okufanayo kungashiwo ngamadoda, uma owesifazane ebuka, uma lona wesifazane oqhakazile, uzokwenza umqondo ovelele kumadoda amaningi. Futhi amantombazane anamuhla anamathuba amaningi okuzenza "amaswidi." Ngandlela-thile ukunciphisa inkulumo yeCoco Chanel, singasho ukuthi uma intombazane eneminyaka engamashumi amathathu ibonakala ingalungile, khona-ke akayena umuntu onengqondo.
Kodwa ungakhohlwa ukuthi amadoda ahlola kuphela ukubukeka kokuqala, ngokusho ososayensi cishe ngemizuzwana emithathu, bese kuthi umhlaba wangaphakathi uhlolwe. Nalapha, bangaki amadoda, imibono eminingi kangaka. Abanye abantu bathanda i-bitch, i-vamp abesifazane, nabesifazane abathile abathule. Akusizi ngalutho ukuzobhala zonke izizathu zalokho okuthandwa ngabantu, ungabhala i-encyclopedia enhlobonhlobo ngale ndaba. Omunye angasho kuphela ukuthi kukhona ikhwalithi eyodwa yesifazane edingekayo kumadoda amaningi angathanda - lokhu kuwukuhlakanipha. Owesifazane ohlakaniphile uzokwazi ukuheha umuntu othanda ama-heroines wezintombi zikaJames Bond, ngisho noma ebukeka njengoMnu Marple. Ukubekezela, ubuqili besifazane, isabelo senhle futhi indoda izokulandela ekupheleni kwezwe. Abesifazane abaningi bazi amacala lapho indoda inothando, futhi kwakungenakwenzeka ukuyihudula ehhovisi lokubhalisa nganoma iyiphi indlela, bese kukhona intombazane eshade naye ngemva kwezinyanga ezimbili ngemuva kokuhlangana. Akungabazeki ukuthi bangama-superwomen, bavele babe nendlela yabo siqu. Kodwa awukwazi ukukhohlwa umuzwa ongenalwazi wothando, mhlawumbe i-Cupid ngemicibisholo yakhe kanye ne-optical sight, okuyinto ngezinye izikhathi ikhubeka, isaphila.
Ngakho-ke, madoda, njengoba kakade uke waqonda isikhathi eside kusukela ekuhlangenwe nakho kwakho kokuphila, njengabesifazane abahluke ngokuphelele, ngokusobala lokhu kuyimbono yemvelo, kungenjalo isintu sasizophela isikhathi eside. Ngakho-ke kulowo nalowo mantombazane, kufanele kube khona indoda efuna ukukulandela ekupheleni kwezwe.