Izazi zengqondo ziye zafunda imibhangqwana eminingi ejabule, futhi yamangala lapho ithola ukuthi izindawo zabo zokuphola ziyi-prosaic. Lapha, njengoba kungekho khona isimiso esithi "lapho ngalwa khona, khona futhi kwafika ngendlela efanele". Abantu abaningi bathola ikusasa labo endaweni, phakathi kwabahlobo, osebenza nabo noma endaweni yokudlela eseduze. Umlando, lapho umyeni nomfazi wesikhathi esizayo behamba ngendlela efanayo esikoleni, kodwa ngezinguquko ezihlukene, futhi abazange bawele, akuyona into engavamile njengoba ingase ibonakale.
Ngakho-ke, ake sizame ukuxuba zonke izinzuzo nezingozi zamasayithi okuthandana athandwa kakhulu.
Omakhelwane
Ukuhamba nxazonke endlini, ungahlangabezana nokuphela kwakho. Udinga nje ukuba uqaphele kakhulu abantu ohlala nabo. Izinkumbulo ezivamile, izindaba ezivamile, izindaba zesifunda, izenzakalo ezibalulekile - yilokho okwenza abantu babe yiqembu elilodwa ekuqaleni. Lokhu kungasiza ebuhlotsheni, ngoba isikhathi sokuzivumelanisa nemvelo yomphakathi senziwa ngokucacile. Ngokujwayelekile umbhangqwana ohlala endaweni yakwazi konke okuzungezile. Musa ukuchitha isikhathi ukuzama ukujabulisa abangane bakhe noma abajwayele. Ukwakha umndeni, lokhu kuyisisekelo esihle, ngakho-ke, imishado emkhatsini wabangumakhelwane bangaphambili.
Izinkampani zabangani
Ngenkampani yabangane ungakwazi ukujwayelana kalula nendoda enomndeni oqinile ongaba nawo. Abanye abantu bakhetha ngokuzikhethela indlela enjalo yokuthola umlingani, futhi bayazi iphuzu. Ngakho umphakathi uhlelekile, ukuthi ngokuvamile abantu banobungane noma isimiso sokufana, noma isimiso sokuhambisana. Futhi abangane abangani, njengombuso, bahle kakhulu kunezihambi. Ungakwazi ukuphuma nje nabangani bakho bese unaka abafowabo, odadewabo, izihlobo ngesikhathi sokuphumula, njalonjalo. Noma ungabacela nokuba bakuthole pair.
Isibonelo, umethuli odumile waseMelika uKim Kardashian wayeyindlela kuphela yokuthola bonke abantu bakhe. Umphumela: eneminyaka engu-29 ubudala wayengakaze abe nendoda isikhathi esingaphezu kwezinyanga ezintathu. Futhi abangane bamthatha ngqo labo bantu abafanelana naye kokubili emvelweni nasendleleni yokuphila. Tshela abangani bakho izidingo zakho, ukusesha, buze ukuthi bacabange ukuthi banabantu abakudingayo. Ngokungafani okungajwayelekile, uzothola isifiso esiqotho sokusiza, futhi usizo olunjalo lungakwenelisa ngempela.
Sebenzisa
Amaveli wenkonzo awavunyelwe kunoma iyiphi inkampani. Kodwa-ke, izibalo zazo ziyakhuthaza kakhulu: amaphesenti amakhulu emishado enzima futhi ezinzile iphakathi kwabalingani. Amahora ayisishiyagalombili ehhovisi izinsuku ezinhlanu ngesonto zihlangene ngezinye izikhathi zingcono kunokuvakashelwa okufishane kule ndawo yokudlela. Ngakho-ke uma ufuna umuntu ngobuhlobo obunzima, ungawushiyi umsebenzi njengomthombo wenjabulo yomuntu wesikhathi esizayo. Ungadlali ngomlilo, ungahambi emibuthaneni emithathu - nabalingani abashadile noma abodwa. Futhi uzophumelela!
Izindawo zokudlela, amaqembu
Izinkampani zabangane, omakhelwane nabasebenza nabo akuzona kuphela izindawo ongahlangana ngazo ngobuhlobo obunzima nomuntu. Izindawo zokudlela nama-nightclub, futhi, akufanele zilahlwe, kodwa nokho, ngokuphambene nenkolelo evamile, lezi zide kakhulu nezindawo eziphumelele kakhulu ukuthola ikusasa lalahlwe. Mhlawumbe lokhu kubangelwa ukuthi abantu banokubandlulula ngokumelene nabathandi bokuzijabulisa ebusuku. Mhlawumbe isizathu siwukuthi izinkampani ziya kumaqembu, futhi zivame ukubheka nxazonke, kodwa ebusuku izinkampani nezindawo zokudlela njengendawo yokuqhathanisa abashade besikhathi esizayo azikude nabantu abasha banamuhla. Kodwa ngisho nangaphezu kwendlela yokuthola indoda ngothando olude njengezindawo zokuzijwayela njengezindawo zokubhuka.
Izindawo zokuhlala kanye namabhishi
Imindeni ephumelelayo nayo ingadalwa lapha. Kuphela ithemba ngenxa yalokhu, ngemuva kokubheka inkundla yendawo yokubhuka, akudingekile. Ezimweni eziningi, ubudlelwane kude nomuzi, bubekwe eholidini, buphele nabanye. Noma kunjalo, ukuchitha le ndlela yokuphola akufanelekile. Vele ubonise ukuqina okukhulu. Thola indlela yokuthola ukuthi isoka lakho lishadile yini. Uma ufuna umuntu ngenhloso yobuhlobo obude e-resort, qaphela ukuthi uyini umuzi avela kuwo. Ngomuntu ohlala ezweni lobudlelwane ukuqhubekela phambili - esimweni sobuzwela obukhulu kakhulu kanye nokugqugquzela okunye - kulula kakhulu. Kuvela ukuthi okunye okuvela endlini nasendaweni yendawo esihlala kuyo ekusesheni kwethu, ithuba elingaphansi lokuthola ubuhlobo obunzima.
Ukuthandana ku-intanethi
Muva nje, amanethiwekhi omphakathi kanye nezindawo zokuphola ziye zaba yimithombo ejulile yemishado nemishado. Abanye bafuna ukuphola lapho ngobusuku obunye, abanye bephupha ukuthola "umlingani womphefumulo" wabo. Akufanele unqotshwe yithonya labantu abanesimo esibi futhi ucabange ukuthi kuyi-intanethi awukwazi ukuthola uthando lwakho. Lokhu kungenzeka, kufanele nje ucabange ukuthi kuphela u-2% wolwazi kumbuzo obhalwe ngeqiniso. I-intanethi yindawo ephumelele kakhulu yokuzibonakalisa njengami, kodwa njengoba ngifuna ukuba. Abantu baphishekela khona isithunzi sabo, ngaso sonke isikhathi bangabhali ngokwethembeka ngokushiyeka.
Ukuze ufune ngempumelelo umuntu ngobuhlobo obungathí sina kuyi-Internet, cabanga ngeminye imithetho ebalulekile. Okokuqala, zama ukungazitholi amazwi akhe kuze kube yilapho ubona khona. Okwesibili, khumbula konke okulotshwe ngenhla: osondelene nomuntu wendawo, amathuba okuba nobuhlobo obuphumelelayo. Ukuhamba ngothando emadolobheni angomakhelwane noma kolunye uhlangothi lomhlaba kungukuthandana, kodwa ukugcina ibanga kuwumsebenzi omkhulu, hhayi wonke umuntu olungele ukuya kuwo. Okwesithathu, bheka ithuba lokuthola ukuthi yini izinhloso zomuntu. I-Inthanethi inikeza isikhala esikhulu sokuqaphela isifiso sobudlelwane bosuku olulodwa. Kulokhu, amadoda awavumi njalo lesi sifiso. Qaphela, ungathembi amazwi angcolile, uze ubone umuntu ngokwakhe, bese nawe ungalindela impumelelo enkulu.