Pho kungani amadoda angamahloni afana namadoda? Okokuqala, lolu daba lusesithombe sabo. Amantombazane anjalo, ngokuvamile, abukeka ekhangayo futhi engenakuzivikela. Babheka amantombazane abanamehlo amakhulu, bashaya ama-eyelashes abo futhi konke ukubukeka kwabo kubonisa ukuthi badinga ukuvikelwa kanye nokusizwa kwalowo muntu omkhulu, onamandla nesibindi. Yiqiniso, amantombazane afana namantombazane, lapho wonke umuntu angazizwa njengenkosikazi. Futhi, amadoda njalo azama ukukhombisa ukuthi aqonda konke okungcono kunamantombazane. Ngakho-ke, uma eceleni kwabo kukhona amantombazane angakwazi ukubhekana nokungezelela nokukhupha, amadoda azizwa ahlakaniphile. Bathanda labo abalungele ukulalela konke abakushoyo, futhi bakholelwa wonke amagama. Amantombazane angama-silly yiwona ongakhetha kakhulu kule ndima. Ngamantombazane anjalo, ngisho nabesilisa abakhelwe izikole zokufundela bangenza njengabafundi. Amantombazane afana nazo zonke izindaba zawo, futhi okubaluleke kakhulu, akholelwa konke. Owesifazane onesizotha angenza njalo umfana azizwe njengendoda yesilisa.
Kodwa, kwenzekani uma umuntu eba ngokwanele? Yilapho ukuqala kumnandi. Uma umuntu engumuntu ohlakaniphile, ngeke aphile nale ntombazane isikhathi eside kakhulu. Eqinisweni, maduzane umzuzwana ufika uma ufuna ukukhuluma ngento ebalulekile futhi ebalulekile futhi wazi ukuthi yini othandekayo wakho akuqonda. Futhi, akuqondi nje kuphela, kodwa futhi angaveza imibono yabo, baxoxe futhi baphikisane. Uma kwenzeka inamba yentombazane engakwazi ukucabanga, ingxoxo ayisebenzi, futhi ngokuhamba kwesikhathi iqala ukuthukuthela. Leyo fragility, ubuwula nokuzikhethela kwengane, okwakuthinta ekuqaleni, iqala ukucasula nokuzilimaza. Umfana akaqondi ukuthi umuntu akakwazi kanjani izinto eziyisisekelo, uthukuthele futhi uvalo. Kanti le ntombazana ayikwazi ukuyihlisa, ngoba abancane abayiziwula bayisiphukuphuku kukho konke. Zisetshenziswa iqiniso lokuthi zikhona njalo abavikelayo abazoxazulula izinkinga zabo. Futhi uma kufanele uthathe umthwalo wemfanelo ngokwakho, laba besifazane ngokuvamile abazi ukuthi benzeni, ngoba lo mfana uyinkosi yakhe, hhayi yena. Lesi esinye sezizathu zokuthi ubudlelwane neziphukuphuku zivele ziphezu.
Futhi, amadoda kudingeka abone uhlobo lokusekelwa kumngane wokuphila. Angase angabi ohlakaniphile kakhulu, kodwa owesifazane ohlakaniphileyo noqondayo owazi ukuthi angangcolisa kanjani futhi amsize umuntu othandekayo esimeni esinzima. Owesifazane abasha abathulile abazi ukuthi benzeni, ngisho noma inkinga encane kakhulu ivela. Ekuqaleni, kuthinta abafana. Bathanda ukugcina njalo amantombazane anjalo ezinkathazweni futhi abasize kuzo zonke izinto njalo njalo. Kodwa, ngokuhamba kwesikhathi, kuyamangalisa. Indoda iphuma lapho owesifazane engakwazi ukwenza lutho ngedwa. Akafuni ukufunda noma yini, uhlale ethemba ukuthi uzoza futhi asindiswe, ngisho nalapho umsindisi nje engenawo isikhathi sokubhekana nezinkinga zakhe ezingadingekile. Uma umfana ecela okuthile okummele akwenze, umane nje usho ukuthi uyintombazane, udinga ukulungiswa futhi ahlonishwe futhi anganikezwa izinkomba. Futhi, uma intombazane eyisiwula ithatha umsebenzi, khona-ke ayisebenzi. Umfana uzobuyiselwa konke futhi kuzothatha isikhathi eside. Ngomfazi onjalo kuhle ukuchitha isikhathi ezinkampanini ezinomsindo futhi ubonise kubangani, kodwa ukuhlala impilo yomndeni cishe akunakwenzeka. Ngisho noma labesifazane bashada labesifazane abanjalo, bavame ukuthola ama-mistress abanobuhlakani nabanikezwayo abanganikeza iseluleko esihle futhi abakwazi ukukhetha kuphela i-nail polish, kodwa futhi bashintshe amasondo emotweni bese ubhala ingqikithi.
Iqiniso liwukuthi lapho efika ekhaya, wonke umuntu ufuna ukuzizwa eqiniseka futhi ekhululekile. Kodwa, lokhu akukwenzeka uma kukhona umfazi ekhaya, ongakwazi ukwenza lutho futhi akakwazi ukwenza lutho. Ufana nedoli ekhuluma. Futhi lokhu akumukeleki kumuntu ojwayelekile. Ngalokhu angase ajabule, kodwa ungakheli umndeni wangempela. Yisona isizathu esiyiphutha, empeleni, sithanda kakhulu kunabanye besifazane kubonakala. Baziqhayisa kakhulu futhi badlala, futhi uma ukungenangqondo kwabo kuqala ukucasula - bayayilahla nje. Kodwa amantombazane angamahloni awafundi lutho futhi aqhubeke nokuziphatha. Abajwayele ukukwazi ukukhetha amadoda afanele. Ngokuvamile, abesifazanekazi abanjalo, kaningi, akunandaba ukuthi yimuphi umuntu, into esemqoka ukuthi wayeyikho, kungenjalo iphela nje, ngoba akekho ozoxazulula izinkinga zakhe.
Kodwa, noma kunjalo, uma wazi ukuthi ungaphili kahle kanjani, uzoveza izithelo futhi uqinise ubuhlobo. Ngakho-ke, abesifazane abanobuhlakani nabanamandla nabo badinga ukuthi ngezinye izikhathi babe nabangenangqondo nabangenangqondo. Kodwa awudingi ukwenza lokhu njalo, kodwa ezimweni ezithile. Isibonelo, uma isoka lakho lisho okuthile kubangani, futhi uyazi ukuthi ulwazi lwamanga, ungalungisi. Kungcono ukuzenza sengathi awukwazi lutho futhi uyayisekela. Amadoda ayithandi uma esolwa ngokungahambi kahle phakathi kwamanye abantu, futhi, ikakhulukazi, uma intombazane yenza lokho. Ngakho-ke, ngezinye izikhathi, kuyasiza ukuzigcina usesandleni. Kodwa-ke, akudingekile ukuba uqinisekise wonke amagama alo, lapho umfana ekhuluma ukuhlubuka okuqondile, akudingeki ukuba uhlazeke naye.
Futhi, uma umfana ekutshela okuthile, ungazwakali njalo futhi uthi usuvele wazi konke. Lalela, bonisa isithakazelo. Ngisho noma ngabe ulwazi seluvele lwaziwa kuwe, usengenza sengathi awukwazi ukuthi uyayazi. Kubantu, lokhu kubaluleke kakhulu. Kanti futhi, vumela ukuthi ube usengozini futhi ubuthakathaka. Makuvikele. Ubuwula ngokulinganisela kuyindlela engcono kakhulu yabesifazane abahlakaniphile.