Ubuhlobo obuhle noninazala bungakwazi futhi kufanele bube khona. Zama ukuthola ulimi oluvamile nomuntu wakho othandekayo naphezu kwakho konke, ekukhulumisaneni naye, zama ukunciphisa. Kudingeka uqaphele futhi ukwenze kucace kumama wakhe ukuthi awunabo abaphikisanayo abalwela uthando lomuntu oyedwa.
Kubaluleke kakhulu ukuhlala ngokwahlukana nabazali emva komshado. Uma uhlala nabazali bomyeni wakho, khona-ke izingxabano zingenakugwemeka. Akumangalisi ukuthi basho ukuthi ngeke kube khona izinduna ezimbili endlini. Kungakabiphi, izingxabano zizoqala ukuphakama mayelana nokuthi kufanele ugeze kanjani phansi phansi nokuthi uthakazelisayo kanjani ukupheka ama-cutlets umyeni wakho nendodana kamalokazana wakho abayithandayo. Ukuphila okuhlukile sekuvele kungesizathu esibalulekile sokungabhubhisi ubuhlobo.
Ngaphansi kwezimo, kunoma yiziphi izimo, ukugxekwa nokukhononda ngomyeni wakho kumama wakhe - okungenani akucebisi ukwenza lokhu, kodwa kube yingozi kakhulu ebuhlotsheni. Ungamenze abe khona imibono phambi kwakhe. Umyeni wakho uyimpumelelo enkulu kakhulu kunazo zonke zomamazala, isithelo sokukhulelwa kwakhe. Ukumgxeka, uyamgxeka ngokungazi kabili.
Ungalokothi uqhathanise umama wakho nonina. Bangabantu abahlukile, bakhuliswa emindenini ehlukene, ngemikhuba emihle nendlela yokuphila. Umamazala wakho kufanele ayenothando futhi ahloniphe okungenani ukuthi wabeletha, wakhulela futhi wakhulisa umyeni wakho othandekayo, ongashadile noyingqayizivele. Kungenxa yakhe ukuthi kufanele ubonge ngazo zonke izimfanelo ezinhle zomuntu wakho.
Lalela iseluleko sikamamazala wakho, noma ngabe uzama ukukutshela indlela yokupheka kahle i-borscht, okungukuthi, lezo zinto ozijwayele kahle. Okokuqala, uyayazi ngempela umyeni wakho nendodana yakhe kangcono, futhi amanye amathiphu angakusiza kakhulu. Ngakho-ke indoda ayikufanisi nonina futhi ayisho: "Futhi umama ulungiselela lokhu ...", lalela iseluleko sakhe. Okwesibili, okungenani ube ngumxhumanisi omnandi futhi ukwazi ukulalela umama wendoda yakhe. Vumela ngisho nalawa macebiso ukhohlwa emaminithini amahlanu.
Ungalokothi uhilele umyeni wakho ekungavumelani kwakho noninazala. Ubani owaziyo, mhlawumbe uzoba ngumama. Ungamqothulani phakathi komuntu othandekayo futhi obalulekile empilweni yakhe yabesifazane.
Unina womyeni wakho ungumuntu obaluleke kakhulu empilweni yakho. Ungumndeni wakho omusha nomuntu ozalwayo. Zama ukufeza indawo yayo. Funda mayelana nokuzilibazisa kwakhe, ubonise isithakazelo sakhe kuzo.
Yamukela ngokubonga izipho zikamama wakhe. Futhi makube elinye i-apron noma i-poner for the hot. Into esemqoka akuyona isipho, kodwa qaphela. Zenza ngokwakho njalo izipho kumama wakhe. Vumela ukuthi bangabizi, mhlawumbe baze bazenziwe ngokwabo. Lokhu kuzobonisa ukufudumala nokukhathazeka komamazala wakho.
Khulumisana kaningi nomamazana wakho. Ukuxhumana kuvumela ukuthi kube nobuhlobo obuhle. Khuluma nomkhwekazi wakho kuphela uma udinga okuthile kuye, kodwa ukuthola nje ukuthi isimo sakhe sempilo nesimo sengqondo siyini. Intshiseko nokuhlonipha okuqotho kuyokuvumela ukuba ungangcolisi ubuhlobo nonina.
Ungagcini ukukhulumisana phakathi komamazala nomntanakho. Mema umama wakhe ukuba avakashele, ushiye izingane ngosuku lokuvakashela ugogo.
Ukuze singabhubhisi ubuhlobo nonina, sidinga imizamo yabantu abathathu: wena, umyeni wakho nonina. Yiba nesineke futhi uhlakaniphe, cabangela izintshisekelo zazo zonke izinhlangothi ezintathu: owakho, umyeni wakho noninazala. Futhi akudingeki uzibuze ukuthi ungalimaza kanjani ubuhlobo nonina.