1. Ngomfanekiso wabantu abasebasha, emva komshado, umkakho akufanele akhononde futhi amcindezele ngokukhala. Ngisho noma umfana ubusuku bonke ephuza ubhiya embhedeni phambi kwe-TV noma engaveli ekhompyutheni. Umfazi ofanelekayo akufanele akhulise izwi lakhe, afunge ngamazwi ahlambalazayo. Inkulumo yakhe kufanele ibe mnene futhi ibe mnene. Umfazi wesikhathi esizayo, ngokusho kwalabafana, futhi inhloko ayikho icala lokukhokha imali encane, ukungabi namakhaya noma ukungahloniphi kumama wakhe. Uyaziqhenya ngendoda yakhe futhi uvikela emanzini empilo.
2. Naphezu kokunciphisa nokunciphisa kwakhe, umfazi wesikhathi esizayo, ngokusho kwamadoda, kufanele abe ngumuntu. Akufanele alandele ukungafani, akufanele agxile emibonweni yomunye umuntu (ngaphandle kwalokho ngaphandle kwemibono yendoda yakhe). Esikhathini esizayo, umfazi kumele azethembe yena kanye nezenzo zakhe. Ngisho noma into engasebenzi, kufanele ilahle eceleni ukungabaza futhi iqhubeke phambili ekuphileni.
3. Umfazi wesikhathi esizayo ubona laba bantu besabisa kakhulu. Akathandi ukuyothenga, akasisebenzisi umholo wendoda yakhe embukheni wesikhumba seminki. Kodwa uma sekuyisikhathi sokuthenga, ngeke akhonze indoda naye. Unemisebenzi ebaluleke kakhulu, isibonelo, umdlalo webhola embuthanweni wabangane (ukuphuza abangane). Ukuthengwa, ngokusho kwamadoda - umsebenzi wesifazane kuphela.
4. Umfazi wesikhathi esizayo unamahloni okuba yinhlebo. Akahambisi amathambo omamazala, akakhulumi "izindaba zokugcina" nomakhelwane bakhe futhi akaxoxanga amahora efonini. Izihloko zezingxoxo zakhe ziyingqayizivele futhi engqondweni: isiteji esisha emidlalo yaseshashalazini, izitayela zakamuva zefashini ephezulu, futhi (lokho uDeveli akuphikisayo) incazelo entsha ye-Pythagoras 'theorem. Phakathi naleso sikhathi, othandekayo wakhe, akufanele ahlukunyezwe ngalokhu okungenangqondo.
5. Esikhathini esizayo, umfazi kumele ahlanganise okungahambisani nalokhu:
- ukufundela kakhulu;
- ukuba nomsebenzi ohloniphekile futhi okhokhelwayo;
- yenza umsebenzi ophumelelayo;
Futhi ngesikhathi esifanayo umsebenzi kufanele ube ngowomkakho ngemuva! Ukuphila kwakhe kuzinikezele kumyeni wakhe, izingane, imindeni yomndeni. Ngeke ashiye isilwane sakhe ngisho nezinsuku ezimbalwa, eya ohambweni lwebhizinisi. Futhi ngubani ozopheka i-borscht bese egeza amasokisi? !! !! Umfazi kufanele akhuthaze umyeni wakhe, amkhuthaze emisebenzini, asekele umshini wemoto ensimini. Futhi, yebo, uthando oluqotho!
6. Umfazi ofanelekayo kufanele abe ophelele kukho konke. Futhi okokuqala - enhle futhi ehamba nge-skating. Kumelwe azizinakekele, kodwa hhayi ngokubiza isabelomali somndeni. Akahambanga ekamelweni egqoke igqoke futhi enezinwele eziboshwe. Ihlanzekile, iyakuthandeka iphunga, ihlale ihlanganiswe futhi isakhiwe. Uqonda imfashini, ihlale ihle kakhulu futhi isebenza kahle. Kodwa ngesikhathi esifanayo angakwazi ukugqoka umdwebi omuhle wezandla nezembatho ezenziwe ngesitayela ngokwayo ezakhiweni ezitholakalayo. Udinga ukwazi lokho okuthandwa yikwethu lakhe futhi azivumelane nazo. Uma umfana ethanda ama-blondes - uzoba yi-blonde ephumelelayo kakhulu esifundeni. Owesifazane wamaphupho kufanele akhombise ngokucacile isimo esiphakeme somyeni wakhe, ngisho noma ibhamanti ebhodini lokunambitha ebusuku.
7. Kodwa-ke, owesifazane ofanelekayo akufanele abe yisisulu. Kufanele silwele ukuzifunda nokukhula ngokomoya. Funda amabhuku ahlakaniphile, ubhalise izifundo zezilimi zakwamanye amazwe, isifundo sokufunda. Kodwa ngesikhathi esifanayo ungalokothi ukhombise umuntu wakho ukuphakama kwengqondo phezu kwakhe. Kodwa ngaphezu kwabangane, osebenza nabo nomakhelwane - sicela!
8. Yini enye abantu abayibona njengomfazi esikhathini esizayo? Umfazi wangempela ukhulekela abazali bomyeni wakhe nazo zonke izihlobo zakhe ezizweni lesithathu. Ulalelisisa ezindabeni kusukela ebuntwaneni bakhe, ubheka izithombe nabantu abangajwayelekile abanentshisekelo futhi ukhumbula usuku lokuzalwa kukayisekazi wakhe.
9. Amantombazane abona umfazi ojabulayo enomuzwa wokuhlekisa. Uyathandana, unenhlalo, ujabule, akanamahloni njalo njalo, izinto, izinto.
10. Futhi isidingo esikhulu somfazi wesikhathi esizayo - kufanele athande ucansi kakhulu! Ukuze ube nesithakazelo, ukuthukuthelisa, okungaqondakali, ukuvuleka kokuhlolwa okusha (funda - amafantasy guy guy). Kodwa ngesikhathi esifanayo udla indima yenceku. Umfana kufanele abe nomuzwa wokuthi uyabaluleka, ukuze angangeni e-fiasco embhedeni. Owesifazane ofanelekayo, ngokusho kwamadoda, akufanele neze abe nekhanda.
Yilokho abesilisa abazobona esikhathini esizayo. Okhethiwe kumele abe ohlakaniphile futhi onesibindi, obunobungozi futhi obambelele, ovikelekile futhi onakekelayo. Kodwa ingabe kukhona abafazi abanjalo emvelweni? Uma zikhona, zihlangene nomuntu ojabule kakhulu emhlabeni!