Amakhosikazi aseRussia

Emakhulwini eminyaka, ukukhathazeka kuphela kwabesifazane kwakuyindlela yokuphila, ukukhuliswa kwezingane nokudala induduzo kumyeni wakhe. Labo okwadingeka baphile ngezandla zabo, bazwela noma balahlwe ngokusobala. Ngokuhamba kwesikhathi, isimo sesishintshile, abesifazane banelungelo lokuthuthukisa umsebenzi nokusebenza. Manje isimo sengqondo sabesifazane besifazane sibili. Ngakolunye uhlangothi, iqiniso lokuthi owesifazane asebenzi luphawu lokuthi umyeni wakhe unemali eyanele yokusekela umndeni wakhe. Ngakolunye uhlangothi, kubangelwa isimo sengqondo sokuzilahla engxenyeni yabangane nabangane. Amakhosikazi aseRussia cishe ayenganekwane, kunamaqiniso amaningi aphikisanayo ngawo esiwaziyo. Okuyikho nokuthi ngabe kunjalo, ake sizame ukuyihlola.

Umama womndeni.

Kukhona isigaba samakhosikazi ngenxa yokulinganisa noma ukukhuliselwa futhi namuhla ukuthi umsebenzi oyinhloko wesifazane kanye nencazelo yokuphila kwakhe ngumndeni, futhi umsebenzi uyisici sesibili sokuphila esingakhanjelwa kalula. Amakhosikazi aseRashiya abakhethile umndeni ngokuvamile aqondiswa yizinto ezinjalo.

Laba besifazane bazinikela isikhathi esiningi ekhaya, ngokuvamile badla ukupheka, ukudlala izinsimbi, bafuna izingane ezimbili noma ngaphezulu, uma isabelomali semindeni ivumela. Kulabo besifazane ukuthi umuntu angakwazi ukuza ukuthola izeluleko noma iresiphi, banemibuzo cishe yonke imibuzo ephathelene nokuphila kwansuku zonke. Bazi ukuthi yini okumelwe bayondle umyeni wakhe, ukuze bangashintshi indlela yokwelapha ikati nendlela yokuzolalisa ingane.
Ikhaya labesifazane kulaba besifazane balolu hlobo lufihliwe ngokujulile noma likhohliwe. Okokuqala, bayizihlukumezi, omama, amadodakazi nodade womuntu, bese kuba abangane nabesifazane kuphela. Lona ukusikisela okuyinhloko kwabendlukazi baseRussia balolu hlobo. Ngokuvamile ebuhlotsheni, abanalo ingxenye yenhlonipho ekhona phakathi kwabantu abafuna kakhulu futhi abazidela kakhulu.

I-Western option.

Akuyona imfihlo ukuthi siye sazama ukufana nabaseYurophu iminyaka eminingi, sishintsha indlela yethu yokuphila nemicabango, izinto eziza kuqala kanye nezinhloso. Laba besifazane baseRussia, abazithathela isithombe esihle semindeni ejwayelekile yaseMelika, banamathela emazingeni aseNtshonalanga.
Laba besifazane abakhuthele abashiya umsebenzi futhi bavame ukuba nomsebenzi ophumelelayo ukuze bakwazi ukukhulisa izingane futhi banakekele abayeni babo. Abesifazane bethu bazama ukugxila kuphela emabhokisini nasezindiza, kodwa bathatha isibonelo sabesifazane baseMelika abajabulayo abanomsebenzi wokuzilibazisa, okuvame ukuba yinzuzo eyengeziwe. Bazethemba kakhulu ngokwabo, ngoba babona indima yabo ngokuhlukile. Abayena nje abafazi besifazane, kodwa abafundisi, abapheki, abacwaningi kanye nezengqondo zomuntu kumuntu oyedwa, akudingeki ukuba bapheke futhi bahlanze, kodwa bahlele isabelomali sabo somndeni, ukuxazulula izimo zokulwa nokuthuthukisa nokuhlela ukuzijabulisa komndeni.
Kuphumelela kanjani isithombe somama wendlu onjalo empilweni yethu yansuku zonke, kunzima ukwahlulela. Mayelana nabesifazane abanjalo akunakusho ukuthi impilo yabo yonke ingaphansi kwezidingo zomndeni, nakuba kunjalo, ngumndeni obaluleke kakhulu empilweni yabo.

Ukulahlekelwa kanye nama-opportunistic.

Ngokuvamile kaningi phakathi kwabendlukazi baseRussia, kukhona labo abenqaba ukusebenza nokunakekela umndeni hhayi ngezinkolelo noma ngokuzibiza, kodwa ngenxa yobuvila bokuvinjelwa noma ukukwazi ukuzibonakalisa kunoma iyiphi indawo. Abantu abaningi bazama ukuphika izizathu zokuthi kungani abesifazane bebafazi, kepha leli qembu labesifazane lihlukaniswa kalula nabanye.
Ngeke neze abizwe ngokuthi izindlu ezinhle. Uma inzuzo yomyeni endlini yayo ivumela umyalo kuphela uma izinceku zizama, kwesinye isimo laba besifazane abafuni noma abakwazi ukwenza imisebenzi elula yokusebenza endlini. Ngokuvamile banemisebenzi eminingi engahlobene nomndeni nezingane. Laba besifazane abanakho ukwaneliseka noma ukuziqhenya esimweni sabo sezenhlalakahle, ngoba eqinisweni kunzima kakhulu ukuhlukanisa njengabendlukazi, ngoba bahlanganyela ebhizinisini elincane kakhulu.
Kodwa, ngokushesha nje uma kukhona insimu enjalo, njengoba labo besifazane befuna, labo ithuba lokusebenza emndenini noma kwenye indawo kuwusizo olukhulu ekukhetheni indlela enjalo yokuphila, singaphetha ngokuthi lokhu kunama-pluses ayo .

Abesifazane besifazane abangamaRussia abayena uhlobo olulodwa lwabesifazane. Ngamunye wabo wenza ukhetho emndenini ngezizathu zawo siqu, ngezinye izikhathi lokhu kuyimfuneko eyimpoqo, ngezinye izikhathi impela umsebenzi noma umphumela wothando nokuzimisela ukudela okuningi emndenini. Kwenzeka ukuthi abesifazane babe abesifazana okwesikhashana, kuze kube yilapho abantwana bekhula, lokhu kuyindlela evame kakhulu. Ngokuyinhloko, abesifazane banesithakazelo ekusebenzeni nasekufezeni impumelelo hhayi ekhishini kuphela, kodwa nakwezinye izindawo. Kodwa kuyadingeka ukusho ukuthi amadoda ayazisa labo abanqoba ukuphakama kwamakhono kanye nalabo abathuthukisa ekuthuthukisweni kwezomnotho ekhaya, okusho ukuthi ukuhlonipha, uthando nokugculiseka akuxhomeki kulokho okwenziwa ngumfazi.