Esikhathini sezinhlelo ze "fly lady" (ukuhlanza indlu ngenjabulo futhi ngaphandle komzamo omkhulu), kunezindlela eziningana ezithuthukisiwe ezakhiwe ngumdali ngokwakhe, uMarla Scilly. Wayefuna ngempela ukusiza izintombi zakhe ezihluphekile nabo bonke abesifazane ababekhathele ukuhlanza okungapheli nokuqeda konke.
Umdali ngokwakhe - owesifazane okhulu kakhulu futhi egcwele amandla, wadumala kakhulu ukuthi uthuli kanye nokungcola, kwenza wonke amakhosazana amahle aphenduke eCinderella, okungekho ibhola noma isikhulu esingabonakali nhlobo. Ngakho uMarla wanquma ukusindisa labesifazane abancane kulokhu lokuthunjwa.
Ukusatshalaliswa kwesimiso se-"lady's lady" kwaqala engakapheli kakhulu ngo-1999, lapho uMarla ehlasela ngokuqondile ama-e-mail amantombazane nezincwadi zakhe ezichaza uhlelo. Abaningi besifazane, ukubhoboza ama-calluses asebanjwe, bahlale phansi ukuze bafunde imilayezo, futhi ... futhi ekugcineni bakhohlwe mayelana nokuhlanzwa: ngemuva kwakho konke, uMarla wachaza kalula indlela yokukhipha umthwalo womnotho, eshiya isikhathi somuntu othandekayo.
KwakunguMarla owafika ngegama elithi Fly Lady, manje elihunyushwa ngokungahambi kahle, njengowesifazane "ondizayo". Empeleni, leli gama liyafana, kepha okokuqala ukuhamba kwakuyisifinyezo salokho okusho ukuthi "ekugcineni uzithanda wena" (okusho ukuthi "uzithanda wena ekugcineni!"). Kunjalo ukukhala komphefumulo womama wendlu.
Manje uhlelo lokuhlanza indlu ngaphandle kwemali eningi nemizamo - lena yonke yamanje yamakhosikazi, ibulela kakhulu uMarla ngokuwenza impilo yakhe ibe ngcono futhi imfundisa indlela yokuphatha isikhathi ngokufanele. Kodwa manje. Futhi-ke, ngo-1999, ukunyakaza konke kwakuncane kakhulu futhi kwakungabonakali kangangokuba kwakubonakala kungenakwenzeka ukuba usinde futhi uthuthuke.
Kodwa ngaphambi kokuba sazi kangcono uhlelo lwe "fly lady", ake sithole ukuthi yiluhlobo luni lwegama elibizwa ngokuthi le ndlukazi yanamuhla futhi ejabule. Eqinisweni, kunamagama amathathu kuphela "amancane" futhi aqondile: iphephandaba lokulawulwa (hello esikoleni?), Imizila kanye nezindawo.
Ake siqale ukucubungula kusukela ekupheleni. Izakhiwo ziyingxenye yendlu yakho noma indlu, into ehlale idinge ukuhlanzwa. Okungukuthi, yindlu yokugezela, igumbi lokulala, igumbi lokulala, igumbi lokuphumula, ikhishi - ngokujwayelekile konke okukwakhiwa ngabadwebi njengamakamelo ahlukene. Inkosikazi ehamba ngokuvama ngokuvamile ithatha indawo ngayinye isikhathi sayo, kungenzeka ngamasonto - ukuba ungahambi. Ake sithi kuleli sonto ukhokha kuphela ukusebenza ekamelweni, futhi zonke ezinye izindawo zibavumele balinde isikhathi sabo.
Kodwa i-notebook yazo zonke lezi marekhodi ewusizo futhi ezidingekile - lokhu kuyincwadi yezokulawula efanayo. Udinga ukuhlukanisa zibe izingxenye eziningana. Okokuqala, kufanele kube nesigaba ngecebo ngesonto ngalinye, noma kunalokho - njalo usuku nosuku, lapho umnikazi wezintambo kufanele anqume umsebenzi omkhulu ozozinikela ngaso isikhathi sakhe samahhala. Isibonelo, ngoMsombuluko indiza yowesifazane izokhulelwa, kanti ngoLwesibili - iya ezitolo. Isakhiwo esihle! Ngaphezu kwale misebenzi yomhlaba wonke, kumzila wokuhlola, kufanele ubhale phansi zonke izinhlobo zezinto ezincane ezingakwazi ukuphuma ekhanda lakho. Esinye isigaba sephephabhuku yizo zonke oxhumana nabo ezihlotsheni zakho nabangane nazo zonke izinsizakalo zomphakathi ezidingekayo.
Futhi, ekugcineni, isahluko sokugcina sencwadi yakho yokuhlola kuyoba ikhasi lakho siqu. Lapha ngizobhala phansi yonke imibono ethakazelisayo, amaqhinga asekhaya namasu omkhaya, okuyinto, ngokombono wakho, azofika ngosuku oluthile. Emva kwakho konke, sivame ukuzwa emsakazweni noma ohlelweni lwethelevishini mayelana nazo zonke izinhlobo zezikhathi ezithakazelisayo nezidingekile - kodwa ngokushesha ziphuma ezinhlokweni zami.
Izinto ezibaluleke kunazo zonke ezivela e-arsenal ye-lady real fly
Into yokuqala, mhlawumbe, i-timer, ngoba ukubaluleka kwayo ohlelweni lefulegi lekazikazi kuyisihluthulelo. Ukuqaphela: uhlobo luni lomsebenzi wesikole futhi usebenza oluthola lukhuni futhi luyinkimbinkimbi, thatha le mizila imizuzu engu-15 kuphela ngosuku - uhlobo olunjengeyabo, futhi aluzange lube nesithukuthezi. Kodwa lokhu akusho ukuthi kufanele wenze umsebenzi ngandlela-thile, ngokusebenzisa imikhono yakho. Cha, zama ukusebenza enkazimulweni - futhi uzobona ukuthi imizuzu engu-15 yokuhlanza - akuyona encane kakhulu!
Ukucwilisa - kufanele njalo kukhanye futhi kukhanye. Kungani? Ucabanga ukuthi akukhathaleki nhlobo - ukubheka kwekhishi kubonakala kanjani kunoma yiliphi ikhishi lomama? Mhlawumbe lokhu kunjalo-ke, ukuhlanza ifenisha lekhishi nsuku zonke, ukuyibeka, ufunde ukuphatha ngokwanele lezo zindlela eziningi ezithwala zona. Bavele babe umkhuba, ubabulala ngokushesha, ngokucacile futhi kahle. Cha, yebo, ungasebenzisa lesi sikhathi ezintweni ezithandekayo, kodwa kusengcono kakhulu, uma ekuseni ekhishini ubingelwa ukuhlanzeka, hhayi ngezintaba zezitsha ezingavuthiwe.
Ukubukeka - kuzoqala ngezicathulo esikhundleni sezindlu ezijwayelekile nezindlu eziphuthumayo. Futhi, umbuzo ungase uphakamise: kungani ukuhlushwa izinyawo ngokuhamba ngezintethe zakhe ngisho nangasendlini? Impendulo ilula6 ngeke ikuvumele ukhululeke. Ngokuvamile ama-slippers asekhaya alandelwa omunye uvila: ovilaphayo kakhulu ukuma ama-oshi, ubuvila ukwenza i-hairdress, uvila kakhulu ukugeza ihembe lakho lasekhaya. Futhi ubani ozongena kamuva? Umbukiso awujabulisi - lokho kuyiqiniso! Kodwa izicathulo zisho ukubonakala okufanele - uzohlale ulungele ukufika okungalindelekile kwezimenywa zakho endlini yakho - futhi ngeke kudingeke ukuba baqhube phambi kwazo ngepronti ehlanjululwe ngamanoni, nangenxa yezingubo ezinama-ironed.
Izimiso eziyinhloko eziqondisa ifulegi lekazikazi
1. Qinisekisa njalo ukuthi indlu yakho ayitholi i-junk engadingekile. Phela, konke kufanele kukunikeze imizwelo emihle kuphela, kodwa kubangele ukudabuka nokuzwela izinkumbulo zakho. Kungcono ukunikeza i-sweater kanye nesiketi, okwamanje ongagqoki, kulabo abadinga. Noma nje yilahle!
2. Hlola lapho udoti noluthuli luqoqa khona endlini yakho kaningi, futhi uziqaphele njalo: akuvumeli i-monasteri yakho ibe yilapho ichitheka khona.
3. Into eyinhloko - ungagijimeli ohlelweni, njengokuthi ku-whirlpool enekhanda. Zama ukuqonda: yilokho okuzokusindisa kusukela esimisweni? Qala encane - nokuqukethwe ekuhlanzeni okuhle kwegobolondo, bese sizobona.
Ekuboneni kokuqala, akukho lutho oluyinkimbinkimbi noma oluyinkimbinkimbi ohlelweni lwezintombikazi, luyatholakala kuwo wonke umuntu futhi, mhlawumbe, akekho umama oyedwa emhlabeni ongakwazi ukubhekana nawo. Futhi naphezu kwayo yonke into elula futhi eqinisweni, lolu hlelo luyaziwa kakhulu futhi luvame kakhulu, hhayi kuphela eNtshonalanga, lapho abesifazane besifazane sebeye bazibuza ukuthi bazoletha kanjani izindlu zabo ezinkulu, ngaphandle kokufa ebusuku ngenxa yokuntula amandla . ERussia, ifulege le-lady's lady also is insufficient - ngaphezu kwalokho, akubona nje nje abendlukazi - ezinye zazo zichitha lonke usuku emsebenzini. Ngakho-ke, baphatha konke! Mhlawumbe, ukuqhuma okunjalo kubangelwa izinzuzo eziyinhloko zesistimu yenkosikazi yezindiza.
- Ukusebenzisana. Ngokushesha nje lapho le nsizwa encane, eyanquma ukuthatha indiza yefulegi le-lady's, iqala ukutadisha le ndaba ngokugcwele, iyaqonda ngokushesha: "Angiyedwa!" Kuwo wonke amaforamu namasayithi anikezelwe ohlelweni, uzofunda ukuthi izigidi zabesifazane abanjengaye, ukhathele isimiso futhi zifuna indlela yokuzigwema - futhi, okubaluleke kakhulu, zizitholele ohlelweni lwezintambokazikazi!
- Ukulula. Ngempela, uhlelo lwezintambokazi luyinto elula kakhulu, lukuvumela ukuba uhlanze indlu ngokushesha futhi kahle, ngenkathi ikushiya isikhathi esiningi samahhala, okuyinto wonke umama wendlu azozichitha ngokuzithandela.
- Lolu hlelo lufundisa! Yebo, yebo, lifundisa. Ukufundisa ukuthi ungathanda kanjani isikhala sasekhaya esikuzungezile, lapho uhlala khona. Kodwa, ubona, ngaphandle kokuthandana naye, noma yiluphi uhlobo lokuhlanza luzophenduka umsebenzi onzima noyinkimbinkimbi. Ngihlale ngifuna ukuhlanza indawo engiyithandayo oyithandayo futhi ngiyibeke ngokuhlelekile.
- Noma ngubani ongakwazi ukubhekana kalula nezibopho zasekhaya - angaphatha kalula impilo yakhe - futhi lokhu kuyiqiniso. Mhlawumbe, yingakho uhlelo lwesifazane, oluqhubeka njalo, luzama ukufundisa bonke abesifazana ukuba baphathe kahle isikhathi sabo.
Njengoba ubona, uhlelo lwezintambokazi luyinto elula kakhulu futhi ewusizo: kukuvumela ukuba ubeke indlu yakho ngokuhlelekile futhi ngesikhathi esifanayo ungakhohlwa mayelana nokuhleleka kokuphila naseshaweni!