Izici
Abaningi balahlekelwa ngalesi sigaba. Futhi yize kakhulu. Kufanele uzikhethele izimfanelo ezibaluleke kakhulu kuwe kumyeni wesikhathi esizayo. Dweba isithombe sakhe somlomo, ubhale phansi bese ubhala lokho ongathandi ngempela, futhi yiziphi izimfanelo okumelwe zikhona. Vala amehlo akho bese ucabanga ukuthi ufana nobani. Ungaphupha nganoma yini, mayelana nedatha yangaphandle, ubuchwepheshe bakhe, ukuzilibazisa, imali engenayo yenyanga njalo njalo. Bhala konke lokhu ephepheni bese ulibeka endaweni evelele. Makube yisikhuthazo kuwe. Kodwa-ke, kufanelekile ukucabangela ukuthi yonke into oyibhalisile ingahlanganiswa kumuntu oyedwa. Khumbula ukuthi lo mbono uyinto ebonakalayo, nokuthi yini esihogweni esingayihlekisayo, ungahlangana nenduna yangempela ngehhashi elimhlophe!
Ukuheha.
Ukuze uthandane nomuntu, kufanele usebenze kanzima ngokwakho. Yenza okukhangayo kokubili ngaphandle nangaphakathi. Yenza imidlalo, ufunde izincwadi, ubukele amabhayisikobho, uthande isithakazelo kunento ethile. Konke lokhu kuzokusiza ukuba ube interlocutor ezimnandi futhi ezithakazelisayo kubantu. Phela, umndeni ubaluleke kakhulu hhayi othandweni kuphela, kodwa futhi nobungane, ithuba lokukhuluma nganoma yisiphi isihloko. Zama ukusondelana nokuhle. Zihlolisise futhi ucabange ukuthi lingabhubhisa amadoda avela kuwe? Mhlawumbe kuyindaba yamakhilogremu engeziwe? Khona-ke, ukugijima ekamelweni lokufaneleka! Mhlawumbe kungenxa yokuthi ikhabethe lakho lifana nogogo kunomuntu omncane futhi okhangayo? Bese, masinyane uye esitolo izinto ezintsha! Mhlawumbe unamahloni kakhulu embhedeni? Funda ulwazi oluthe xaxa mayelana nokuthi ungaba kanjani u-sexy, ukuthi ungamjabulisa kanjani umuntu olele embhedeni, ubukele izithombe ezingcolile bese ulwa nezinkinga zabo! Khuluma nabangani bakho besilisa, mhlawumbe bangakutshela ukuthi yini okudingeka uyilungiselele, futhi yini, ngokuphambene nalokho, ukugqamisa nokugcizelela.
Ukukwazi.
Phinda uphinde ufunde isici osibhale ngomyeni wakho wesikhathi esizayo. Futhi manje cabanga, umuntu angaphila isikhathi, ngubani othanda izinto ezinjalo, futhi osebenza lapho futhi lapho? Uma unqume ukuba umkami wabhalisi wasebhange, kufanele uhambe ngesidlo sasemini ku-cafe eliseduze ukuze uhlangane nomuntu wamaphupho akho , noma, ungazama ukusebenza ebhange. Ingabe unqume ukushada nomdobi wangempela? Yiya ezitolo ezithengisa ngokukhethekile konke okudingayo ukudoba, futhi ubheke eduze izivakashi, mhlawumbe phakathi kwazo yindoda yakho yesikhathi esizayo? Uma uphuka ngokushada nomuntu omkhulu, qalisa ukugijima ekuseni noma kusihlwa epaki eliseduzane, uthenge ukubhalisa esikhungweni sempilo, ngezwi, isenzo!
Uma kunzima kuwe ukuba ufike endaweni yokuhlangana, futhi okhethiweyo wakho akanalo ukuzilibazisa okhethekile, khona-ke ngiphakamisa izindawo zokuwina zokunqoba.
Sebenzisa. Mhlawumbe kufanele uhlolisise ithimba osebenza kulo, mhlawumbe othile ovela emnyangweni oseduze naye usekude ukubuka ubuso obunzima nokuthinta? Uma kwenzeke ukuthi leli qembu lingumfazi noma bonke abashadile, hlolisisa izinkampani ezizungezile eziqashisa ihhovisi lakho esakhiweni.
Iqembu. Yiba njalo kuwo wonke amaholide, emishadweni kanye nezinsuku zokuzalwa. Ithuba lokubukeka likhulu, ukuba "emgodini", kanye nokuphuza utshwala okuzokwenza uphumule, futhi manje, umngane womngane wakho usevele ukumema ukuthi udansa.
Ukuhamba. Isikhathi sokuphumula kanye neholidi sinomthelela omuhle ekubukeni nasekuziphatheni. Ukujwayela indoda ngesikhathi uhambo noma ukunyuka ngeke kube nzima. Yiba nokusebenza ngokwengeziwe!
Ama-nightclub, imishayo kanye ne-discotheques endaweni enhle yokuzijwayeza kunzima ukufakazela, ngoba, ngokuvamile bafuna ubulili ngobusuku obulodwa, ubuhlobo ngaphandle kwezibopho. Kodwa, lokho esihogweni akusiyikuhleka.
Isifiso sokushada sihamba nabo bonke ubulili obuhle. Ukusondelana nomuntu wangempela, onokwethenjelwa, onakekelayo, onesibindi, onothando nothando, injabulo yangempela, okufanelekile ukulwa nayo.