Nathi, sasibe sesinjalo, kodwa-ke sakhula futhi sathumela "ingane yangaphakathi" kude kakhulu enhliziyweni. Kodwa ngeze. Kulesi sihloko siqoqe iqoqo elincane lokuhlukana kwezingane ezivela kubantu abadala, kanye nezizathu eziyisikhombisa ezingenasisekelo sokuthatha isibonelo kumncane kunazo zonke.
Izwe lihlehlisiwe
Ngokusho kwemithetho ye-physics ye-optical ku-"isithombe" esheshayo esenziwe i-retina yeso, izwe elizungezile likhonjiswa phansi. Lokhu yilokho okutholwa ngumzali wakhe omusha kuqala, kodwa njengoba intuthuko iqhubeka, ubuchopho buyenza izinguquko: "isithombe" esivela ku-retina, esifakwe ngesimo se-nerve impulses, singena kwi-cortex ye-cerebral, futhi kukhona lapho "isithombe" sokugcina sakhiwa (ngokusho komuntu siqu). Futhi uyaqaphela ngokushesha ukuthi unina akakwazi ukuhamba phezu kwelayili! Ngencazelo yembala ye-gamut nayo ilukhuni: izinti (ezibhekene nombono omnyama nomhlophe) kanye nama-cones (ngombala) emaqenjini asebenza ngamandla futhi angasese, kodwa ukuthi abuke - akusho ukubona. Ubuciko bokugxila nokubuka into esadingeka ukuthi kufundwe! Esikhathini sokuqala, usana lukhetha kuphela imibala ethile yeqiniso elizungezile: omnyama nomhlophe, emva kwezinyanga ezintathu kuya ku-6 ufunda ukubona izinto ezilinganiselwe ubukhulu obuphuzi. Ezinye umehluko phakathi kwezingane ezivela kubantu abadala zibonisa ukwesaba kwengane yokuzama into entsha.
I-prodigy yengane - kusukela ekubelekeni
Kuvela ukuthi ubuchopho bomntwana akusilo iqabunga elingenalutho, kodwa isitolo sangempela sokugcina ulwazi! Isibonelo, amakhono akhe okuzwa izinzwa nezilimi ayingqayizivele. Abacwaningi baseCanada bathole ukuthi izinsana zingathola umehluko ezintweni ezifana nomunye njengamaconsi amabili amanzi (empeleni, ngokombono wabantu abadala). Futhi izingane ezisanda kuzalwa ziyazi kahle izilimi - ngokwesibonelo, zihlukanisa kalula isiNgisi nesiFulentshi. Imfihlo yilezi zinyuka ezibonakalayo ezibonakalayo ezimpumputhe: ubamba iso ngezinguquko ezincane ebusweni bomzimba futhi efundeka ngezindebe! Ngaphezu kwalokho, lo wesifazane omncane ufunde kalula inganekwane kanye nengoma, ezwa ngaphambi kokuzalwa. Phela, cishe zonke izingane zizalwa ngokuzwa okuphelele. Ososayensi baseMelika, ukuhlola izingane ezineminyaka eyisishiyagalombili ubudala, waphawula ukuthi lezi zihloko zinquma ngisho nezinguquko ezincane kakhulu emgqeni womculo futhi zinehluko phakathi kwezingane nabantu abadala. Kucatshangwa ukuthi ikhono lokubona ngokunembile ithoni nezwi lomsindo kusiza izingane zifunde ukukhuluma. Futhi, hamba, iphela nesikhathi - cishe ngonyaka. Kodwa hhayi bonke-kubantu abakhuluma ngezilimi ze-tonal (i-Vietnamese, isiShayina), iqhubeka.
Imangaliso yokuthinta
Ngokuxhumana okuthintana nabo, wonke umuntu udinga - inethiwekhi ye-neurons ethintekayo ekuthinteni, igijima ngaphansi kwesikhumba somuntu: ukubamba isignali ejwayelekile, sithatha ukushaya ngokumomotheka noma ezinye izimpawu zobungane. Kodwa yini emnandi futhi efiselekayo kumuntu omdala imfuneko ngempela ingane! Abacwaningi baqaphele ukuthi izingane ezithola ukuthintwa kubazali bazo hhayi kuphela ngesikhathi sokuxhumana nabo ekhaya (uma zidla, zihlanza noma zigqoke), kodwa futhi mahhala (uma ziwanga, zixhunyiwe, ziphathwe ngezandla zazo), zikhule ziphilile futhi zibe nokuhlakanipha okuningi . Ngemuva kokuhlukana phakathi kwezingane ezivela kubantu abadala, kuyisiko ukuthatha ukuvimbela omdala nokuthuthumela kwengane.
Isikhathi sabantwana
Ososayensi baseMelika muva nje baqinisekisa ukucabanga ukuthi umuzwa wesikhathi kubo bonke abantu uhlukile futhi ngokuqondile kuxhomeke eminyakeni yobudala - asebekhulile esiyikho, ngokushesha imicibisholo yokugijima kwewashi yangaphakathi. Kwakukhona ukuthi ukuhlukana kwezingane ezivela kubantu abadala kanye nokunemba kwabo kufana ne-substance dopamine (okungaphezu kwalokho, ngokushesha i-clock ticking), futhi ngokukhula kwayo ukukhuphuka. Uma ubuza ingane ukuba ihlole ngokwengqondo ubude besikhathi emaminithini amathathu, iyophuza imizuzwana engu-5-10 (nangomuntu oneminyaka engu-60 ubudala imizuzu emithathu efanayo izodlula ngomzuzwana nemaminithi angu-40). Manje kusobala ukuthi kungani ebuntwaneni ukholelwa ngobuqotho: iholidi impilo encane. Esinye isici sokubona kwesikhathi kwengane - ukuxhomekeka kwayo ekudleni kwezidingo zomntwana (ukulamba, ukukhathala noma isidingo sokuvakashela ukulibaziseka kwangasese akubekezelelwanga - ngisho namaminithi ambalwa okulinda kubonakala sengathi unaphakade). Ingane ihlala ngesimiso esithi "Ngiyathanda-inike", ngokungafani nabantu abadala "kumele" futhi "bawusizo".
Ngithenge inja!
Lokhu kubaluleke ngempela! Izazi zengqondo zeJalimane zathola ukuthi abanikazi abajabulayo bamangani abathandekayo banokuziphatha okulinganiselayo futhi bafeze impumelelo enkulu ezifundweni zabo! Iyini imfihlo? Mhlawumbe ngomqondo wemithwalo yemfanelo, eqhuba ukukhulumisana nenja (isilwane kufanele siphethwe njalo, sondliwe). Noma mhlawumbe ukuthi ingane iyaqonda ulimi lwabafowethu abancane? Abacwaningi baqaphele ukuthi izingane zihlukanisa kangcono isimo sengqondo sezilwane (lokhu kwaqinisekiswa yizilingo ezinamaphutha ezinyanga eziyisithupha ubudala) - lokhu kungenxa yokubona okunomzwelo kwezwe ngane.
Isikhungo soMhlaba
Ukuzibona kwakho ngokuthi "inkaba yomhlaba" yengane kuyinto yemvelo. Ngomkhumbi we-egocentrism, ingane ibona umhlaba wonke ozungezile: unina - kuphela ukuhlangabezana nezidingo zakhe (ngakho ukungabikho kwakhe ekhaya kungamukeleki), ukuzalwa komzalwane noma udade kungukuhlukumezeka (emva kwakho konke, kuyisisulu). Lesi simo sengqondo esincane sokuthi uqobo lwangempela siyinto ejwayelekile kuze kube seminyaka emibili ubudala (uma ihlala isikhathi eside - kusobala, ikhuthazwa ... ngabazali). Kule minyaka yobudala, ukungafani phakathi kwezingane nabantu abadala kusenesikhathi.
Ingabe uyakhala? Angikwazi ukuzwa!
Ngokungafani nomuntu omdala, ngubani, okhulumisana naye, oncike ekushiwo amazwi okushiwo, ingane iphendula, okokuqala, imizwa nemizwelo (ngisho noma umuntu omdala engaboni umbala okhethekile womzwelo wenkulumo yakhe). Ingane iyayichaza, ihlolisisa intonation, inkulumo ebusweni, izenzo nokunye okunye. I-mask evuthayo ebusweni bomzali, izwi elikhulu neminwe eminwe kungase "imthelele" ingane ngemicabango emibi (ukukhathazeka nokwesaba), noma ivele idlule. Njengencazelo yamazwi akho. Uhlelo lwesimiso, ukugwema ukugqithisa, luvimbela izinqubo zengqondo - izingane ezincane zingase zingalizwa amazwi angabalimaza.
Okuthakazelisayo okukhulu konke okungaziwa ...
Kodwa kuphela isikhathi. Ngokusho kososayensi baseJapane, kusukela eminyakeni emithathu ubuchopho bomntwana, njengemoto, ngokugwinya konke okunikezwayo, kuqala ukuhlunga ulwazi. Ukunikeza inzuzo kulokho okuthakazelisayo ngempela kuye! Ukwenza ukunakwa kwengqondo encane akulula kakhulu. Ngakho-ke, kubalulekile ukunikeza ulwazi ngesimo semidlalo, noma ukuphutha ngamabomu (isibonelo, ukufunda incwadi ejwayelekile) - kufanele abe nomuzwa wokuthi ungumculi!
Ukuze ufinyelele loqobo
Izingane ziyazi: indlela engcono kakhulu yokuthola ukuthi "lokhu" isebenza kanjani ukuyihlakaza emgodini. Ikakhulukazi uma kungenjalo i-TV ye-plasma, kodwa izinkinga ezingaxazululwa. Spread le sore inkinga emashalofini - futhi konke kuzovela!
Musa ukuletha "umsebenzi" ekhaya: zonke izinkinga zisala ngemuva komnyango wendlu, ngoba lena yindawo yokuphumula nokukhulumisana okuhle.
Ukubuza imibuzo: Ungabi namahloni okungazi - kuyadabukisa ukuthi ungaceli. Ilukuluku lenye yezindlela zokwazi umhlaba, futhi omunye akufanele awuqede. Kuyamangalisa ukuthi kuningi ulwazi olusha nemibono emangalisayo - ngokoqobo esandleni!
Lalela futhi uzwe: nge-interlocutor ozwayo (futhi hhayi nje ulindele omunye umuntu oyedwa) ungaxazulula ngisho nemibuzo enzima kakhulu. Qaphela laba balaleli bese uzama ukuzifanisa wena.
Ukuhleka kaningi: izingane aziyazi ukuthi ukuhleka kuvamile ukucindezela, kuveza ama-hormone ajabulisayo, kuvuselela futhi kulahlwe abantu. Bahleka nje ngaleyo ndlela.
Zama it!
Yiba abangane bangempela: ngaphandle kwezindleko zenzuzo noma induduzo yomuntu siqu.
Hambisa okuningi: umzimba wethu uhloselwe lokhu! Izingane azisho ukuthi "ukufaneleka", kuba ngumdlalo: run, gxuma, ubambe ibhola. Umdlalo onjalo olula awunhle kuphela, kodwa futhi ujabule kakhulu!