I-Nymphomania yisimo sokukhukhumeza ngokobulili, okubonakala ngokukhangwa kocansi kakhulu kubantu besifazane. Ngakho-ke, kungashiwo ukuthi i-nymphomaniac yindoda ehlukunyezwa ngokobulili ngokweqile.
Uma owesifazane ethanda ukuya ocansini noma aze adlulisele lo msebenzi, lokhu akusho ukuthi angabizwa ngokuthi i-nymphomaniac. Abesifazane abavamile bayakwazi kalula ukulawula isifiso sabo sobulili, esizibonakalisa kuphela ezimweni ezithile, futhi, njengombuso, uma kunabantu abaningi abakwazi ukwenza le mizwa intombazane. I-Nymphomaniac ayikwazi ukuhlanganisa nokulawula ubulili bakhe. Lo mzwa uzibonakalisa kungakhathaliseki ukuthi izifiso zabesifazane zifana nani, kunjengokukoma noma ukulamba, okubuye kunzima ukulawula ngokucophelela. Owesifazane onjalo ulawulwa ukukhangwa ngokobulili futhi ngokungafani nabesifazane abavamile abathanda ucansi, abakwa-nymphomaniacs abakwazi ukugcina nokucindezela izifiso zabo zobulili ngesikhathi somunye umsebenzi, isibonelo, ngesikhathi sokugcina indlu noma emsebenzini wehhovisi, noma , uma enomlingani ohlala njalo. Ngisho nalapho esebuhlobo obusondelene naye, owesifazane onjalo angakwazi ukulala naye ngaphandle. Phela, ubuhlobo bobulili obuvamile ngaye - hhayi nje ukuchitha isikhathi esiphundu, kodwa isidingo esiphuthumayo, njengabantu ababhekene nokuphazamiseka okukhulu, bahlale befuna ukugeza izandla zabo.
Indlela yokuhlukanisa izifiso ezivamile zobulili kusuka ku-nymphomania?
Ukuqonda ukuthi owesifazane othanda ubulili uvamile yini, noma uma e-nymphomaniac, kulula kakhulu. Owesifazane ongenayo i-nymphomania angakwazi ukulawula ukubonakaliswa kwakhe ngokocansi. Ngakho-ke, angakwazi ukuhlala epholile enqenqemeni yokulala ngocansi izinsuku ezimbalwa, amasonto, noma izinyanga, isibonelo, lapho umngane wakhe ocansi ocansini eshiya uhambo lwebhizinisi noma enganeliseki ngezizathu zezokwelapha. Owesifazane ovamile ohlelweni lobulili ngeke afune ukwenza uthando izikhathi eziningana ngosuku, ikakhulukazi uma ubuhlobo bobulili nomuntu abukho ekuqaleni kwentuthuko yabo futhi luhlala izinyanga ezimbalwa. Ngeke afune kakhulu ukulala ocansini ekuseni, uma isenzo socansi sesivele sisebusuku odlule.
I-Nymphomaniac imane engakwazi ukudala inyunyana yemindeni eqinile - ngokungafani okungajwayelekile, lapho umlingani wesifazane onjalo ezimisele ngokungahambisani naso zonke izifiso zakhe ezingathandeki zobulili. Inhloso eyinhloko yokuphila kwakhe ukufuna ukuphumula ngokocansi nokwaneliseka, kepha ngeke akwanelisekile ngokugcwele isikhathi eside. Ngokwemvelo, ukuziphatha okunjalo akukwazi kodwa kuthinte zonke izici zokuphila kwe-nymphomaniac. Ekuphileni kwakhe komuntu, owesifazane onjalo, njengombuso, akajabuli. Phela, ayikwazi ukwakha ubudlelwane obujulile, ukuxhumeka kwayo kuhlale kunengqondo, abalingani bobulili bashintsha ngokushesha, kancane kancane bangabi ngabanye. Ukwehluleka okunjalo kwezobudlelwane ngokobulili kungathinta impilo yowesifazane ngokusuka enhliziyweni: kusukela ekutheleleni kwamagciwane, okudluliselwa ngocansi nokuphela kokuphelelwa ngokomzimba nezinkinga nge-psyche.
Ingabe kuyiqiniso ukuthi cishe bonke abacansi bezithombe zobulili ezingcolile bangama-nymphomaniacs?
Cha, akufani neze. Umkhakha wezithombe zobulili ezingcolile uveza ukubukeka kwababukeli ukuthi ama-pornstars angabantu abanobudlova obucansi futhi sebekulungele ukubhekana nabo imini nobusuku, abakwazi ukulawula izifiso zabo zobulili. Eqinisweni, iningi labalingisi bezithombe zobulili ezingcolile libonisa nje ukufisa nokufisa njengabadlali be-cinema ejwayelekile njengemizwa enjabulo, intukuthelo, ukudabuka noma ukwesaba. Kungenzeka ukuthi amaphesenti athile ama-nymphomaniacs aphinde avele kumafilimu amakhulu, ukuze ngandlela-thile anelise intshisekelo yabo engathandeki. Kodwa namanje abadlali abaningi bezithombe ezingcolile akuzona ama-nymphomaniacs. Phela, abesifazane abesilisa ocansini bahlale benesimiso sezinzwa ezingaguquguquki futhi kunzima ukubhekana nokusebenza kokudubula okude. Phela, ngenkathi usebenza phambi kwekhamera akudingeki ucabange ngokugcwalisa izifiso zakho, kepha ngokugculisa isithakazelo sezithameli zakho.
Kungani abesifazane beba nympho?
Ngokuvamile, i-nymphomania ivela kwabesifazane abaye bathola ukuthi bane-"bipolar affective disorder," ebonakala ngesimo sokucindezeleka nesimo somuntu. Kulezi ziguli, lesi simo singabangela isifiso socansi ocansini. Futhi, izimbangela ze-nymphomania zingaba ukulimala nokuphikisana kobuchopho, isifo se-schizophrenia, isifo sika-Gick, isifo se-Alzheimer nezinye izifo eziningana ezifanayo. Ukusetshenziswa kwemithi ethile kungashukumisela ukubonakaliswa kwe-nymphomania kwabesifazane. Ngakho-ke, lo mphumela unganikeza ukwamukela ezinye izidakamizwa ezisetshenziselwa ukwelapha isifo sikaParkinson, kanye nezinye izinto ezidakayo, isibonelo, i-metadiamphetamine - kulezi zimo i-nymphomania ibonakala njengomphumela wecala futhi ilapha kalula uma izidakamizwa zihoxiswa.
Ososayensi bakholelwa ukuthi cishe u-1-2% wabo bonke abesifazane besinezimo ezihlukahlukene ngezikhathi ezahlukene zokuphila kwabo ababhekene nokuziphatha kocansi. Kodwa iningi lalezi zibonelo yilokho okuthiwa ukuguquka nymphomania, okuhlala isikhathi esifushane bese idlula cishe ngaphandle kokulandelana.
Futhi phakathi kososayensi kunombono wokuthi i-nymphomania ingahlotshaniswa nokunye okuphawulekayo kokukhuliswa kwezingane. Ngakho-ke, ngokuvamile izifo zengqondo ezadingeka zisebenze nabesifazane abathandana nabo ngokobulili zaqaphela ukuthi emindenini lapho izidakamizwa zikhuliswe khona, kwakungavamile ukuthi isihloko sobulili singavunyelwe ngokuqinile. Ngakho-ke, isimo sengqondo samantombazane sasihlukumezekile futhi sasihlanekezela.
Enye imbangela ye-nymphomania ingaba yizimo ezibuhlungu (hhayi ngokobuhlobo bobulili), ngokuvamile okuhlangenwe nakho ebuntwaneni. Futhi nokuhlala isikhathi eside ezimweni ezingakhululekile futhi ezinzima. Kodwa-ke, izimo ezinjalo azivamile futhi zibheka ama-2-3% azo zonke izinkinga ze-nymphomania.
Indlela yokubhekana ne-nymphomania?
Okokuqala, ama-nymphomaniacs wesifazane nezihlobo zabo kufanele baqonde ukuthi ukucwasana ngokobulili akuyona ukuziphatha okubi, kodwa isifo esibi kakhulu, lapho kwenzeka izibonakaliso ezidingekayo ukubuyela kudokotela bese uqala ukwelashwa. Ngokuvamile abesifazane abanokuzijabulisa ngokobulili babheka ukuthi lokhu kuziphatha kuba yingxenye yemvelo yabo, kodwa uma ukuvusa okungalawulwa ngokocansi kubangele ukuphazamiseka okubalulekile futhi kuthinta zonke izindawo zomuntu, khona-ke kufanele afune ukwelashwa ochwepheshe.
Amaphilisi akhethekile angaphilisa ngokushesha futhi kalula nymphomania, kuze kube yimanje, isayensi ingakaqalwa. Ayikho izindlela ezifanayo nezindlela zokwelapha lesi sifo. Ngokujwayelekile, odokotela basebenzise izindlela ezixubekile - izifo zengqondo kanye nokwelashwa ngezidakamizwa ezisiza ukucindezela ukuxoshwa ngokweqile ngokocansi (isibonelo, ezinye izidakamizwa zokucindezeleka). Kusebenza nokwelapha ngosizo lwe-psychotherapy yeqembu kanye nezingxoxo ngabanye nemibhangqwana lapho owesifazane ehlushwa yi-nymphomania.