I-Speeddating ithola ukuthandwa, abaningi bazama ukuzama lolu hlobo lokuzijabulisa futhi bazimisele ukuyikhokhela. Ukubhalisa emkhosini kubiza kusuka ku-R5,5 kuya ku-5 000 rubles, ukuphuza kanye nokudla ngezindleko zakho, ngakho-ke lo msebenzi awushibhile. Abahleli bazama ukwakha isimo esimnandi kakhulu kulo mcimbi. Ngisho noma ungathandi noma ubani, uzochitha ubusuku obungalindeleki endaweni yokudlela enkulu noma e-cafe enomoya otholile.
Yiqiniso, amanye amantombazane angase acabange ukuthi asevele ehlala esiteji esinjalo sokuba nesizungu ukuthi alungele ukunikeza imali ukuze azi kangcono labafana. Kodwa ungayeki izinhloso zakho - ungafuna injabulo yonke indawo nakuyo yonke indawo, futhi akekho okufanele akusole ngale ndlela. Hlaziya, ujabulele inqubo yokuthandana nokugqoka. Futhi, ekugcineni, okungenani ukhokhele ukutshalwa kwezimali ngokugcwele.
Akulona iqiniso ukuthi uzothola uthando lwakho ngalezo zinsuku bese ushada masinyane, kodwa ungenza nje abantu obaziyo abasebenzisekayo, uhlangane nabantu obathandayo futhi futhi mhlawumbe futhi. Umphumela wokusheshisa i-speeddating akuyona eyingqayizivele futhi noma yikuphi ukuphenduka kwezenzakalo kungenzeka. Mhlawumbe i-mini-date, ongayithandi ngempela, ekugcineni iyokhula ibe uthando lwangempela.
Amathiphu ambalwa kulabo abakhetha ukuzijabulisa okunjalo
Okokuqala, kungcono ukuthi uqale ngokushesha futhi ube nesifiso sokuhlangana noma okungenani ubusuku obuhle. Okungenani - ungenza abantu abajwayele ukuxhumana nabo nezixhumanisi eziwusizo, nokuphakama - ukuhlangabezana nomuntu ozoba isoka lakho, futhi kamuva umyeni.
Okwesibili, uye emcimbini wodwa, ngaphandle kohlobo nabangane, ngakho-ke kukhona ithuba elihle lokuzijwayeza, ngoba awunawo ozoxoxa ngamadoda phakathi kwabantu ababaziyo. Ngesinye isikhathi, izingxoxo ezinjalo zingabangela ukwesaba abantu abahle abangathanda ukukuhlangabeza. Futhi-ke, kungenzeka ukuthi uyothanda insizwa efanayo, futhi ngeke neze ufune ukwabelana naye.
Amaminithi amahlanu anquma konke
Emaminithini amahlanu udinga ukuziveza ngempumelelo ngangokunokwenzeka, ngakho lungiselela. Cabanga kusengaphambili ukuthi ungatshela ngawe, mayelana nezenzo zakho zokuzilibazisa, imicabango, into ezokuhlukanisa nesixuku nokuthi uzokhumbula ngani amadoda. Zama ukuthola indawo evumelana nomfana owaziyo. Kodwa khumbula ukuthi lokhu akusiyo ingxoxo, futhi ukushiwo kwamaqiniso we-biography yakho akunakwenzeka ukubamba umuntu. Kodwa futhi ukuthula okungaqondakali nakho akufanelekile - khetha incazelo yegolide futhi ungakhohlwa ukulalela umphikisi wakho. Amadoda amaningi ayilutho kakhulu futhi abuza imibuzo. Kodwa ungadumali umuntu onjalo ngaso leso sikhathi, mnike ithuba, ngoba ngokuqinisekile uyakhathazeka. Akulula ukugcizelela kanyekanye amantombazane ayishumi nambili, kukhona abantu abakuthola kunzima ukujwayelana nomunye. Kodwa lokho akusho ukuthi akafani nalokhu.
Bomomotheka, ngoba into yokuqala oyilalelayo isobho sakho evulekile. Yenza ukumomotheka kwakho kube uphawu, okugqamile. Khohlwa ngezinkinga nezinkinga onakho. Yiba lapha futhi manje, bese uzama ukuba wena futhi uziphathe ngokwemvelo. Lalela i-interlocutor yakho futhi uzophumelela.
Amafemu ahlela amaqembu we-spiddeiting, kungcono ukubuka ku-intanethi, ngesikhathi esifanayo ukufunda izibuyekezo zabantu abaye bazama kakade lokhu ukuzijabulisa bona. Ungesabi ukuthi abahleli bazokucela ukuthi uthathe ingxoxo emfushane. Imibuzo mayelana nemali engenayo ngeke ibuzwe kuwe, kuphela i-akhawunti eningiliziwe, izithakazelo, imisebenzi, izinto zokuzilibazisa, umsebenzi. Ukukhethwa ngokucophelela kwabahlanganyeli kwenziwa ukuze uthole abantu abafanelekile, ukuhlinzeka ngezinyathelo zokuphepha, ukuze ube nawo wonke amathuba okuhlangana nomuntu ofanele ngempela futhi onentshisekelo, hhayi umfana ovela esangweni.