Yingakho bacasuka kakhulu uma lesi sigameko sishabalalisa umbono we "ingane ekahle". Le ndoda, ubaba, ubheka "izinto ezinjalo" ngeminwe yakhe. Ilungelo lokukhulisa ingane ngubaba nalo liphawulekayo. Uvele eqonda ukuthi:
a) kungakhathaliseki ukuthi uhlobo luni lwe-diaper lugqoke, into eyinhloko ukuthi bawenza imisebenzi yabo kahle;
b) akusizi ngalutho ukufihla umntwana kancane, uzothola ukungcola, ngoba kule nkathi yokuphila lokhu ngeke kugwenywe.
I-Pope icubungula izinkinga eziningi "zomhlaba jikelele": isibonelo, indlela yokudlulisela ekuhlangenwe nakho kwakhe kwengane, ukuze iphumelele. Uyazi kahle ukuthi akakwazi ukuphelela, futhi akazami ukuncintisana nabanye obaba osemntwaneni wakhe ohlala kuqala ebhodweni.
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Bonisa ukuzimela kwemibono nasendabeni yobuhlobo nengane. Ungazami ukujwayela isitayela sokuxhumana somama. Udinga ukwazi ukuthi ungenzani nengane uma uwedwa. Futhi ungasheshi ukusiza umkakhe lapho uqala ukukhipha ingane. Zama ukuqonda konke wena ngokwakho. Shayela usizo kuphela uma uzizwa ukuthi awukwazi ukubhekana nesimo.
Ubaba uvame ukuhlotshaniswa nengane nomdlalo, nomama wami - ngamacala (awukwazi ukungcola, udinga ukugeza izandla zakho). Siza umkakho enkambeni elukhuni yokukhulisa ingane njengobaba futhi uzame ukuphendula ingxenye yemidlalo ibe yizo zokuqeqesha: "sigeza ubuso bethu njengama-pussies" noma "ekuhambeni sizokwakha isakhiwo sejantshi, futhi bonke abakhi begqoke amagilavu, babonise ukuthi bawabeka kanjani." Ukudlala, konke kulula ukuyiqonda.
Ilukuluku nokubona
Imidlalo nokuxhumana nobaba kushukumisa ubuciko. Ubaba usho okuncane, kodwa ngezinto eziyisisekelo - izimbobo ezimnyama, amabhere we-polar ngisho nokuphonsa ibhokisi lokufanisa ebhodini lekhishini. Ukuze uveze kule ndima umama kunenkinga, umsebenzi wakhe ukufundisa umntwana ukuthi angayenza kanjani. Amadoda ngokwemvelo kufanele aqhubeke eqhubeka phambili, athole okuthile. Kubaluleke kakhulu ukuthuthukisa ukulangazela emantombazaneni, ngoba abafana ekuqaleni bahlose ukuzama into entsha. Njengoba kunikezwe ukubambisana kwamantombazane endlini, kulokho okuzungezile ngokushesha, upapa kumele alwele ukwandisa ama-horizons endodakazi, azijwayele lokho okuhamba ngaphezu kwalokho esaziwayo kakade.
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Ungakhohlwa ukuthi ubuciko bunenkinga. Ukuzijabulisa kuhle uma udinga ukuthola indlela yokuphuma kwenkinga. Ezimweni ezivamile, ukusesha amathuba amaningi kungabangela kakhulu inqubo yokuzikhethela nokwenza izinqumo. Ubuntu obungenalwazi olungumntwana, ushintsho oluqhubekayo lwezenzo nokubonakala lukhulu kakhulu umthwalo. Kungenza buthakathaka izindlela zokuzivikela kwengqondo.
Ngakho-ke, zama ukugcina isigqi sokuphila esijwayele ingane. Ukuhlala nengane isikhathi esithile ngaphandle komama, akusizi ngalutho ukusondeza ngokushesha uSushi, i-steak ngegazi, ukuholela izivakashi kumalume abangajwayelekile (makabe yizinkampani zakho), ngokuzumayo amfundise ukudweba i-ketchup kanye nemayonnaise etafuleni ...
Ukuze ushintshe ekwakheni isakhiwo sekhrikhthi endlini y cubes, ubaba udinga isikhathi. Abesifazane bacindezelekile ngokomzwelo engxoxweni. Umuntu, ukuze unciphise ukucindezeleka ngemva komsebenzi, udinga ukuba wedwa - chofoza ku-remote control ye-TV noma inkinobho yegundane yekhompiyutha (izithombe ezikhanyayo zisiza ukukhulula ikhanda). Ngakho-ke zama ukwehlukana nomkakho - udinga imizuzu engu-20 yokuphumula emva komsebenzi ukuhlala wedwa nawe, khona-ke ungakwazi ukubhekana nengane, ukhulule umama wakho.
Igunya likaPapa lisiza izingane ukuba zifeze impumelelo ngendlela enenjongo. Igeyimu yezwi ifundisa ukucabanga okucatshangelwayo futhi iveza amakhono amancane amakhono, okuyinto, njengoba yaziwa, nayo ivuselela izinqubo zobuchopho:
"Izinkinobho"
Thatha ibhodlela elibonakalayo nge-cap screw kanye nezinkinobho ezingu-10. Cabanga ngamazwi aqala ngencwadi A. Ngegama ngalinye, phosa inkinobho ebhodleleni. Uma uqoqa konke, vala ibhodlela ngesembozo (kulo mdlalo kokubili inkulumo kanye namakhono amakhono okuthuthukisa amakhono).
"IPiramidi"
Ukuqoqa le piramidi, tshela amagama aqala nge-B. B. Indandatho eyodwa yinye igama. Izincwadi, Yebo, zingashintshwa.
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Ngokuphambene nobubele besifazane, indima kababa ilawula. Kodwa funda ukuvumelana njalo ekuvinjelweni kwakho nezimvume. Abapapa bathanda ukusho ukuthi ngeke "baphakamise" izimiso, kodwa eqinisweni bavame ukubonisa isimo sengqondo esingaqondakali ezintweni ezincane (ngokuzumayo umntwana onamathoyizi akhe aphezu kwekhabethe izinsuku ezintathu kufanele "ngokushesha, lo mzuzu ulungiswe!"). Kulokhu, abapapa baqotho kakhulu ukwephulwa kwemithetho eyisisekelo (kahle, ukungamhloniphi kukagogo, kahle, weba umshini - yikuphi okungenangqondo, ongenawo lokhu!). Ngokwenza kanjalo, uyayidabukisa ingane. Uma ngesenzo esifanayo ubaba uphendula ngokuhlukile ngesikhathi ngasinye, ingane inzima kakhulu ukufunda indlela yokuziphatha ngendlela efanele.
Innovation kanye nobungozi
Isithombe esivamile endaweni yokudlala. Ngesikhathi omama behlala bebukela ingane, bephindaphinda kuzo zonke izinyathelo, "Qaphela!" Futhi "Fu, kuyinto engafanele!", Abapapa ngesibindi "baphambukisa" ingane kusukela kolunye uhlangothi, bafundise ukuhamba ebhukwini, bahlole izindawo ezintsha.
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Kubaluleke kakhulu ukuba ungathathwa. Ngokuvamile, ukuphakama komsebenzi wokudlala kababa kuyisikhathi lapho izingane zidinga ukulala khona (akulula ukwenza lokho kamuva). Khumbula ukuthi eminyakeni engama-2 ukuya kwengu-4, izingane zilahlekelwa kalula ngokuzizwa kwemizwa yazo, njengothando, inzondo, ukwesaba. Abazicacisi ngokucacile phakathi kokungokoqobo nokungekho okungokoqobo. Uma ubaba edlala ibhere, khona-ke ingane kulokhu futhi empeleni ibheka ibhere. Lokhu kunamandla kakhulu kulowo mntwana. Ngakho-ke, imidlalo emidlame kufanele ibe yinto enhle-imvelo futhi iphile isikhathi esifushane, ngisho noma ingane icela okungaphezulu. Kubaluleke kakhulu ukuthi bangalandeli ukuphishekela noma balwe, kodwa bahlale ngaphakathi kwe-acrobatics.
Lawula nokuzithiba
Ubaba angalungisa kangcono ukuthi umntwana abe nemingcele yalokho okungeke kwenzeke futhi ayikwazi ukukwenza, ngokusekelwe esimweni esithile. Yiqiniso, kubi ukuphambanisa (nakuba ungase uhlabe ngezinye izikhathi), kodwa omunye akakwazi ukuphambanisa abadala - kuyoba nemiphumela emibi kakhulu, njengoba iphula imigomo yomphakathi. Ubaba ufundisa ingane ukuba ikwazi ukuzilawula futhi "ingamvumeli" ubuhlobo nabanye abantu.
Indlela "yokukhanya komgwaqo"
Ngokwempela, hlukanisa emasimini amathathu ukuhlola kokuziphatha kwengane futhi ulandele ngokucacile. Konke kuvunyelwe: ukudlala kunoma yiliphi igumbi, ukhuphukela kubazali bakho ekuseni ukulala, uthele amanzi ... - ungenza konke, kodwa ngesimo: uphonsa amathoyizi kuphela ekamelweni lakho, umeme izivakashi, uxwayise abazali, thatha ebhokisini kuphela ubuhlalu beplastiki .. .
Akunakwenzeka: ugijima ngaphesheya komgwaqo, udwebe ezindongeni, umeme, ume.
Imidlalo enobaba
Ekusebenzeni ngokomzimba:
1. Emva kokubeka ingane ebholeni ngesisu, bamba imilenze futhi uqhube phambili phambili, bese ubuyela emuva. Lokhu kusetshenziselwa ukuthuthukiswa kwezibambo kanye namahlombe. Uma izinyane likwazi ukubhekana nalesi sivivinyo kalula, ungamgcina ngemilenze, futhi uzohamba ngezandla zakhe. Kuyinto efiselekayo ukuthi umzimba womntwana ufana nendawo.
Intambo, intambo yokubeka ngendlela yombuthano "yindlu", lapho kungenzeka khona ukufihla. Kudingeka kwenziwe emakamelweni ahlukene. Bese uqala umdlalo wokubamba. Inhloso: ingane igijimela "endlini", lapho isivele isivikele khona. Khona-ke ungashintsha izindima ngeziqu. Emgwaqweni "izindlu" zingadonsa imibuthano (izigca) nge choki, esihlabathini, eqhweni.
Yiqiniso, obaba nabo bakhathazekile, kodwa baveza imizwa yabo ngokuqinile. Bakholelwa ukuthi kuphela ngokuzihlola ngokwakho ungafunda ukuzimela.
Umgwaqo ekhaya
Ukubuya kusukela ekuhambeni, cela ingane ikuyise ekhaya. Mnike ithuba lokuya lapho acabanga ukuthi kufanelekile, ngezikhathi ezithile ubuze imibuzo yokucacisa: "Futhi sasiba ne-birch eduze kwendlu, futhi lapha kukhona amagaraji." Phakamisa umqondo ngaye nomfanekiso wakho: isibonelo, ungosikhulu se-spacecraft efuna indlela eya ekhaya.
Abesilisa bavame ukulahla izingane ngezinto ezilula futhi ezingenabungozi (ukudlala nezinye izingane, ukukhetha izingubo ngokwabo), bezibona njengento. Bazisize bashintshe iphuzu lokubuka kuleli cala uma kufanele umama.